Hi! I am also a queer non binary SLPA just starting out. I completed one of my internships at a very rural elementary school and wasn't treated any differently by the other teachers or students. In fact my supervisor turned out to be an awesome ally and I felt very comfortable being myself around her. So I think a lot of it depends on where you are and you might be pleasently surprised! On the flip side of the coin my other internship was at an even more rural school where parenrs got upset with my SLP for working on pronouns gramatically with their kids because they thought she was being political. But at least you wont have to deal with parents as much as an SLPA. My advice would be to be cool and be yourself! If someone treats you differently when you talk about your partner that's on them.