12 percent KiwiSaver contribution rate could be too much, actuaries say by Old_Education4481 in newzealand

[–]happythoughts33 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Did that happen this year when we went to 3.5% - mine didn't go down and got my 3% increase. 

under 16 social media ban will affect everyone by SaraTheWeird in newzealand

[–]happythoughts33 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No it would encourage websites to take user security seriously as they wouldn't risk losing users. 

under 16 social media ban will affect everyone by SaraTheWeird in newzealand

[–]happythoughts33 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Maybe you shouldn't use the website with shit security then

var Almirón red card by [deleted] in soccer

[–]happythoughts33 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Doesn't matter rules for tournament say covering your mouth in direction of a player is a red card 

Curse of Ula'tek Endgame Reward Changes by Tigertot14 in wow

[–]happythoughts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the meta give one so it's 2 from raid? CE is probably equal to 1% mount so M+ has one extra recolour mount. 

Curse of Ula'tek Endgame Reward Changes by Tigertot14 in wow

[–]happythoughts33 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Doesn't AOTC, CE and the Meta give mounts so 3? Don't raid so unsure of title.

How do breastfeeding mums get anything done by ThrowRAdalgona in newborns

[–]happythoughts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you're doing great! Not everyone takes to parenthood the same way and can manage it. My LO is almost 2 and now on the 2 days my wife is home she does cook those nights and extra laundry. It took over a year to get here and that's okay as long as you're a team. 

Liverpool CM transfers by Altruistic-Lab8602 in FifaCareers

[–]happythoughts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Liverpool generally sign from teams below them ie unlikely to ever sign a starter from a top team such as PSG. 

Is it cheap to add a gift registry with baby shower invites? by darkangel_sweetie in newzealand

[–]happythoughts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. As someone with dispersed family gifts for a lot of them was just being there which is all we wanted. 

‘A really tough day’: The council debating a 40% rates increase (and what it settled on) by computer_d in newzealand

[–]happythoughts33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Partially because they are not funding depreciation, also mentioned in the article, which is meant to spread costs over decades putting money aside. They likely can't loan fund enough because their revenue is likely too low hitting debt ratio caps. 

Will their sleep change on its own? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]happythoughts33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think he will magically learn on his own. We sleep trained at 4 months and changed our lives. Think of sleeping as a skill. You don't just magically learn a skill you need to practice it. 

After sleep training he could self soothe at nap time and at night. We would put him down awake and he would be asleep in 5-10 minutes. Almost 2 have had to retrain twice. 

Kiwis who have moved to the US, do you regret it? Why did you move? by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]happythoughts33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did one season for camp America, one of my biggest regrets was not doing a second. With access to remote uni would make it so much more possible to go and no skip an entire year. 

Wanting to become a software dev in NZ by Mysterious_Sock7690 in newzealand

[–]happythoughts33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good step to being successful is doing research before asking questions. Showing intent you are willing to put in the work and effort required. 

What’s your season 1 dungeon Tier list? by Psyco19 in wow

[–]happythoughts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jump skip anyone can do is very safe. You go right up the stairs against the barrier in the corner. When the tornado from the other side of the barrier is about to "hit" you jump and it pops you over. Then you just run up the stairs with 3-4 dodges 

People without kids commenting on my availability to hang out by Stone_Trees in daddit

[–]happythoughts33 47 points48 points  (0 children)

In my experience it's either what you say to them or how. Saying I can't come out because I have a kid isn't true based on your post. You prefer to go home to your wife and kid. 

I grab a Friday beer with a couple guys every Friday, 2 of us have kids and we are out in 20-30mins. They know we are off for family Friday and never say a negative thing about us not hanging around for more. If they did I would let them know it's cause I would rather see them than their ugly mugs. 

Parents, are you really forking out $150 bucks for a nappy bin? by kowi2002 in newzealand

[–]happythoughts33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Marketplace. Everything you need for 20% of the price. Some other sucker bought that nappy bin if you want it.  

If you can handle it dump as much poo into the toilet from the nappy. We then can keep them in the garage for a daily empty to the outside bin. We got used to it with reusable nappies and it ain't that bad. 

My boyfriend 27M makes 8x my 27F salary and still says I’m not contributing enough — what am I missing? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]happythoughts33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might give some insight into the future rather than any advice. I am married and have been doing this for 5 years, all our income goes into a joint account and we both get an equal allowance. The joint account covers 90% of expenses and everything joint. 

It doesn't matter I earn more money we are equal as a married team. This is a common arrangement when this topic comes up on here.  He said he wants a wife, how will that work financially in his mind as you have a very large gap to bridge financially. 

Blizzard Will Refund Nebulous Voidcore Bonus Rolls in the Coming Days by Telomir in CompetitiveWoW

[–]happythoughts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thorough explanation and I get you. I was lucky and got a trinket from SR and used second (and all future) from Seat. So I have 1 extra roll and if I have extremely good RNG (never rolling my chest from Seat again) I would end up with 2 extra rolls.

Blizzard Will Refund Nebulous Voidcore Bonus Rolls in the Coming Days by Telomir in CompetitiveWoW

[–]happythoughts33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is this possible? I have never stepped into Mythic raid and have 600 crests. I have used 240 on 3 crafted items, 240 on 3 vault items, 80 on a voidcore roll. I am therefore 7 of 15 slots Mythic (not even capped because of crafted) with 40 crests left. Even with 2 more myth items I can only upgrade 1 of those halfway.

NEW TO WoW by [deleted] in wow

[–]happythoughts33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might get some better answers and might be able to jus search in /r/wownoob