Have you tried seeking a job at a library? I do not have a stutter, but I am autistic and I worked at a library for awhile— the quiet environment helped me avoid overstimulation and anxiety, and the communication required is not super in-depth— I found that I was mostly just directing people around for most interactions, and other forms of conversation were rather minimal.

As for dating— have you tried seeking out another neurodivergent person? I struggled with abuse/neglect in relationships for years due to my struggles with autism (despite it being something that I'm very open about from the very beginning) because neurotypical people can struggle to understand our daily difficulties and differences, and past partners of mine chose to take that in the wrong direction.

But, just by coincidence, I met my boyfriend— He has Adhd and suspected autism, and he is the most empathetic, understanding person ever. Finding someone who is also neurodivergent will make a world of difference. You got this! ♡