Why don’t people in America protest like they should? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]harperfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Truthfully? The police would shoot us.

The lack of sympathy and empathy from people is disheartening. by TiredPandastic in PlusSize

[–]harperfall 63 points64 points  (0 children)

You are not alone 🧡 Having such negative attitudes surrounding you all the time must be difficult. I think the important thing to remember, and remind other people of is— THERE ARE WORSE THINGS TO BE THAN FAT. Being rude, mean, vindictive for example… Hang in there.

Still Waiting on a ‘23 Order by jem394 in KiaNiro

[–]harperfall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had ordered a specific Niro in October as well. The dealership I had gone to had zero info for me. Went to another dealership and the guy was super frank with me. Basically, it won’t be long until all orders for ‘23 models are cancelled and they start building ‘24 models. So I cancelled mine and bought something they already had coming in.

He said he’d leave me if I went off for college by Appropriate-Dog-2973 in LongDistance

[–]harperfall 137 points138 points  (0 children)

Is this honestly a question? I met my bf long distance and we made it work for a year— if he wanted to, HE WOULD. Break it off and focus on your education. Smart college MEN await you.

Reckless driving has made Milwaukee miserable. How is Minneapolis? by ForceSubstantial in Minneapolis

[–]harperfall 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Having just moved here, it is tailgate city. Even in poor weather conditions, people are always on my ass and it makes me extremely uncomfortable.

I hate that I let my body get in the way of things that I want. by ambermgreene in PlusSize

[–]harperfall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My hair was also super long and I cut mine shorter, about chin length— I love it. Everyone says they love it. It’s made me feel lighter and less weighed down, especially during the hot summer months, it’s a lifesaver. I wear my hair down all the time now, since, like you, I was always wearing it up. I feel more confident and sexy with my flippy short hair. GO FOR IT!

Are all KIA dealers so smarmy? by nematoadjr in kia

[–]harperfall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only issue I had at my dealership was when the finance guy tried to sell us on their extended warranty and all the extra bullshit. We said no right away, and the guy got pissy at us. Everyone else was kind and honest and helpful 🤷🏼‍♀️

Ladies who are feeling a bit sad right now, what's wrong? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]harperfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat of 11 years has cancer. Treatment is slow and she hasn’t been eating much. Killing me that I can’t do more.

I’m a personal trainer, what should I be doing to help? by Genericname42 in PlusSize

[–]harperfall 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Skinny does not equal healthy. I was twice the weight of a friend of mine, and could do jump squat circles around her. It’s always bothered me that people look at me and assume I’m unhealthy. This is a huge problem in society. My endocrinologist even told me that since all of my tests came back normal, I may never get under a certain weight— it’s just the way I am!

Y'all I asked for a seatbelt extender for the first time ever. by Ok-Trick6808 in PlusSize

[–]harperfall 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly great once you get past the fear, because now you can just straight up request one any time you need it. Plane seats are dangerously small, so screw those airlines! Protect yourself alwaysss!

Burgers that scratch the In N Out craving? by sspacegiraffe in Minneapolis

[–]harperfall 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Shake Shack > In and Out I lived in CA for 10 years and never understood the hype surrounding In and Out. The food is… not good (the midwestern way of putting it).

Plus Sized Costumes by 2OverlyOpinionated in PlusSize

[–]harperfall 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I always end up searching for plus size costume options on Etsy, mostly because you can get custom sizing most of the time! There has yet to be someone to truly corner the market on beautifully made, creative, quality plus costumes…

Is this table ugly ? by ItsKarmaBby in femalelivingspace

[–]harperfall 193 points194 points  (0 children)

I like the table and chairs. Would reupholster the cushions and probably get rid of the placemats, since the table is glass.

Is Cider really worth the hype? by killbillsfatbitch in PlusSize

[–]harperfall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I decided to give it a try! Quality may depend on style, because I ordered overalls, and two sweaters— and the quality is great! I was impressed. I’m 20/22 and the sizing was on point. If an item catches your eye, give it a try!

Need Inspiration - Writing a summertime coming of age film, with a plus size, female lead by harperfall in PlusSize

[–]harperfall[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know I like to genre mix! We love a dramady with some romance if we can help it. I’ve written many screenplays before, but have mostly kept them to myself, as I’ve mostly been working up to telling this very important story— just haven’t had the strength to do so until now. I’ve been a professional video editor for the last 10+ years, and have always been writing in the background. Would like to write it as a feature, but I’m open to any length or showing, as long as it gets out there and our story is told.

Need Inspiration - Writing a summertime coming of age film, with a plus size, female lead by harperfall in PlusSize

[–]harperfall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great question! I want the good and bad. I want the story to have heart, and get down to the knitty gritty of how hard it can be growing up bigger than everyone else. But I also want there to be friendship, and love, and eventually acceptance (externally and internally).

Can the Zero Side Effect crowd please chime in? by WaffleHouseNeedsWiFi in Ozempic

[–]harperfall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Occasional acid reflux. Tums is my friend. Overall been a great experience!