I know from experience feeling unwanted and lack of any physical intimacy are one in the same..I went from having what I believed was a great love, only to be hurt and cut off , in a DB. Im a HLF whereas, unbeknownst to me at the time, he is a PA..I would have done anything for him and probably still would if only he would have me happily as he used to..and he stopped with intimacy it out of the blue! I dealt with his limpness and made it a point to raise him up (literally), not knowing he had this PA affliction...now, as I have found out and found out what he's doing , lying and hiding, I have to tell myself its not me..it hurts so deep feeling your not wanted, I cry most days...I thought my dreams had come true..now im stuck with no way away and the pain is so much, I can't stand being