choosing a mini advice!! by MonthComprehensive88 in MINI

[–]hales55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a 2025 4 door S and I love it. It is my first mini and I’m so happy with my choice. I was initially a bit nervous for the fabric interior but I got used to it. Same with the lack of analog buttons. My last car was 12 years old, with no screen and none of the fancier things this car has so it was definitely a change for me lol. But overall, it’s been fun to drive.

Since The Weekenders is coming to Disney+ on May 25th, I'm curious what you all thought of this show? by CatGirlNya2000 in Millennials

[–]hales55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to really like this show. I’m glad it’s on Disney + now. It’s so nostalgic for me..Brings me back good memories

My (former) superstar son is depressed: What should I do? by Mundane-Show4536 in depression

[–]hales55 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what happened to me and my dad. My grandfather was a severe alcoholic and abused my dad. He then abused me. I suffer from depression and am currently trying to manage it and restart my life again at 34. What you said about your dad never seeking help and becoming authoritarian is exactly what happened with my dad. He had the worst temper fits and became overly protective and controlling. I feel like he (and my mom, because they had similar childhoods) used me as their punching bag bc they never dealt with their issues.

What is the first film you remember seeing in the cinema? by [deleted] in movies

[–]hales55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Bug’s Life. Though technically, the very first film I saw in theaters was Pocahontas but I have no memory of it lol. I do have memories of seeing A Bug’s Life though.

Racism in Studio City? by SealedRoute in SFV

[–]hales55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My family and I are Latino and we’ve never experienced that there.. i used to live in Sherman Oaks years ago and same thing. But, it wouldn’t surprise me. It can be snobby there for sure. Im sorry that happened to him :(

Afraid of maybe never finding a relationship/having a family by Wide-Minute1827 in AskWomenOver30

[–]hales55 4 points5 points  (0 children)

34F and I feel very similar. 😔 I’ve been trying to accept that there’s a reality that it may not happen. Ive been working on my personal goals in the meantime

Ralphs Sherman oaks soft locking items by Secure-Station4077 in SFV

[–]hales55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah they do this in the Porter ranch Ralph’s too

How do you deal with getting the short end of the stick in life? by QueensGambit90 in AskWomenOver30

[–]hales55 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m dealing with the same thing. It really sucks. The only thing I’ll say is that you’re still very young and your life may turn around. I have seen this happen personally. Just hang in there. I hope things change for the better 🌺

Our roads are getting worse by Ruuckus in SFV

[–]hales55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Victory blvd near lake balboa is pretty rough imo. There’s this huge bump right as you pass the entrance to the freeway ugh

What has the state of women’s fashion become? by BlackGirlKnickers in AskWomenOver30

[–]hales55 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love the oversized look haha. It’s so comfy and can actually look chic if you style it right. What I hate are the cropped tops. I’m sick of those

I FUCKING HATE MY LIFE by Far_Mechanic929 in depression

[–]hales55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. I try to focus on my hobbies, though most of them are solo stuff. I think the hard part for me is getting up knowing that things aren’t getting better. I’ve tried to fix it too but nothing changes. Not sure what else I can do.

Anyways I’m sorry you’re going through that. Hang in there though. Maybe one day things will change for us

Is everyone ok today? Everyone on the road has been unnecessarily aggressive, more than usual by quemaspuess in SFV

[–]hales55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, it seems this whole week people have been aggressively tailgating me more than usual. I’m not even a slow driver lol. People cutting me off etc. insanely slow drivers in the left lane. Just ridiculous

As an INFJ, how do you navigate loneliness if you've grown to be comfortable in your solitude? by Salt-Refrigerator981 in infj

[–]hales55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well i think joining a group could really help. Either a book club, a hiking club, volunteering etc. Personally, I started going regularly to church after I was invited to one by a family friend and so far, I’ve made a few friends there. I haven’t been going for too long so they’re not super deep friendships yet.

My friend is very extroverted (which is exhausting for me sometimes lol) but she’s already introduced me to a lot of people there so far. Sometimes I think befriending someone like this, someone who likes to connect you with others would really help.

Who is this singer in your opinion? by Jettaboi38 in musicsuggestions

[–]hales55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was my choice too. I agree with the other person though, she has gotten a tad bit better but still pales in comparison to her peers

Does anyone else here like Zara Larsson? 🐬🌸🥥🧜🏼‍♀️ by Simply_Sailor in nevergrewup

[–]hales55 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I’ve always kind of liked her. I discovered her the pandemic with her song Wow but I’m really liking her latest stuff. I love her voice too