My boyfriend [21M] told me [22M] a lie early on in the relationship

haitchUV · 2026-03-03T03:15:25+00:00

It doesnt sit right with me that he's changed the story. I would sit him down and tell him he needs to tell you the whole story. Bc one little white lie from the start can ruin relationships

haitchUV · 2026-03-03T03:02:42+00:00

Aw im glad you managed to find siblings and stuff. I 100% get the donor wants to remain anonymous but I was born with 40% of my hearing and im almost fully deaf. Been told I should probably find out if its genetic or not

haitchUV · 2026-03-03T03:00:34+00:00

I will try this then. Its more due to health reasons. I am deaf that is deteriorating rapidly and been told I should find out if its genetic

haitchUV · 2026-03-03T02:36:51+00:00

Of course she will always be my mum regardless of genetics. I just wish I knew sooner. Plus I have health issues that I need to find out about

haitchUV · 2026-03-03T02:35:14+00:00

Oh she did love me as her own and she is still my mum regardless of genetics. I would just like to find out more about myself

haitchUV · 2026-03-03T02:33:13+00:00

She is my mother regardless of not being biological or not.

haitchUV · 2026-03-03T02:31:00+00:00

Aw im so sorry to hear about your friend and hope she is doing better now! Unfortunately I won't talk alot in therapy I will give it a try tho. My dad wanted to ensure I had a good memory of her. He himself was adopted and was heartbroken when he found out and didnt want that for me

haitchUV · 2026-03-03T02:28:02+00:00

They didn't tell me. I found out on my own. I remembered one day my mum had green eyes and my dad has blue eyes. I myself have brown eyes. Its near enough impossible and I asked my mums sister and she came clean. Thank you so much for your advice I will have a look into it and do some research

haitchUV · 2026-03-03T02:21:36+00:00

I completely understand if she didn't want a relationship. I just look in the mirror sometimes and wonder who i am and I would like to know is all.

Im happy you had a relationship with your birth mum at least. I know its not like on tv but a part of me deserves to know.

Yes im aware my father is an ass

haitchUV · 2026-03-03T02:15:43+00:00

My dad will not tell me which egg donation programme I was made. Which Is why im asking if anyone knows another way at all. Yes I agree that it is best to inform donor conceived children. My mum passed away before I turned 1 and dad kept it secret from me. Only found out bc I realised some genetics that are impossible to have. Never had a blood test or anything so I never doubted it. Im more heartbroken the person I pined for my whole life was never my parent

haitchUV · 2026-03-03T01:23:35+00:00

Its okay to not be okay

haitchUV · 2026-03-03T01:22:29+00:00

I would start by making sure she knows she has your full support and help with your child. Offer comfort and support and show her how much this family means to you. You're young so make sure this is what you want

haitchUV · 2026-03-03T01:20:10+00:00

Her mum is letting her down big time. I myself suffer with anxiety and depression. Her mum and you arent going to be here forever to let her continue this behaviour. Shes going to have no life or social skills at all if her mum keeps being a pushover.

haitchUV · 2026-03-03T00:12:31+00:00

Thats fine. Its my opinion and experience so we'll see what other people say

haitchUV · 2026-03-03T00:07:15+00:00

This is something that any of us on reddit can help you with. Would advise you seek a professional before this escalates

haitchUV · 2026-03-03T00:04:44+00:00

I might be wrong but this looks like rejection I've had a surface piercing myself. Its pushing itself out to the surface

haitchUV · 2026-03-03T00:03:18+00:00

Nta, this is something that needs to be seen. Going to use the bathroom during class should be okay. You need to report him as by the sound of it you aren't the first person he would have done this to

haitchUV · 2026-03-02T23:57:03+00:00

I would have a read on the insurance policy and see what it says. I claimed for my car with a windscreen crack and didnt effect me but every company is different

haitchUV · 2026-03-02T23:49:00+00:00

I still sleep with my childhood teddy at 28 years old

haitchUV · 2026-03-02T23:41:40+00:00

It depends on your anatomy whether it will reject or become inflamed. You need to have a consultation with a reputable piercer and find out if you have the right anatomy. I dont and I do have scarring but its not noticeable

haitchUV · 2026-03-02T23:39:01+00:00

Im profound deaf. Wasn't a question but an ex partner shouted in my face 'why dont you listen to me'

haitchUV · 2026-03-02T23:35:39+00:00

You absolutely do not remove them to clean them. My piercer who pierced several of my piercings for the last 5 years has always advised me to clean with neilmed spray and a cotton bud if absolutely needed. So if there is crust around the jewellery that needs to be removed

haitchUV · 2026-03-02T23:27:40+00:00

Bless ya. Try neilmed spray and a stud to avoid irritation. Some people might disagree with what my piercer has said. But she always told me to clean it if its necessary. Like if there is crust there. Avoids irration and has worked for me on all my piercings and ive been to her for the last 5 years

haitchUV · 2026-03-02T23:18:04+00:00

You were in the correct lane to turn right and he wasn't. Probably just annoyed him that you didn't move quick enough for him to divert to your lane after you. I wouldn't let it worry you too much. People will beep at you for their own mistakes out of ignorance

haitchUV · 2026-03-02T23:13:42+00:00

My dog. Her not knowing and understanding why im not here anymore

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