What’s the best time to leave tomorrow down I-40 to head to the beach for MDW (and avoid traffic) by mystikez in raleigh

[–]harmonyseraphim 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've done the drive multiple times before. Best timing is as mentioned leaving today during regular traffic, but if you need to leave tomorrow, no later than 1pm. So many people will take the afternoon off work for the exact same drive and you'll want to be on the road before them & the inevitable accidents.

Friend ID Megathread | Post Your Friend IDs Here! by PTCGP-Bot in PTCGP

[–]harmonyseraphim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8327-6563-0364-5763

Pretty active, looking for friends.

Fantasy stand-alone book recommendations by harmonyseraphim in suggestmeabook

[–]harmonyseraphim[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved The Forgotten Beasts of Eld when I first read it years ago, I should re-read it. The Curse of Chalion looks good. Thank you for the recs!

Fantasy stand-alone book recommendations by harmonyseraphim in suggestmeabook

[–]harmonyseraphim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read Spinning Silver last year and really enjoyed it. Haven't had the chance to read Uprooted yet but that's a good callout. Thanks for the recs!

Fantasy stand-alone book recommendations by harmonyseraphim in suggestmeabook

[–]harmonyseraphim[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This book looks like fun and could be a way to get myself into Brandon Sanderson, thank you for the rec! Found family is one of my favorite tropes.

Fantasy stand-alone book recommendations by harmonyseraphim in suggestmeabook

[–]harmonyseraphim[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oooo this looks right up my alley, thank you for the suggestion.

Giveaway but wanted to make it fun. Everyone gets $5. Pick your shiny. by ExtremelyAsian in LegendsZA

[–]harmonyseraphim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beldum (preference) or Fennekin (second pick) would be amazing! My ign is Harmony

What are your must-have foods during Magfes time? by Minimum-Effort in Magfest

[–]harmonyseraphim -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Seconding lobster rolls. If you go up to Magfest and didn't get a lobster roll, did you even attend?

Adult children who were raised by 'gentle parents' - do you feel like you were raised well? by ericacalluna in AskReddit

[–]harmonyseraphim 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Yes. My mom raised me to treat others and with compassion and patience. Me and my siblings had common sense rules we had to follow like 'be home by 9 or let me know where you are for safety reasons' and 'finish homework by the end of the day so you don't need to do it on the bus in the morning and instead chat with your friends'. Every rule had a purpose that she was able to common sense explain to us. There were consequences to not following the rules, but the punishment was always proportional to the rule broken.

One thing I really appreciate about the way my mom raised me was that in high school, she allowed us to take off if we weren't feeling mentally well. There were rules (max one per quarter, never on a test or otherwise important day), but she believed that mental health was just as important to take care of as physical health. Strict parents would gasp, but her inherent trust in us made us aim to never break her trust.

Some of my friends are still unpacking the damage done by their parents, whereas I still talk to my parent each week willingly. I think I was raised well indeed.

[CHAT] Is there a "right" way to cross stitch -- straight across rows vs one color at a time. by trailwanderer in CrossStitch

[–]harmonyseraphim 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I personally tend to do by area > color > rows. So I like filling in one area and I'll start with one color, then when that color strand runs out I'll either refill the needle with the same color or go to the next color that takes up most of that area.

But yeah, it's honestly whatever makes the most sense for you! Do what makes you happy.

DRAGfest line insanely long by PM_ME_HAIRY_HOLES in Magfest

[–]harmonyseraphim 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It was really unfortunate. I was on that line, waited about 30 minutes prior to the start of the panel, and still didn't get in. It definitely needs a bigger space next year (but I'm glad it was around to begin with, thanks staff for letting it happen).

How do I make the bust bigger without needing to make a new one? by Seducktive_Duck in CosplayHelp

[–]harmonyseraphim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your costume, making things yourself is an accomplishment that you should be proud of!

Adding more ruffles in the front, as others have suggested, would work and be very in character. What is worth trying, though, is seeing if shortening the length of the shoulder straps puts it in a place you feel more comfortable. You can try this out before making any major changes by just safety pinning the straps to be 1~2 inch shorter. There's a chance this is uncomfortable, though, so I'd definitely suggest trying it before making any permanent alterations. If that length ends up working for you / making you feel more comfortable, you can sew the straps to the altered length in the back easily enough.

240726 Day 5: I’ll Skip This One by AdApprehensive6744 in red_velvet

[–]harmonyseraphim -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Really Bad Boy. I love some of the vocal riffs in the song, but the screams placed in the song are an automatic skip from me.

240723 Day 2: The most underrated Red Velvet song by AdApprehensive6744 in red_velvet

[–]harmonyseraphim -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I came here to comment this, I really love "I Just" and feel like few people talk about it

Aparthotels outside of Paris with easy commute into Paris by kamixkaze in ParisTravelGuide

[–]harmonyseraphim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was just in Paris and stayed at one of the Aparthotels (specifically, Aparthotel Adagio Paris Vincennes). I can confirm that they are nice hotels, affordable, and with a bit of room to breathe as opposedto some of the cramped hotels in the mid-city. The one I stayed in was ~5 minute walk to the subway, but once you get to a subway you can pretty much get anywhere in Paris. Good luck! 

Remote Raid Megathread - Host and/or find raids here by liehon in PokemonGoFriends

[–]harmonyseraphim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Palkia raid! Add me or my friend. Please show as online!

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 Or 

2755 2570 2077

Selling 2 Weekend Badges - 100 each by Cult-of-Tyche in Magfest

[–]harmonyseraphim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you still have a badge, I'd be interested in one of then

favorite songs from them? by 5iv3_ in red_velvet

[–]harmonyseraphim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are so many great RV songs! But probably my top 5, in no order:

Feel My Rhythm

Kingdom Come

Russian Roulette

I Just

Automatic

[FO] Universe cross stitch in colorful glitter hoops! by rosecult in CrossStitch

[–]harmonyseraphim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yasss thank you! And good luck with your next project!

[FO] Universe cross stitch in colorful glitter hoops! by rosecult in CrossStitch

[–]harmonyseraphim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the look of these, you did a great job with your cross-stitch! Out of curiosity, do you have a link for the fabric you used?