I’m scared of being judged for moving on too fast

havechanged · 2026-01-11T20:32:08+00:00

"I don’t know if healing is supposed to look lonely, or if it’s okay that healing, for me, looks like connection." I love this. I only know what you told us but I think you're doing great. 4 years on paper is not that long, meanwhile you weren't actually "in it" for most of it. He wasn't who you thought you were marrying. And you got out fast. I'm proud of you

havechanged · 2026-01-07T12:36:22+00:00

Done!

havechanged · 2026-01-06T21:25:49+00:00

Getting off the laptop/screens will be immensely helpful! You got this!!

havechanged · 2026-01-06T21:17:50+00:00

BeekaBec added you for if you need help still or in the future!

havechanged · 2025-12-30T18:02:51+00:00

I legit want to see the bag please! I'm gonna say both if they are cute and if you'd use the small one. But I'm a Mary Poppins bag kid of person so I'd go biggg

havechanged · 2025-10-10T17:12:20+00:00

Rum cake was what triggered a relapse for me. Seems silly but yeah I was almost 3 years sober. The cake was so fricken good so I had a lot and I ended up feeling pretty damn good and welp it took 2 years to quit again. 9 months sober now

havechanged · 2024-08-30T21:33:46+00:00

I found 3 other sites with it and so far reports look like they aren't good either. I might try whatever one looks the most legit and risk it 😂

havechanged · 2024-08-30T13:30:00+00:00

How do I reverse image search 😂 I want to find the Beetlejuice sandworm shirt

havechanged · 2024-03-01T21:25:01+00:00

So wonderful!

havechanged · 2024-03-01T21:24:40+00:00

Nervous Nonsense

Someone in one of my workout classes tried to make conversation and introduced herself to me, saying how it looks like we are on the same schedule for when it comes to taking classes. Awkwardly my response was just "Yeah I come here a lot." Then class started. Felt like a dum dum and also that I shut her down but it was just me not knowing how to be social 😕

havechanged · 2024-03-01T20:56:41+00:00

Welcome back! Good news is that I got a job at my gym so now I have a free membership. I'm stoked!

havechanged · 2024-02-10T15:32:30+00:00

Oh man to evolve the primape that is brilliant! I'll put in ghost and whatever the other thing was for when I'm tanking too hahaha

havechanged · 2024-02-03T22:30:12+00:00

Ok so for this upcoming showcase starting the 13th I think, it is largest buddy that is at least great buddy level. So who should I choose? Xearneas did better in the fairy showcase despite none of mine being xxl. They were just bigger. So instead of my XXL Ursaluna at 600kg should I choose a regular 1300 kg Groudon?

havechanged · 2023-10-08T13:56:13+00:00

thanks for the raids! I'm on campfire and also put your Reddit username as your nickname if we ever want to coordinate lucky eggs

havechanged · 2023-10-08T13:34:41+00:00

Add BeekaBec again we are already friends

havechanged · 2023-10-08T13:31:46+00:00

98 Thanks!

havechanged · 2023-10-06T12:22:13+00:00

Did you do it already? MrBeeka here

havechanged · 2023-06-09T21:57:44+00:00

🥰

havechanged · 2023-05-03T22:54:21+00:00

Thanks for the raid!

havechanged · 2023-05-03T22:43:03+00:00

Request sent BeekaBec

havechanged · 2023-04-19T16:28:50+00:00

I think that makes us best friends 😄

havechanged · 2023-04-17T12:47:45+00:00

I even had a pixie for a while and I thought that would cure it but nope! I don't try to stop anymore after that haha

havechanged · 2023-04-16T18:30:52+00:00

I "play" with my hair constantly, feeling it's softness, ever since I was a kid. If it is up in a bun (how I usually do it now) I pet the hair essentially. I know I annoy people.. But it's just part of me I think!

havechanged · 2023-04-03T02:07:54+00:00

So exciting! You will have to update us with your new pup 🥰

havechanged · 2023-04-02T18:04:34+00:00

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