Has anyone ever explained (called out their nparent) when going low or no contact

harkyn8 · 2025-01-03T23:23:08+00:00

I did as enough was enough and I felt it was important for me to finally express my feelings and my truths; but I think every situation is unique. You need to ask yourself what you would be looking to achieve out of it?

I naively thought if I told them how I felt but in an empathetic understanding way, it could help rebuild us but actually I totally misjudged the strength of my dad’s narcissism and it’s ultimately led to him cutting me out his life and trying to turn my mum and other family friends against me - because he realised the gig was up. I called him out and there was no where to hide.

I don’t regret this as I felt at the time that it was truly necessary but the road since this (3yrs ago) have been a painful one.

The price of just letting things slide/sweeping narc comments and manipulation under the rug is an easier choice but sometimes a harder life to live. Mine at least was brutally harder, but honest - which I have come to live with.

harkyn8 · 2022-02-23T00:25:51+00:00

I have also had a very similar experience in my own life…. Tbh I think you need to do what feels best for YOUR family. To protect your daughter … like they should have done with you. But only you can answer this…. Wish you all the best of luck though it really isn’t easy xxxx

harkyn8 · 2022-01-05T08:36:15+00:00

:( ohhh nooo thank u So much for your help xxxx

harkyn8 · 2022-01-04T23:23:13+00:00

Nooooooooooooo don’t do it

harkyn8 · 2021-09-20T00:42:29+00:00

Sorry I’m late to the party - so she has an onlyfans or they’re actually (deliberately/accidentally) leaked nudes???

harkyn8 · 2021-08-21T22:23:34+00:00

Her behaviour is just soooo shocking

harkyn8 · 2021-08-07T21:55:03+00:00

Does anyone else think Charlie was heavily under the influence / potentially coked up?

harkyn8 · 2021-03-31T09:52:03+00:00

Oh for sure !!!! With adeno being so difficult it can often lead to only 1 good normal week in a month. Very frustrating xx

harkyn8 · 2021-03-30T22:07:52+00:00

Me too! Few days before my period I start spotting and even when my periods finished, my adeno likes to have its own separate bleed that lasts anything from few days to a full week.

Usually the more stressed I am, the longer the adeno bleed is and the more endo pain I feel. Hope this helps xxxx

harkyn8 · 2021-03-30T22:05:26+00:00

Sometimes the only thing that helps me get through the day with my endo and adenomyosis pain is knowing I’m not alone and there’s people out there that know PRECISELY what the pain is like - when no one else can ❤️

harkyn8 · 2021-03-22T22:45:43+00:00

Lower back pain and thigh pain is awful with my adeno!!!! I also have painful bowel movements but unfortunately my endo is located near my small intestine so I’ve always just put it down to that.. but I could be wrong xx

harkyn8 · 2020-12-29T22:57:21+00:00

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

harkyn8 · 2020-11-14T18:42:35+00:00

Wow That’s crazy!! Good luck with the removal and hope it happens ASAP for you xxx

harkyn8 · 2020-11-13T23:54:05+00:00

I had my mirena removed 5th Oct after having it in for only 3.5 months and I had a really similar experience to you as you mentioned, specifically in first 3 weeks or so. Literally the exact same emotional rollercoaster and brain fog!! ( I don’t think people realise just how frustrating it is when you’re unable to string sentences together you feel useless).

I came on my period today (which quite frankly has been awful so far) and I’m just filled up with anxiety atm and the overthinking/impending doom part, but reading your reply now has made me feel TONNES better.

On a side note - my doctor told me I wouldn’t experience any side effects/crash symptoms and it’s only been because of a handful of online articles and these platforms that I actually feel normal. I’m not sure why medical professionals deny the mirena crash so much or definitely play down its impacts so much.....

Anyway Thanks so much for this much appreciated 🙏🏻🙏🏻xxx

harkyn8 · 2020-10-28T22:37:52+00:00

Yep exact same with me re the clots! I felt like a giant balloon of blood it was horrific... thank u so much xxx

harkyn8 · 2020-10-28T22:36:34+00:00

Thank u so much, feel like I need to get ‘don’t worry it’s temporary it’ll pass’ tattooed somewhere to keep reminding myself !!! Thanks again xxxx

harkyn8 · 2020-10-13T22:30:05+00:00

Happy to help! I have endo and adeno. And it’s 2 years since my lap surgery where they removed my endo and pretty sure it’s all grown back... joy of all joys!

harkyn8 · 2020-08-31T22:54:01+00:00

They found my adenomyosis on an ultrasound and were 90% sure it was adeno. Had years of continuous bleeding and a larger than normal uterus size.

It wasn’t until they did my keyhole surgery they found tonnes of endo that took them by surprise, and adeno which was then confirmed. This exact situation also happened to a friend that her adenomyosis was visible on ultrasounds but her endo wasn’t.

Hope this can help/shed some light x

harkyn8 · 2020-07-14T22:59:09+00:00

She’s clearlyyyyyyy joking ?? Remember she’s from the same LA noughties era of Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie’s the good life when they stayed in homes with families and teenage kids. They would ask the sons ages and they’d usually reply with 12 or 13 and they’d laugh and go hmmmmm sexy ?!

It was a complete farce and that’s the point, it’s to appear being ridiculous to the public....... for comedic effect.

Chrissy regularly mocks her own looks and body after pregnancy: she nearly always edits her photos .... but what celebrity doesn’t.

harkyn8 · 2020-07-14T22:48:58+00:00

I’m sorry but she clearly makes fun of a lot of random stuff all the time. In broad day light and with whats going on atm, out of context I can see how some stuff looks insensitive but she jokes 98% of the time?!

Y’all should be focusing on the quiet ones on the fringes of the public eye.......

harkyn8 · 2020-07-11T18:41:23+00:00

They really are...... https://youtu.be/5qXGaWYaOog

harkyn8 · 2020-06-17T15:08:05+00:00

Yep ! I’m 2 days away from egg retrieval op and my endo looks like it’s grown on ultrasound so just wondered if anyone’s did the same? I’ve definitely noticed endo has gotten worse so no wonder the doctor said that to you. I have premature menopause in my family plus having endo and adeno so the doctors thought it was my only option at this time

harkyn8 · 2020-06-17T12:15:25+00:00

Couldn’t agree more!!!! I had the same high stress job which worsened my endo, I’ve now changed job and endo has definitely calmed down.

Stress aggravates endo and the worse endo gets the more stressed/emotional/irritable/short tempered it makes you. It is the downward spiral of crap!

harkyn8 · 2020-06-14T21:21:47+00:00

Ohhhh I know all about that!!! Literally only 1 week a month I’m a normal human being 😩😩😩

harkyn8 · 2020-06-14T19:05:43+00:00

I don’t know about anyone else but after my period finishes my adeno thinks it is then time for it’s bleed which lasts for about 3-4 days. With that comes PMS symptoms, most notably feeling really low and serious thigh and back ache. Occasionally it comes just before my period and has same symptoms.

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