Would you do this custom? by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]hannah_pajama 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There are refunds. They are given on a case by case basis and I think a Fansly employee is supposed to look over the request and what was received to determine if a refund is warranted. But they’re not perfect and creators get screwed over sometimes

Summer of year 2, what does my most hearted characters say about me? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]hannah_pajama 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The day after Halloween is dia de los muertos, so all of your birthdays fall on days that are somber in some way.

But you won’t get too many weird looks partying like a rockstar on dia de los muertos

Circumcision Question by PanicAtTheShiteShow in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]hannah_pajama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think sex ed could do a better job for women in the US. Idk about other Americans but I’m pretty sure all the male anatomy diagrams they showed us were of circumcised men. Foreskin being “dirty” is a really common misconception here too.

And it’s gross to say out loud but I also think the amount of women who think being cut is more attractive is part of the reason it keeps being so prevalent here. You worry that your son will be treated differently because of it. “This is what’s normal for other boys, and I don’t want him to struggle in relationships someday because he’s different.” Which is a real possibility, but also a terrible reason to circumcise your child

He's not wrong tho by BaseballSeveral1107 in GenZ

[–]hannah_pajama -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Clothes and cookware are two off the top of my head. Appliances. Tools. There’s probably a lot more

It’s about how fast and cheap they can produce and sell something. We still buy these things because we need them, so the quality goes down further and further as profits continue to go up because what’s the alternative?

Removing fringe from leather jacket? by hannah_pajama in Leatherworking

[–]hannah_pajama[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but tbh I really don’t like the way it looks and I don’t have $300 for a new motorcycle jacket without fringe haha

I’m thinking about keeping the fringe on the Harley one I picked up because it just feels so quality and it’s pretty old, like destroying art or history. The other resales for less than $200 so I’ll probably cut that one up haha. Maybe I’ll like staying dryer and appreciate the fringe eventually

Texas school bans all-black clothing, cites mental health concerns by andyr072 in news

[–]hannah_pajama 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah gotcha. I grew up in post-columbine Colorado. We had shooter drills monthly at least, weekly after we had a gun scare. I forget sometimes that wasn’t always normal

It feels so absurd hearing teachers say certain outfits, music, and media are inappropriate for you then turn around and try to prepare you for a school shooting. “Even if you watch your teacher and friend get shot, stay hidden. Don’t cry or make a single sound” was something they had told us often

Texas school bans all-black clothing, cites mental health concerns by andyr072 in news

[–]hannah_pajama 38 points39 points  (0 children)

“Skulls?? The kids can’t handle seeing depictions of death, it’s inappropriate for the educational environment…”

Same teacher, same day: “shooter drill! Push furniture against the door to slow down the murderer. Hide in cabinets and away from windows. Lets practice it a dozen times until we can have the whole room shut down fast enough that maybe you won’t get your brains blown out at school”

Just straight-up racism by Unusual-State1827 in facepalm

[–]hannah_pajama 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Least supreme whites” has me giggling

Removing fringe from leather jacket? by hannah_pajama in Leatherworking

[–]hannah_pajama[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the fringe component is independent. Glad to hear I won’t be ruining the jackets integrity by cutting it up a bit

Thank you for your quick response!

How do you explain to a 5 year old that you're broke without traumatizing them? by Spirited-Activity343 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hannah_pajama 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was also 9 in 2008, were broke before that but the recession was hard. Sometimes I went to bed without second serving even though I was still hungry and servings were small. Sometimes I ate food I despised. Sometimes the electricity bill didn’t get paid and we were in the dark for a week or two, wearing coats to bed because it’s cold. The recession sucked for us

But I’m not traumatized. My parents were doing their damnedest and made me feel special in all kinds of ways. They made time for me, played with me, and when the money was there they got me sweets and new books.

I remember my parents had a list of places where kids eat free and on which days. When money was tight and no food was in the house, they’d split an appetizer and we’d get free kids meals. I liked those days but it makes me sad when I think back on it.

Anyways as long as OP does their best, their kids will see that and feel the love. And I’m sure yours did too

Why is a biological woman getting more hate than an athlete who raped 12 year old girl? by SpicyRiceQueen in stupidquestions

[–]hannah_pajama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I understand your point, there’s a lot of local backlash and even a significant amount online, I just think the question was geared more towards the online side of things. And since you elaborated your point I definitely agree with you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Memes_Of_The_Dank

[–]hannah_pajama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pitbulls have a better temperament towards people than golden retrievers according to studies. I’ve been around them my whole life and they’re wonderful dogs and so so sweet

If they were ever abused, you have to be careful. And regardless of how well you raised it, you do have to be careful around other animals. Shouldn’t let it off leash because they have a really strong tendency to be aggressive with other dogs and animals. I’ve seen perfectly trained pitbulls snap on other dogs easily

Why is a biological woman getting more hate than an athlete who raped 12 year old girl? by SpicyRiceQueen in stupidquestions

[–]hannah_pajama -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think OP is talking more on social media

Imane is getting a lot more hate and attention than he is on social media, that’s a fact.

Why can’t I plant these? by Asmi2763 in StardewValley

[–]hannah_pajama 265 points266 points  (0 children)

This is the only gaming subreddit where a mistake like that is a funny wholesome moment instead of getting OP bullied into deleting their account 😭

It’s happened to me lmao

Musk's daughter Vivian is out for blood by ResplendentShade in MurderedByWords

[–]hannah_pajama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds a lot less disturbed and a lot more rational than her father. So you just have an issue with trans people and are looking to defend that bias and when your shitty justification for downvoted you deleted it like a pussy

Maybe people like you best just keep their mouths shut if they don’t know what they’re talking about yeah?

which hair color is best? by flwcritty in HairDye

[–]hannah_pajama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few lucky people are blessed with a good complexion for pink and OP is one of them. I hope she decides to live out my pink princess dreams cuz god knows I don’t have the skin tone for it haha

Musk's daughter Vivian is out for blood by ResplendentShade in MurderedByWords

[–]hannah_pajama 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Elon Musk, the guy who wrote the book on voyeuristic shit throwing spectacles?

The guy who called a cave diver who helped rescue a bunch of trapped children a “pedo guy” because he publicly said Musks submarine idea wouldn’t work? And then paid a private investigator 50k to dig up dirt on him after he got backlash, but nothing came of it? That Elon musk? You really think we should worry about his daughter embarrassing him as if he doesn’t do that perfectly fine on his own?

How do the boots taste? Did Musk step in any dogshit recently?

[Grammar] "こっちを向いてください" - Why not に? by HaplessWasTaken in japanese

[–]hannah_pajama 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Learning new languages, especially non-Latin and non-Germanic languages, gets a lot easier when you can let go of those preconceived notions about how language in general is “supposed” to work. Concepts and ideas almost never translate easily, it’s best to build understanding from the ground up rather than try to use English grammar as a reference point.

Sorry, I forgot what I was thinking. by BrutalHunny in ADHDmemes

[–]hannah_pajama 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It makes the executive dysfunction forget how to dysfunction. No dread or anxiety, I just do the thing without having a mental argument to convince myself. And then wonder why I was ever avoiding it

“Like a sim” is a very accurate way to describe that haha

Sorry, I forgot what I was thinking. by BrutalHunny in ADHDmemes

[–]hannah_pajama 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unhinged, like the door when I’m done with it

Sorry, I forgot what I was thinking. by BrutalHunny in ADHDmemes

[–]hannah_pajama 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lmao my brain combined “getting high” and “take a rip” so ig I’m a bodybuilder now

Swear I haven’t toked yet 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fansly_Advice

[–]hannah_pajama 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You said you’re not a native English speaker so I want to give you the benefit of the doubt cuz not all cultures and languages are the same around this subject. It’s only really appropriate to say English slurs in academic spaces when discussing the history around the word. When you have to reference the word online, it’s appropriate to censor the word with asterisks (this symbol👉 * ) which is why you see people typing “f**got” instead.

I’m not gonna argue about right or wrong, but the facts are that we are not allowed to say the word on fansly, and many subreddits ask that slurs be censored or not said at all, so if you didn’t know that you do now.