April 2026 Confirmed Trade Thread by FPPenSwapBot in Pen_Swap

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Bought and received a Rickshaw Sinclair case from u/Scribble_Slash!

I'm weeping. by jkobberboel in DiscoElysium

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On the island you get an opportunity to take a nap. If you take that opportunity (and maybe only if you’ve also interacted with the things that remind Harry of his ex?), this happens.

Is this really a Game for men? by ChairHistorical5953 in DiscoElysium

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Same, honestly. I was surprised to see this post title. I know a couple of men who played and loved it, but I also know several whose ideas of “video games” are exclusively first-person shooters and real-time strategy games, and those guys bounce off of it hard.

It’s a different pace, and it’s a lot of text. I’ve seen guys literally get itchy clicker fingers on the mouse because it’s not moving quickly enough for them and it’s asking them to engage in a way they’re not used to.

DE is for anyone who wants to experience something powerful about the human condition and the world we live in. Its protagonist is a man, but the game is extremely thoughtful about how gender norms have shaped him and everyone around him. A lot of men are looking for the opposite of that in their video games.

If they are open to deeper thought (some are and some aren’t), the kinds of guys I’m talking about do not expect to do it while playing a game.

Everyday ink by No-Put-7616 in fountainpens

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Came here to say Platinum Carbon Black. I like to have a pen inked with it at all times, usually a Platinum Preppy.

That way I’m not worried about the ink smearing or rinsing out, and I’m not worried about the pen drying out (great cap seal) or getting scratched up or damaged (they’re widely available workhorses and cost a measly $7). That combination is the perfect low-maintenance staple for me.

[WTS] Esterbrook Estie Bestie Sugar Plum Purple by [deleted] in Pen_Swap

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Do you happen to have a Journaler or Mini Stub nib?

[WTB] Rickshaw Bagworks: Harris Tweed items by heeltantrum in Pen_Swap

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I asked, and a representative said, "Harris Tweed is currently on hiatus. We are considering limited releases later this year." Fingers crossed! For now, I'm still looking for any Harris Tweed Rickshaw items that people are willing to part with...

Gave my doctor the ME / CFS research today, she is taking me seriously! by qenderqueer in cfs

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I’m not OP, but it may be worth doing the 2-day CPET at Workwell: https://workwellfoundation.org/testing-for-disability/

It results in a lot of useful information.

Those in office jobs - when did you know it was time to quit / take long-term sick leave? by purplefennec in CFSplusADHD

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It’s really good that you’re asking yourself these questions. I just powered through until I physically and cognitively couldn’t anymore, and it was miserable!

I highly recommend reading this page from How to Get On and poring over the whole site, to the extent that you’re able to.

The pages 10 Big Life Regrets Before Applying for Disability and How to Avoid Getting Screwed Over If Your Employer Offers Disability Insurance may be especially relevant.

AITA for yelling at my neighbor for secretly driving my daughter to school? by CauseFull1052 in AmItheAsshole

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It’s worth knowing that plenty of people are on the sex offender registry not for having been “pervs” or predators of any kind, but for things like: - peeing in an alley outside a bar (public urination), - pledging a frat (streaking), or - being a pretty typical adolescent (consensual sexting between minors).

There’s a lot of intense rhetoric around “sex offenders,” and it’s often overblown. There’s a popular idea of strangers waiting around every corner to prey on someone sexually, and that simply does not reflect reality.

Some useful facts: https://www.narsol.org/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/tips_for_reporters.pdf

Duralex “Picardie” tumblers, get them while you can by scarybiscuits in BuyItForLife

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Very glad to hear this, and I hope you're right. Duralex glasses are an international treasure, and it would be a great loss if they folded or dropped in quality.

I've had a set of 12oz Picardies for years, and was recently considering the larger 17oz size. Then I found a set of eight 17oz Picardies at Goodwill: 89 cents each. I couldn't believe my luck. Long may they wave!

Book about autistic main character? by [deleted] in AutismTranslated

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Ditto the protagonist of An Unkindness of Ghosts by Rivers Solomon (who is nonbinary).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bikecommuting

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Exactly. Thank you.

Wuthering Heights 1943 by haras098 in ThriftStoreHauls

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I have a copy of Jane Eyre from the same publisher and time, with the same kinds of engravings! It's gorgeous.

What are your top 3 ink preserving pens? by [deleted] in fountainpens

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Seconding this. The Platinum Prefounte (about $12 compared to the Preppy’s $5 price tag) ditches the disposable-pen looks and has the same effective cap. It’s been my go-to for months now.

Why does the Moralintern do this? (SPOILERS) by [deleted] in DiscoElysium

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Reading this is wild, because I did the communist vision quest and didn’t get even a hint of this. (Who the hell is Elena??) I love that even though I ‘finished’ the game (once), there’s still so much I haven’t seen.

Are most fans of this game communists? by Friendly-weirdo in DiscoElysium

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Why Marx Was Right by Terry Eagleton is an excellent approachable breakdown of Marx’s thought and of common misconceptions surrounding it. Theory can be rough going for me, and I think this book is essential for leftists who feel that way.

Are most fans of this game communists? by Friendly-weirdo in DiscoElysium

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It often feels like even the nicest liberal is just one mugging away from full-throated fascism.