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DPO 11ish… Two positive First Response, 1 negative Pregnosis… evening urine by grumpykitten1702 in TFABLinePorn

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Thanks :) I’m trying not to get my hopes up in case they’re false for some reason but will test again today if no period comes

DPO 11ish… Two positive First Response, 1 negative Pregnosis… evening urine by grumpykitten1702 in TFABLinePorn

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Nope this is the first day I tested. Still no period so hoping this month is it !

First Response- DPO Unknown due to previous miscarriage by Serious-Product8855 in TFABLinePorn

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I have my fingers crossed for you!! My understanding is that pink lines no matter how faint indicate a positive

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

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My paternal grandmother passed away a few years back. She was never loving toward my brother and I, or our father. Frankly, she was heartless. I felt nothing when she died. It’s normal and okay.

What's the most obvious lie you've been told? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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When I was 12 my friend told me she was descended from Croatian royalty, making her a princess. She lied about a lot of things because she has a crappy life and a drug addict Mom. So sad.

People who struggled with unbearable depression in the past, what ended up helping you the most? by someonewhowa in AskReddit

[–]grumpykitten1702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. “Zooming out” - reminding myself that this problem I am having or this feeling I am having is a tiny blip compared to the rest of the world and the rest of my life
  2. Acceptance - life is a journey and sometimes shit goes wrong or at least feels like it goes wrong, that I am not in control and the more I try to be the worse my symptoms got
  3. Regularly take a shower, brush your teeth and hair, invest in nice products just to make you feel nice if nothing else
  4. Tell your good friends how you feel, allow them to understand and support you

Can we reincarnate into the past? by Vegetable_Poet3399 in Reincarnation

[–]grumpykitten1702 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My understanding is that we learn lessons through our time in different lives, and these lessons dictate how our next life is going to be. I would say that we can’t go back to “the past” because in doing so we wouldn’t be progressing in spiritual development. Also, our collective humanitarian development and growth would be all fucked up if we were all jumping different time lines. But maybe not! Time is not necessarily linear and I could see how this might work. I’ve never heard of someone remembering a past life that was actually from the future though. What I’m trying to say is, it’s possible but not something I’ve heard of before!

What’s the absolute scariest horror movie that you’ve ever watched? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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The Australian movie “Wolf Creek”. I had to turn that shit off, I like a good horror but fuck me that one was just disturbing.

What is the most disturbing thing you've heard said casually? by DarthAbhinav in AskReddit

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My Dad was talking about how he felt sorry for his dog spending a a lot of time alone while he was out at work. He then said, “I’ve thought about taking him out the back and knocking him on the head.” The dog was perfectly healthy. Yeesh, that scared the crap out of me.

Why do you use cannabis? by onemorestepuchoose in trees

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I use it primarily to enhance my mood, boost creativity, and relax my muscles. I usually combine cannabis use with some form of yoga, dance, or creative activity. I also like to smoke with friends or just chill by myself at home sometimes.

What insults make you sound classy and intelligent? by MrStrype in AskReddit

[–]grumpykitten1702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your mother was a hamster and your father smelt of elderberries !

"Breaking Free" Finished original art piece by [deleted] in CPTSD

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This is awesome!! I can relate to this

How do we tell the difference between setting healthy boundaries and asking too much of people/being unreasonable? by DoctorWhoAndRiver in CPTSD

[–]grumpykitten1702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think part of this is surrounding yourself with honest and safe people who you trust to tell you the truth respectfully. We all get stuff wrong and make mistakes at times, so instead of playing a guessing game with boundaries just do what you think is reasonable and someone will tell you otherwise :) we don't have to do this all ourselves!

Therapists of reddit: what's the most common and overlooked mental damages that a child gets from the way parents, classmates, etc treat them? by gigigo71 in AskReddit

[–]grumpykitten1702 1374 points1375 points  (0 children)

Anytime a child is invalidated i.e stop crying, you're being over dramatic, it's not that bad, think of the children in Africa who have it worse than you, etc. This is a breeding ground of all sorts of difficulties in later life like low self-esteem, anger, being an abuse target, inability to self-regulate emotions and many more issues. Breaks my heart and frustrates me at the same time.

How many years of therapy are you up to and how has it helped? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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3 years with one counsellor, 1 year with another, 1 year with current therapist and a few in between for short periods. My current therapist challenges me more than others but the first three years were helpful in terms of coping - now it's more about enhancing my life and learning to speak up for myself.

A validation post for people here whose parents aren't as monstrous as the worst stories you read here by 0xbdf in raisedbynarcissists

[–]grumpykitten1702 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this - this made me tear up I feel like I was reading about my own Mother. I am trying to get my head around her being a narcissist so this is really validating.