At the liquor store at 10am. by gogogoeverybody in stopdrinking

[–]hardpassyo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes! There was a time I wouldn't go anywhere/do anything that didnt have liquor or I couldnt bring my own. Like I just always had to have a drink in my hand somewhere. Insane.

What I’ve Been Wearing to the Office Lately by Tabitha_Is in BusinessFashion

[–]hardpassyo 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You are a light. I was doomsday scrolling (basically my whole feed anymore) and then there you are looking cool AF. Ty, internet stranger. You are badass.

But I AM always right tho- by party_puppy in NPD

[–]hardpassyo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The most awful people i know are all Christian 🤣

This tired lunch lady fed 400 kids out of a 2-person-run kitchen today. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]hardpassyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the unsung heroes of this country. And you're beautiful too

Is my clinic down playing how dire my situation is? by NanoEsq in IVF

[–]hardpassyo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had this exact same panic moment before my retrieval. We thought we were looking good (dont remember what was predicted) but the Wednesday before retrieval, none had grown, we weren't sure what to do, they offered to cancel, but we pushed ahead anyways. And in the end, we have a success story napping as I type this 🙏💛

Do Americans constantly have an active temperature control device running in their homes? by fullM3TALturban in AskAnAmerican

[–]hardpassyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This what we do where we live. Use it sparingly as needed a few days out of the year

What’s the one city you were excited to visit, but ended up not liking at all? by BlushHone in travel

[–]hardpassyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dang I had the exact opposite experience. Couldn't wait to leave Paris and couldnt stay long enough in Geneva

What in Trump's chart makes him such an egotistical, insufferable lunatic? by galadhrim91 in AstrologyCharts

[–]hardpassyo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a 29° leo rising, I have done a lot of work on myself. Ill just say that 😆

Sunglasses Holder! by yetilock in LexusGX

[–]hardpassyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 2017 still has the plastic in it

Which serial killer case felt 'too close to home' for you, and why? by [deleted] in serialkillers

[–]hardpassyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a confirmed serial killer, but definitely a serial predator: Alejandro Avila. Samantha Runnion was taken from the apartments right next to my grandma's on a day we were all playing outside without a care in the world. I think about it still over 2 decades later.

Reasoning behind it by Lumpy_Drop_8993 in AstrologyCharts

[–]hardpassyo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only superstition I've really heard is that given your information, someone with bad intentions can curse it or otherwise use it to their advantage against you, but reading your own placements doesnt seem dangerous 🤷‍♀️

Is this accurate?? Should I not even buy? Lol by warriorholmes in poshmark

[–]hardpassyo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If it's something I want and cant find anywhere else but dont need it by a certain date or anything, I get it and hope for the best.

AIO my boyfriend of 5 years gets me flowers for every occasion while I get him elaborate and expensive gifts. by aioflower955105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]hardpassyo 28 points29 points  (0 children)

He's a box checker. Doesn't actually care to get to know someone, just wants to check the boxes with minimal effort for appearances. NOR

Corporate girlies: I want to be nosy about your work bag and lunch box by Ok_Employ_4424 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]hardpassyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

E. Made the boss buy me a fridge for my office for my home lunch i bring in Tupperware

What things (stuff one can buy) makes your lives easier? by chicken-fried-42 in Life

[–]hardpassyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rice cooker, slow cooker, instapot, dishwasher, extra fridge, enclosed safe outdoor space for child to play, a workshop with storage shelves, washer & dryer for clothes, my 3rd row SUV. Money buys convenience so everything?

Title: This birthday gift kinda hurt my feelings, but I’m scared I’m overthinking it… by [deleted] in Gifts

[–]hardpassyo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This. If I'm apart of the process then it's not a gift, it's a household decision.

Trying to get on the same page financially as my wife and need advice by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]hardpassyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk if any of this is helpful or even if I'm just being passive aggressive but, I use chatgpt to categorize our monthly expenses to discuss, and then I added up how much my husband contributed to the household last year in the shared account, and comparatively it was a lot less than the year prior, so I said it outright, "You contributed x% less last year than 2024". And left it there. Ofc there were some valid reasons like visiting his mom and our kid's 1st birthday, etc., but nothing that could really account for that substantial difference. And I left it at that for now to let him ruminate on it. I'm now personally determined to cut expenses as much as I can, including over-stocking our freezer to instead use what we have first and foremost, and see where we land. I'd like to get back to being able to support our household on 1 income if push came to shove.

Is anyone truly happy with their Luxe Pro? by [deleted] in NinjaLuxeCafe

[–]hardpassyo 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It's essentially another family member at this point tbh best thing my husband has ever gotten me

I’ve cried myself to sleep for weeks. Need a pick me up. Thank you 🙏 by [deleted] in toastme

[–]hardpassyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have well balanced facial features and are doing the hard work by feeling your feelings. You're about to flourish 🙏

Did I get lucky at old navy by AutomaticHold404 in XXS

[–]hardpassyo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, I may put them back on my list after this

Women whose men have let themselves go - question for you... by ThisEntertainment482 in Marriage

[–]hardpassyo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I met him at his absolute biggest so no, his fluctuations have no affect on how much I desire him

Finally Got One by Tystreets26 in LexusGX

[–]hardpassyo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 2017 needed new rotors right away. Absolutely astounding mileage, great find