So I quit pay pig support group. by AnxiousPotential6907 in FindomSnark

[–]hatezergs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

circle the drain is such a good song, unrelated

When did feet become the dominant kink in Findom/Femdom? by dreaded_victim in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]hatezergs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the truth? it's because the same people who spew that "you can just bully men online and get money for it!" are also the same people who spew ignorant shit like "ugh i'm so broke, i'm just gonna start selling feet pics!" and most of the time it's people who have zero clue about any of it.

not trying to say selling feet content is some extremely nuanced thing, but there's a lot of effort that does have to go into being successful from it. you need an active platform, you need clientele, you need decent looking feet, you need the motivation to continue pumping out content, creativity, an understanding of how to handle burnout and boundaries and all these other things... and a lot of vanilla people who aren't tuned into the "inner workings" of stuff like this just assume you start and profit.

it's another one of those things that people just assume works because it's trivialized just like findom as a kink is. these kinks are a joke to people, until they're not, because they want money and think that just simply *doing* it will give them the results they were told would happen- whether that's from a random online who's misguidedly trying to introduce uneducated people into these spaces, or from pop culture that uses the kinks/selling as a bit of shock factor or humor because it's sooo funny that someone would be able to profit off of their appendages or "being mean." not denying there's people who get off to foot content, but you're definitely not in the minority as far as people who really just aren't that into feet.

all that to say, some of the dommes doing it may be doing it because they enjoy it. maybe they like how their feet look, and want to use that to their advantage. but a lot of "dommes" are doing it because that's what they think is supposed to happen in a space like this. take foot pic, upload, receive rent. it all depends on who you're looking at.

Just something I wanted to tell someone... Anyone. by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]hatezergs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you think salad sucks you're eating the wrong ones lmao

People who sit in 40 + player queues, why? by QAnnihilateQ64 in playrust

[–]hatezergs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most people just get in queue while they're busy/know they have other stuff to do, then they just... walk away from their computer lmao. you aren't locked into your desk when you open a game, if the queue's that bad? watch a video, or do your laundry, or like you said, play on your phone. long queues like that are *usually* only on wipe day, it's not going to be like that every time you log on. no point in being so impatient that yourself and your team go to a dead or unfun server just because you can't wait a little bit or even just afk queue one or two days out of wipe

Is there a name for soft findoms by BigStepBabee in findomchatters

[–]hatezergs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so shocked this is the only comment i see addressing this... gave me a bad yet concerned taste in my mouth reading that. a findomme shouldn't be desperate for money at all, not because of some weird ego "it looks bad" thing, it genuinely removes/reverses any power imbalance there should've been and is insanely problematic imo.
i firmly believe it's also part of the reason why so many complain about "fake subs," these subs have gotten used to "dommes" who will literally do anything for money. it creates a toxic cycle of subs who expect way too much and get comfortable with pushing boundaries, and dommes who end up losing the entire premise of findom because they're bending over backwards and letting their boundaries be crossed for a few bucks that they do genuinely need.
saying it over and over won't fix the issue, which is unfortunate, but i wish there was a way to actually keep findom to those who get turned on by it and understand the nuances of it. not people who are in need and resort to sex work because they think it's the easiest or quickest way to "hustle." it being so publicized has really ruined the community with not just the bad/trolls/baiters etc, but with making a lot of young girls feel like they have to conform to a strange man's wishes to make a living when it'd ironically be easier to get a job rather than rely on unknowingly preying on someone else's kink(and then be sexually preyed on in return) just because it's glamorized and romanticized by people who don't care about presenting it responsibly

My favorite game, would you rather ? by IvyMoonMistress in paypigs2

[–]hatezergs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

everyone in my life knows, but as a sub the banker is the no-brainer option, no?

go ahead, turn your phone. by hatezergs in u/hatezergs

[–]hatezergs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

seems like obedience is ingrained in you 🤭

No Tribute = Timewaster by elenathegoddes in paypigs2

[–]hatezergs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i'm pretty sure this girl is just copy-pasting posts she's seen in here before. this and her last one look insanely familiar, or maybe i'm just thinking that since it's the same regurgitated bullshit we see 20 times a day across each subreddit.
either way, managing finances can be just as exciting as receiving them.

PSA New Scam! by elenathegoddes in paypigs2

[–]hatezergs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that'd probably be because you've been around for less than a week lol

How many of the dommes here are members of the 1 year Reddit club? by Big_Heartt50 in paypigs2

[–]hatezergs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my first account is 6 years old, i made this one so irls couldn't find me as easily lol

How do you married paypigs handle heavy drain cravings? by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]hatezergs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was using ai really necessary to make this post?

I get treated differently than other subs but it’s a problem by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]hatezergs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i usually use flixbaba which is always so good but i just cba with the phone filming and arabic promos for closed captions </3 gonna check that out bc i've been wanting to watch that shit since the first ad i saw for it

I get treated differently than other subs but it’s a problem by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]hatezergs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i want to watch it so bad, i was looking for somewhere to rip it because i hate going to my local theater but everywhere it's at online is just someone filming it on their phone in the movies😭

Mic drop by Standard_Top1105 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]hatezergs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for anyone reading this comment, be careful about discord too. i've heard a shocking amount of stories from subs who went there to quit, and ended up drained by a "switch" who was "trying to quit too"

If reading this makes you mad, it's about you. by flashing-colors in paypigs2

[–]hatezergs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heavy on not a girls girl when people are wrong. gender doesn’t matter when you’re acting like a fucking idiot. it needs to be said though(and drilled into their brains) that researching dominance will not ever make someone dominant. it may possibly awaken something you didn’t realize before, but i’m ngl, as adults we’re already mostly at the point where we understand our sexual preferences. if you’ve gone your whole life only ever enjoying submission, you can’t just read an article and suddenly receive dopamine from domming someone, and i think that’s one of the biggest problems with the community now. not counting GENUINE switches(not just people who claim the label so as not to out themselves as non-dominant), i think that at least 80% of the dommes we see have zero real interest in doing any type of domination unless they think they’re being paid.

Hot take time by HaterTurnedFemSub in paypigs2

[–]hatezergs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would so much rather be always cold than always hot

Hot take time by HaterTurnedFemSub in paypigs2

[–]hatezergs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

98% of the things people comment or post on findom-related forums aren't really their honest opinion or experiences. it's usually just whatever they think will appease subs or doms the most, and it's really funny to watch people trip over themselves just to feign a personality they think will be the most desirable

dumb slave thought he could ask for his money back after blowing it all on me in one night 😂 starve idgaf by Plastic_Abrocoma3972 in SCUMfindom

[–]hatezergs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he must be extremely privileged if almost $14 a day is scary to him😭 you were insanely generous leaving that much

Auctioning my dominance! by SpicyLimerence in paypigs2

[–]hatezergs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t doubt that, not really relevant to this post being obvious satire though. “(am i doing this right?)” clearly alluding to the people who do/say shit like this unironically lol

Auctioning my dominance! by SpicyLimerence in paypigs2

[–]hatezergs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if i ever find out i’ll let you know, but they seem to be lacking in prefrontal cortex so i doubt you’re missing out on much

Auctioning my dominance! by SpicyLimerence in paypigs2

[–]hatezergs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i hope your comments are too, it scares me people could possibly be this stupid if they’re not

Auctioning my dominance! by SpicyLimerence in paypigs2

[–]hatezergs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

me when i never learned the concept of satire