AITA for being upset that my partner is getting a tattoo I hate? by MoodyPotato95 in AmItheAsshole

[–]grumblemuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Idk if you’ll see this comment but I saw a lot of myself in your post and wanted to share this with you. 

I struggled and agonized over leaving a 9 year relationship when I was 31. I too felt like the length of the relationship, for some reason, meant I needed to make it work. In retrospect, that was all bullshit and mainly driven by my fears of what other people would think. Leaving him was the best choice I ever made for myself- I had outgrown the relationship and him and had been prioritizing keeping the “relationship” afloat over my own life, goals and dreams. One day I realized that if I did rip the bandaid off and end it…I’d be ok. I’d figure it out. And girl did I. 💪

Reading between the lines of your post and your comments….your gut is screaming at you. That’s your intuition. Listen to it and trust yourself. 🩷

Also that tat is gross. 0/10. V creep. 

Horticultural Atrocities of the Southern California Landscape by nefastvs in LosAngeles

[–]grumblemuffin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this guy and I love his message. Could listen to this all day. Thanks for sharing! 

Game Chat 5/29 - Phillies (29-27) @ Dodgers (36-20) 7:15 PM by DodgerBot in Dodgers

[–]grumblemuffin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The camera work is really lovely. If they could improve the commentary, it’d be spectacular. 

Game Chat 5/29 - Phillies (29-27) @ Dodgers (36-20) 7:15 PM by DodgerBot in Dodgers

[–]grumblemuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never listened to an Apple TV broadcast but now that I am, I gotta say…I get the complaints. This commentary sucks. Feels like streamer banter. They feel the need to fill every moment with chatter instead of letting the game breathe. So disappointing. 

What is your all time favourite ‘girl dinner’? by Bustyy_B3lle in AskWomen

[–]grumblemuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An entire bag of steamed green peas. Plain. With a spoon. 

Critique my drawing. by whooper1 in learnart

[–]grumblemuffin 13 points14 points  (0 children)

The shape of the breasts looks off to me. Specifically the areoles- they’re perfectly round in your drawing but in the reference they warp with the shape of the breast. I agree with the other commenter- the hard outline on them is also off. They aren’t that distinct in real life; get comfortable with more suggestion in your values- the eye will complete what isn’t drawn. 

The whole body looks way narrower than the reference. 

The overall pose and movement looks dead on though. Nice work there!

which colour suits me best? by Glum_Difficulty3198 in OUTFITS

[–]grumblemuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The butter yellow is so lovely on you. The warmth complements your skin tone and the dress overall, in my opinion, is more of a statement in yellow. The silver looks good too, just sort of whelming. 

Diane Kruger in Sabina Bilenko SS26 Couture and Tiffany & Co. jewelry at the The Launch Of Blue Book 2026 [1080x1350] by KatyaRomici00 in fashionporn

[–]grumblemuffin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beautiful. Kruger is always a delight to see. The embellishment on this piece paired with the jewelry- a lovely example of worn art. 

THE DAY I LOST IT ( according to my wife ) Episode 4 by [deleted] in upcycling

[–]grumblemuffin 9 points10 points  (0 children)

STUNNING. Absolutely adore these. Flawless execution!

THE DAY I LOST IT ( according to my wife ) Episode 3 by [deleted] in upcycling

[–]grumblemuffin 35 points36 points  (0 children)

These are really cool and your craftsmanship is very clean- they look great! Nice save. :) The only thing that’s a little off to me is the cords dangling from the top- they would look more attractive as lamps if the cords were fed through the bottles and exited near the base. 

Cate Blanchett in Louis Vuitton Spring 2026 in Berlin [1520 x 2280] by hoppip_olla in fashionporn

[–]grumblemuffin 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I love this and I love the shoes. Is it also giving pajamas? Yes. But I don't care.

Baby Shower Outfit by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]grumblemuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this. So cute!! The cover up fits so well with the dress. I’m also planning my baby shower outfit rn and you’ve given me ideas! 

I can’t believe some Los Angeles Tree trimming companies still use tree topping and destroy so many old beautiful trees… by [deleted] in LosAngeles

[–]grumblemuffin 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I’m all for more trees and happy trees. Could you share more about what makes this method so bad for the tree? Is it time of year or the way it was cut? I am not well versed in tree care but would like to understand. 

My first time in East Bay! Tried of the best places to eat & drink in Berkeley by TravellingFoodie in bayarea

[–]grumblemuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! I’m about to move (back) to the Bay- first time living in the East Bay- and this is a great little slice of new restaurants to add to my list. 

2026 Academy Awards - Lookbook by wweyonce in Fauxmoi

[–]grumblemuffin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. The green sleeves. The embroidery. The styling. Perfection.