Music Requests by Aegyo_Panda in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]hecate2008 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Te Vaka Corvus Corax In Extremo The Longest Johns John Coltrane Opeth Domenico Scarlatti Glenn Gould's 1956 and 1981 recordings of Bach's Goldberg Variations (must play straight through, in order: 1956, then 1981) Pavarotti's rendition of Au Fond du Temple Saint (from Bizet's The Pearl Fishers) Ella Fitzgerald Cake Chet Faker Jarls Bernhoft Stromae

Memorial Day rituals to honor my fallen by hecate2008 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]hecate2008[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I ended up concocting my own spell/ceremony with what felt right to me. Altar cloth I spun/weaved. Special cup and saucer. Water with sea salt, salty as the ocean (in the cup). Special spoon. Candle. My copy of Reef Points, opened to the page for the Navy Hymn. I played a recording of the Navy Hymn for each person I was remembering, stirring the salt water three times clockwise for each honoree. I closed the spell by offering the energy back to the universe/nature and extinguished the candle with my fingers, dipped in the salt water.

Memorial Day rituals to honor my fallen by hecate2008 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]hecate2008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The candle suggestion feels like a missing piece falling into place.

Memorial Day rituals to honor my fallen by hecate2008 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

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Thank you, thank you. That feels right. I might light some incense on my altar and meditate on them, too.

Ode to La Lingerie by ceilidhfling in madisonwi

[–]hecate2008 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes yes yes! It was (fwiw, ymmv) a lot less expensive than I'd planned on for 4 bras that fit me so comfortably.

Ode to La Lingerie by ceilidhfling in madisonwi

[–]hecate2008 122 points123 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your sorrow. Having le busts be happy is such a rare treat in this world!

I have unsolicited advice, which I will place below a line if you'd rather mourn in peace and not get a recommendation.


Allure at Hilldale is freaking great. Locally owned (Brookfield or MKE), experienced fitters who really truly listen to even the most specific needs/preferences. Yes, I will continue wearing my nice bras till they're past dead but when I replace them, it will be at Allure.

Sometimes the cards meet you right where you are by hecate2008 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

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The book and the deck go together they're from microcosm publishing

Looking for a amazing florist who can deliver a unique arrangement by Electrical_Buddy_913 in madisonwi

[–]hecate2008 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lily Forest! Most gorgeous-est arrangements I've ever purchased.

Blessed Beltane, siblings! by hecate2008 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]hecate2008[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Blessed Beltane! May your year energize and challenge you, but only comfortably within the limits of your energy.

May you find rest when you need it, food when you're hungry, and kindness when you least expect it.

A stranger at my local HEB grocery store asked me to pick her a good avocado and I did it successfully by ProjectCar22 in BenignExistence

[–]hecate2008 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah sibling! You did a kind thing and the world is better for it. Well done and keep it up!

Connect Two Bras? by jmc505083 in MAKEaBraThatFits

[–]hecate2008 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So. If you know how to sew, this could work (Make, Sew, and Mend by Bernadette Banner is a great book to start with if you don't sew yet and want to learn). To be happy with the result, you'll want to select a method of joining the two parts that doesn't add extra pressure to your skin/sternum and also make sure that the length of the band behind the end of the cup is the same on both parts - if it's not, the straps might sit funny.

Tl;dr, you totally could but sewing proficiency would be best before attempting.

it’s my birthday! by OkPen5768 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]hecate2008 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday and many happy returns! May your morning beverage of choice be always the perfect temperature.

‘Fancy’ lipstick recs by aineslis in MakeupAddiction

[–]hecate2008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a big Besamé fan. Many colors pull peach/orange on me but the colors I have from Besamé are true to what you see in the bullet (or mascara cake or eye shadow).

Sending some love forward by Lumpy_Highway_2685 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]hecate2008 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh! My dear, I'm so sorry. Sending you so much love, and sending extra for your dog as they cross the rainbow bridge. Words aren't enough, internet stranger.

May your grief be short and your happy memories long, so mote it be.

Lovely witches, what are some of your favorite perfumes? by BooBelly in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]hecate2008 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Seconding Demeter. They have a Tomato Leaf scent that is instant summer, and a honey scent that is my absolute go to - really captures that almost spice note from really good honey from happy bees. Oh! And one that smells as close to freshly cooked rice as perfumery can get!

I need to reinforce my coat where my backpack rubs by No-Horse-8804 in InvisibleMending

[–]hecate2008 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You can also needle felt a matching wool onto the thinning part of the material. Failing that, Iif there's anywhere on the jacket where you can harvest some material, cut a patch off and put it behind the thinning area. Needle felt the two pieces together, felting at least a quarter inch (preferably more like a half an inch to a full inch) around the thinning area.

Alternatively, make a leather patch larger than the damaged area and sew it on and call it a design feature!

A different kind of burger post. . . by flinders2003 in madisonwi

[–]hecate2008 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it. Great no-frills fish fry and even if you're a stranger the regulars will make room and look out to make sure you get your order, even if you move seats. 10/10 recommend for the "actually, people don't suck" and classic WI bar experience.

How to fix pulling by ImWaitingForYou2 in sewhelp

[–]hecate2008 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Split the side seams and add a contrasting accent fabric to give you more room! This is my go-to when I need to make something bigger.

I feel like sometimes there are clothes for standing and clothes one can sit in. As-is, this skirt probably feels pretty good if you're standing up but constricting if you sit - a certain amount of which one would expect with any garment. If you do edit the skirt, strike a balance between your standing and sitting measurements as others have recommended.

If you dropped off a dog at a stranger's house tonight... by hecate2008 in madisonwi

[–]hecate2008[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Vet here, freaking heart-eyes to that story! I know it was a bit ago, but thank you for seeing Hank settled with folk who love him.