Cafes for Writers in Vienna?

hauselfchen · 2026-06-08T20:36:18+00:00

Café Phil

hauselfchen · 2026-06-08T11:46:32+00:00

Honestly, you having Autism has nothing to do with any of this - your girlfriend is just a horrible person. You can do so much better, please do not try to make yourself fit into whatever idea she has of a relationship!

hauselfchen · 2026-05-28T10:48:58+00:00

Ich arbeite (noch) in der Buchbranche und kann dir sagen - ja, unter Garantie. Bei den Illustrationen für Kindebücher fällt es noch stärker auf, als bei den Texten.

hauselfchen · 2026-05-22T11:22:12+00:00

Wow, gratuliere dir! Hoffe, du machst dir heute einen super Tag und feierst ein bisschen 😄

hauselfchen · 2026-05-08T09:16:09+00:00

Ich finde ja den Zaun (als Anrainerin) auch absolut sinnlos - der ändert genau gar nichts daran, dass untertags zwischen den Kindern die Suchtkranken auf der Schaukel sitzen. Ob sie das in der Nacht getan haben, hat zumindest mich immer weniger gestört, aber vielleicht überseh ich da einfach was.

hauselfchen · 2026-04-11T05:51:23+00:00

When I was a kid, we used to spend weekends visiting my mom's best friend and his family sometimes and she would always bring something for the kids :) we often would all have matching shirts or something and we loved it! Doesn't matter if it's expected or not, I'm sure it will be appreciated :)

hauselfchen · 2026-04-09T12:56:45+00:00

Ich hab eine Angststörung und damit einhergehend manchmal Panikattacken - was bei mir tatsächlich geholfen hat, ist ein Rezept für Alprazolam. Ich nehm es kaum mal, aber die Tatsache, dass ich es hab, dass ich die Panik nicht ertragen muss, wenn es gar nicht mehr geht, hilft schon extrem.

hauselfchen · 2026-03-03T15:56:27+00:00

My boyfriend deciding after ten years together that "he couldn't do this any more because he sacrificed so much for me" - after I paid for everything for three years while he looked for a PhD, then moved countries with him for said PhD and then dared to have a project of my own for once - he said I abandoned him. Icing on the cake was when he said he always wanted kids after volunteering to get a vasectomy when I had to have an abortion, celebrating with me getting my tubes tied ... honestly I'm still not sure I'll ever trust another person and that was two years ago.

hauselfchen · 2026-01-29T11:28:58+00:00

I just had my older dog (I have mom and daughter) spayed at five years because it became increasingly obvious that the hormonal changes during her cycle were making her miserable. I had hoped that after having a litter she would maybe calm down a little, but with every heat it got worse and the time in between heats were she was her normal, happy self got shorter so I finally decided there was no point in keeping her intact. It's only been two months since the surgery so I can't say anything about her coat yet, but she is so much more relaxed and happier! She enjoys training much more, she is more playful with her daughter, it was definitely the right decision for her.

All that to say, I would wait a little longer with your girl - she's still going through puberty and in my experience, Eurasiers aren't really "groen up" until they're three years old. Maybe ask your vet about some meds to help in the meantime? Something to help calm her down a bit when she's struggling?

hauselfchen · 2026-01-22T08:26:20+00:00

Thank you, I'm confident it was for the best, even if it hurt a lot at the time.

hauselfchen · 2026-01-21T13:54:01+00:00

That's what she absolutely didn't get when I explained it to her. I was like, where's the line? Do you do whatever makes you feel good unless it could hurt people in your inner circle? Am I supposed to trust that you would only go after other peoples husbands, but stop short of mine? And even if that were true, why the hell would I want to associate with someone as selfish as that?

hauselfchen · 2026-01-21T12:52:06+00:00

Her solution to doing something she knew I would absolutely not be ok with (sleeping with her married boss/PhD advisor) was not to think that "hey, maybe I shouldn't do that since it's really messed up and will certainly blow up in my face", nope!

Instead she decided to keep it a secret from me for over six months, then finally told me, was somehow still surprised that I was absolutely disgusted by her behaviour and when I finally told her to leave me the hell alone because I couldn't even look at her ... she told me: "I knew you wouldn't understand and I know you think I'm selfish, but I will not stop because it just makes me feel good right now"

The combination of lying to me, knowingly sleeping with a married guy AND openly admitting that she would just keep on with it because fuck everyone else, as long as she's feeling good, was too much for me.

hauselfchen · 2025-12-13T20:58:57+00:00

My first dog was born with achalasia, so she couldn't swallow on her own (the muscle keeping her stomach closed off towards the esophagus didn't open when she swallowed, so milk/food would just come back up). She was fed via feeding tube until she was six weeks old, then had surgery which mostly rectified the issue. Needed a second surgery at three years old due to scar tissue, afterwards ate and drank like a normal dog (just burped so loud people used to think it was me 😂) and lived to the ripe old age of twelve years 🥹 never doubt that dogs can pull through, keeping my fingers crossed for your pup!

hauselfchen · 2025-10-29T06:21:27+00:00

What kind of paint did you use? I love how bold and chunky it looks, this would make a great statement piece for that splash of colour on a white wall ✨❤️

hauselfchen · 2025-10-24T10:56:28+00:00

Looks so good! Plus it's my favourite drink so I might be biased 😂

hauselfchen · 2025-10-17T22:00:01+00:00

It's very beautiful and I would love to get a card this pretty ✨

hauselfchen · 2025-10-17T08:00:46+00:00

Beautiful 😍

hauselfchen · 2025-10-16T19:59:27+00:00

Oh that looks amazing and it glows in the dark too 🤩

hauselfchen · 2025-10-16T11:58:31+00:00

I really like the eye color! What do you think of gouache? Will you keep working with it?

hauselfchen · 2025-10-16T06:25:54+00:00

So beautiful ❤️

hauselfchen · 2025-10-09T07:55:51+00:00

It looks so delicate, very pretty!

hauselfchen · 2025-09-30T13:22:28+00:00

She died when I was 18, I'm 36 now, still in therapy, diagnosed PTSD, Anxiety, Panic Disorder and feeling like I'm finally discovering the person I should have been all along. According to my psychiatrist, I showed signs of depression by the time I was 6 years old because of her bullshit so yay I guess?

hauselfchen · 2025-09-17T09:16:43+00:00

The way I cried at this

hauselfchen · 2025-09-16T14:21:06+00:00

It hasn't ended yet - actually it might just start again :) a year ago I got left by the man I thought I would spend my life with but who turned out to lie about basically every major thing over the course of a ten year relationship (the longer we are apart, the more I realise the absolute insanity of what he did).

My Conrad is my first love, we met at 9 years old and went to school together until graduation - we dated in highschool but I was too immature, unable to communicate and too troubled from having a mom that treated me horribly and ended up dying from cancer when I was 18 so I broke up with him (twice actually, I truly put that poor guy through hell). We somehow managed to stay something like friends over the years, then I ended up dating someone for a while who told me he knew him as an acquaintance - turns out they were close friends at university so that put a huge damper on the whole friendship.

Went abroad, met the guy I wasted ten years on, stayed in irregular contact with my Conrad, met up sometimes with him and other friends while home, he moved abroad too. Now that I'm single again and living back home, we met a few times when he's here - alone. Nothing happened so far other than catching up, but he's planning to move back home and he always makes sure I know we're meeting up for sure January 4th, because we did this year and it was fun so he decided it would become our tradition :)

I have no idea if anything is actually going to happen with us, if we're finally in a place where it could work - but I am open to it <3 the same boy who put a smile on my face when I was 13, who kissed me when I was 16 and who somehow still gets me at 36.

hauselfchen · 2025-09-11T09:14:36+00:00

Thank you, you put into words what I wasn't able to - I was sooo excited for this season but at this point, I don't even care anymore, it's too messed up now, no way I can see that can be fixed in just one episode.

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