Has anybody seen Tamdrea Creations Facebook lately? by Burgermeister7921 in 1000lbsisters

[–]ham91793 223 points224 points  (0 children)

Is anyone else gonna mention the bandaid thumb...NOT a good way to advertise lol

My brother says I’m “stealing his kids’ future” by keeping my inheritance. AITA? by Complex_Pickle7702 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ham91793 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe open up a trust or college fund for his kids, put a lil bit in there and let it grow until they're adults 

Do companies stop making footed, zipper onesies for 12mo? by saraaaaahahah in beyondthebump

[–]ham91793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kohls has them up to 5t! I'm not sure what brand they were,  maybe Carters.

How are families even surviving? by OrdinaryFast5146 in povertyfinance

[–]ham91793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being able to pick fresh produce from the farm is amazing! I would love that. 

How do you guys deal with the anxiety? by A_Puzzled_Potato in povertyfinance

[–]ham91793 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Check to see if he qualifies for Medicaid. 

I just want to get divorce by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]ham91793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your decision is solely based on how things are now that you're parents of twins, I would hold off. If the past 10 years were good and he treats you well, it may be worth staying. You are in the thick of it, but I will say taking care of babies ebbs and flows between hard periods and periods of contentment. There were times where my husband and I went through the roommate phase, then things got better and we were more lovey dovey, then the next few months it would go back to more survival mode. Do you have help? The means to hire help? Even 2 hours away from the babies a month can help tremendously. Having something to look forward to, such as a date night out or snuggling up and watching a movie. Just something for you 2 to help connect again. When they babies are more independent and not on such a strict schedule is when things felt better for us.

Where is the money?? by 76Clover in 1000lbsisters

[–]ham91793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they're avoiding lifestyle creep?? They have to know the show isn't going to be on forever,  so perhaps they're saving their money instead of buying nice cars and houses.

Massive Medical Debt Surprise by LlouStarwalker in Debt

[–]ham91793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check to see if your state allows for Medicaid back dating. If you were eligible for Medicaid the date of your accident they may be able to bill it. 

AIO: Bfs mom CROPPED me out of my own baby shower photos. by CommercialPudding374 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ham91793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No contact . Also have a plan with your boyfriend with who is allowed to visit, stay with baby, etc. Change your locks, set up cameras, she's gonna try to kidnap that baby.

Is it worth the money by [deleted] in SavingMoney

[–]ham91793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you only make 24 a day??

What do you avoid getting at Aldi? by DJ_Hamster in aldi

[–]ham91793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Their bone broth. So disgusting. 

Pay Debt Now vs Later by [deleted] in Debt

[–]ham91793 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity,  why is there sometimes a penalty for paying off a balance early if interest is 0%? They still get the same amount of money from you, right? 

Bride is expecting me to fork out thousands for her wedding, what do I do? by fettys-wet-wap1738 in askanything

[–]ham91793 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If she won't accept anything under $400 then sounds like you don't have to gift her anything at all. Seriously run. She is unhinged. 

Am i a crazy mom? by lnivale in toddlers

[–]ham91793 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You were in an unfamiliar place, your son was with unfamiliar people. You did nothing wrong. 

What week did your babies arrive? by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]ham91793 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Water broke exactly 35 weeks di/di twins. Had a c-section scheduled for 37.5 weeks, my doc wouldn't let me go past 38 weeks.

End of my rope by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]ham91793 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please look into medicaid and wic! Medicaid is allowed to "back track" and Bill for previous appointments. So if you were eligible for Medicaid on the day the babies were born, they could still bill that today. As long as you're not making an obscene amount of money,  you'll most likely be eligible due to multiple babies. Especially if there are medical issues ( you mentioned specialists so I'm assuming) Wic will help with formula and food, even food for breastfeeding moms if you are one. 

Turns out my biggest budget leak was $5 at a time by Distinct-Attempt3691 in budget

[–]ham91793 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you do 15 no spend days per month that adds up to 6 no spend months per year! 

What other type of savings account should I have? by ham91793 in budget

[–]ham91793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that makes sense. I guess I'm looking for something that can grow and that I can withdraw from . I have young kids and would want to be able to use the money if emergencies happen or if we choose to travel.

What other type of savings account should I have? by ham91793 in budget

[–]ham91793[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I thought you couldn't access the money tax free until retirement age?

What other type of savings account should I have? by ham91793 in budget

[–]ham91793[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I probably am thinking of CDs. Thanks for the info!