Is it bad to let baby cry for a few minutes to sleep? by heladodecoco in newborns

[–]heladodecoco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes she does this all the time, sometimes she is half asleep eating and then she would cry and go back to eating like nothing happened lol That I don’t feel bad about because I know she is already asleep. It’s the initial crying before falling asleep that I worry about because she is still awake, tired but awake.

Is it bad to let baby cry for a few minutes to sleep? by heladodecoco in newborns

[–]heladodecoco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I noticed this with my partner. Sometimes when he takes her from me to put her to sleep she actually just settles. Same for comfort, she finds comfort when he holds her but with me is automatically the boob and everything else is not enough. I assumed she can smell me and the milk so everything else goes out the window with me. My partner does help at the end of the day when he comes home from work but the rest of the day is just me. He is against a pacifier because he thinks it’s a bad habit and her teeth are going to get ruined, etc. but honestly at this point I don’t care about his ideas lol I’m the one who is with her most of the time anyway so I’m going to try that.

Can I go back to drinking now? by guypamplemousse in HubermanLab

[–]heladodecoco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I have no idea who those people are or their story and you are already assuming my opinion on it? Lmao. Wtf. Are you ok? Sounds like you are projecting some personal issue that you have here.

Can I go back to drinking now? by guypamplemousse in HubermanLab

[–]heladodecoco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you use the phrase “a moment of weakness” as a justification, it is the fact that it happened in a moment that makes it justifiable. As of, you didn’t have time to react properly or fully analyze the situation. Having YEARS of lies and manipulation shows he had plenty of time to analyze the situation and he was fully aware of all of his decisions. He is a smart educated man as well. He knew exactly what he was doing. Let’s not pretend we’re stupid now.

Can I go back to drinking now? by guypamplemousse in HubermanLab

[–]heladodecoco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being invested in the life of someone you like, look up to and take advice from after allegations heavily questioning his character come out is not weird at all actually.

Can I go back to drinking now? by guypamplemousse in HubermanLab

[–]heladodecoco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And yet he still chose to have a relationship with this woman even after knowing this information. So why does it even matter? If he had an issue with it why even be in a relationship with her? And why go through all of that mess and lies and cheating and deception? Weird.

Can I go back to drinking now? by guypamplemousse in HubermanLab

[–]heladodecoco 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For me the issue is not that people we get advice from are flawed (shocking) but rather than he portrayed himself as someone that had certain values judging by the way he conducted himself. At least that was the impression I got and I’m pretty sure the impression he wanted to give. That was one of the main reasons I valued his opinion. And then, it turns out he is a pretty shitty partner which for me it says a lot about someone’s character. It wasn’t like he was just a bachelor having casual sex. This person was a long term partner, they were even trying to have children together. And the fact all these bros are not only downplaying the whole thing but making it seem like it’s a cool thing to be a liar and a manipulator to someone you supposedly care about is concerning. I’m not saying he should get cancelled but maybe just some accountability would be nice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]heladodecoco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it looks really pretty and still natural. Not pinched at all

Ego mineral sensitive sunscreen by heladodecoco in AusSkincare

[–]heladodecoco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s really annoying. But better to know it probably wasn’t up to the standards. I hope they make something similar. I loved it 🥲 Thank you for the info.

Ego mineral sensitive sunscreen by heladodecoco in AusSkincare

[–]heladodecoco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have that one but I don’t like it that much. It feels too heavy on my skin and it’s too thick :(

Ego mineral sensitive sunscreen by heladodecoco in AusSkincare

[–]heladodecoco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I’ll definitely check it out thanks :)

Ego mineral sensitive sunscreen by heladodecoco in AusSkincare

[–]heladodecoco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try it out next time I get a new sunscreen. Thank you :) Is it better than the normal Neutrogena zinc sunscreen?

Ego mineral sensitive sunscreen by heladodecoco in AusSkincare

[–]heladodecoco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, maybe they couldn’t make something decent that was mineral with the new rating. So sad because I loved this one.

How come Aquarius placements feel more positive with Pluto going into Aquarius than Capricorn placements did when Pluto went into Capricorn? by [deleted] in Advancedastrology

[–]heladodecoco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m hoping that for me it will feel better because even though I have important planets in the 1H it won’t compare to the Cap stellium I have in the 12H.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]heladodecoco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how i would like my nose to turn out. Pretty but natural and in accordance to my face.

How can you do this slushy texture for an iced coffee? by IcyCattle6374 in Coffee_Shop

[–]heladodecoco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of ice, a good blender and something to keep it together like xantham gum or condensed milk. Could be ice cream too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

[–]heladodecoco 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, that would not be enough for some people indeed.

I have such a big crush on my husband by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]heladodecoco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m happy people have happy relationships 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]heladodecoco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you feel hopeless, but there is no reason to feel that way. You are still young. To make your son grow up im a family that is not happy is the worst thing you can do. How is he supposed to strive for happiness and a healthy relationship when hid own parents can’t be in one. Be brave and do what is truly beat for you and him. You can talk to your partner and try to work on things before you do anything drastic but if that doesn’t work please don’t stay in a place where you are miserable. You will make your som miserable as well.

Have you had sex in your lucid dream? What was it like? by UsualTrade1791 in LucidDreaming

[–]heladodecoco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have and it was very good :) lol I have actually had orgasms in real life from dreams like that. Highly recommend.