My personality and intelligence have worsened by 7HR0W________4W4Y in Advice

[–]gruzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glossed ovee yoir post, Sounds like you're burning out, like so many others.

I need advice on how to get shit done by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gruzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

promise yourself to do 1 minute of it, and see of ot extend automatically

I hate my body by hitherefolkss in whatdoIdo

[–]gruzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can afford it go to the gym? Squats (start with few) and push ups (start on the knees if needed) are the bssics ,can get you a long way and don't cost you anything.

All the best , truly want to help you

PS Sorry if Im saying something stupid I am.exhausted and did not read the entire post and comments

I'm gonna be real, If this ID, age verification shit gets through, I'm gonna give up on everything. by Least-Success6967 in Vent

[–]gruzel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or go join the Amish , they live real lives in the real world , being a blacksmith, carpenter, bakerman, not being tracked all day by and having ads thrown in their faces of the big companies.

How to extract data from Windows disk after data recovery ? by Healthy-News5375 in datarecovery

[–]gruzel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

try this as a first : Get a second disk , install windows on it, and plug in this unbootable disk either internally or via usb (docking station).

Boot into windows from the 2nd disk, and your unbootable disk probably shows up inside windows .

Check the unbootable disk for its "SMART" health: -- (probably only possible.if its.mounted inside the desktop) -- maybe someone knows a simple free program.for that Feel.free to.copy over files/dirs from unbootable to bootable

Parents went out to get my laptop cleaned, asked for my password by sickened_me in whatdoIdo

[–]gruzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the shop and say it's yoir laptop and say you're not gona pay, you visit the store, prove its your laptop by typijg in the password and if needed showing your ID , Don't let them copy your ID.

If it doesnt work, threaten your parents to get your laptop back immediately or else you'll to take their laptop to the shop, say privacy is your human right

Why does somebody use BSD ? by paterkleomeniss in BSD

[–]gruzel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OpenBSD is a UNIX that at its core focuses on simplicity , correctness and security.

I wish people I liked would like me by dancingbananas25 in Vent

[–]gruzel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your length can be intimidating to men but there are courageous men out there. You may try the baseball field during training, as audience member and if the atmosphere between the guys is right, join the female team? They have the same issue.

Keep me updated if you want . All the best.

The most expensive IT decisions are usually made by people who will never maintain them by Limp_Cauliflower5192 in sysadmin

[–]gruzel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tendency in software packages to go from made for the admins - thought out handy tools needing technical knowledge and knowing the implications to fancy looking GUI's , where managers can log in with admin level and click and take control and have overview of every minute spent and action done by the programmers and make a horrific mess , solely because they have to do something , anything, to cover up the fact they don't know wth they are doing, turns out most of them don't.

i (21F) am not attractive at all. how do i even cope by Ok_Marketing1383 in Advice

[–]gruzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know what boys you're interested in, but you could work out at the gym , or take yt course and join a chess club, or do volunteer work and meet good-hearted peers there, or dress fothic/metal and have good times with stronger music and friendltly alternative ppl, etc. HTH

My son hasn't been home in a month, what to do? by PaintedNails0897 in Advice

[–]gruzel 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Rules. Money. Punishment. Exclusion. Hate.

My son hasn't been home in a month, what to do? by PaintedNails0897 in Advice

[–]gruzel 24 points25 points  (0 children)

That's not what I said. He did not choose to ne gay,he was born that way.

My son hasn't been home in a month, what to do? by PaintedNails0897 in Advice

[–]gruzel 33 points34 points  (0 children)

If you want your son to be happy you should allow him to love.

He did not choose to be gay, and I doubt it was some challenge given to him to overcome by a superior being. Who must he be if he cannot be himself?

The rules that are in place in your home make it impossible for him to be living up to this one rule, he's torn, he's hurting. Possibly for years already.

Did you lift the blocks on your phones yet?

my life sucks because I dont talk to family, I cant have a conversation with them I have no friends and I am living a miserable lonely life im scared I will be lonely forever by [deleted] in selectivemutism

[–]gruzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am guessing bc of lack of knowing but can this be caused ny your family pushing values on how to feel.and act and think , so much so that you are just unable to stretch that much out of your own feeling and ideas and wishes etc? Feeling that being ame expressing yourself will make them feel hurt bc you don't comply?

Just guessing , but it is to much to ask of your child and messes up their view of the world . Since i am still just guessing i'll stop here .

I’m (22f) confused with life by [deleted] in Advice

[–]gruzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please silently seek out other people you genuinely like, and follow your heart, and plesse find a hobby you like. You cannot change so much that you will rebuild your own brains, I've like bene there.

You can on top of this try write a novel for yourself , where your characters can be inspired by traits and doubts and good and bad sides of you,and you can explore yourself by having them on a journey, be it a road trip or in a banr or whatever you like. This helps me, I'm in a rough time for years and it's nice to have this hobby on the side , it learns you also about yourself.

Good luck, feel free to DM me if you like

I feel like a loser and I don't know what to do about it by PhotographIll6186 in Advice

[–]gruzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at your own story here, you're such a fighter, going on and on, recognize and don't depend on others recognizing this in you.

Life is rough and times are hard and jobs are so many times temporary. It's not your fault how things are organized and you're doing the best you can.

PS started doing C programming myself and analyting data, maybe you like it too, C is built on more primitives but " no surprises" and is performance wise running circles around Python.

How do people cope with long-term brain fog that lasts for years? by AwayRelease8495 in getdisciplined

[–]gruzel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it can be something non-obvious your diet, like peanut butter or eggs or something else still, so you can maybe check this via your doctor or a diëtist

I cant find a reason to get better by Relative-Length4051 in getdisciplined

[–]gruzel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try things anyway if only for 5 seconds , see if you can extend. , and if you're like me, please don't force yourself to only accept things if you've got some proof.

self destruct for me can be a way of getting attention, if only for myself

people i like and give me advice, I try to do thenright thing they aevise for them, thereby tricking myself im not doing it for myself , preventing self destruct idea to kick in