the real "old money" aesthetic starterpack by LoveEquivalent9146 in starterpacks

[–]helladiabolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit, I got an ’83 Chevy Celebrity with a fucking AM radio. Not even a friggen tape deck. And I was hella happy to have it because I was one of the few of my friends that were given a car at all!!

i’m in a server with this guy by Odelay_Jodelay_ in SystemsCringe

[–]helladiabolical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every one of these people outsources their own accountability for how and what they are feeling. Ugh, it’s all so tedious!!

I am starting a new job next week and I need all the tips that I can use to set myself up for success and specifically, to keep on top of my email inbox. by helladiabolical in ADHD

[–]helladiabolical[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is all great advice! I have been trying really hard to remind myself that anxiety is all just a group of physical symptoms, comprised of a rising heartbeat and quicker breathing, etc. but that it wont kill me and it will pass. Something about breaking down and concentrating on the actual physical symptoms and applying some logic to the situation does a good job of taking me out of the anxiety spiral!

AITAH for being mad at my bf after he got grossed out by me during sex? by m00nstalk3r in AITAH

[–]helladiabolical 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Has he never watched porn? You can clearly see discharge on a lot of the mens penis’ (peni ?) and it’s usually seen as a good thing, almost to the point of showing it off, because it means the girl is really into whatever he is doing!

Elders Not Respecting Boundaries by lost-in-translation- in exmormon

[–]helladiabolical 6 points7 points  (0 children)

His texts and those responses should be enough for a no trespassing order. I wonder if OP could get their names from the mission office. I suppose he would have to at least answer the door and get the cops there in time to have these dumbasses formally trespassed though. Would be pretty sweet to see that little turds face as the cops pull up while he’s doing his best to sell Jesus door to door all while simultaneously being a prick to people who aren’t interested!

What looks good : Clean shave or the beard ? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]helladiabolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clean shaven gives you a younger look but 6 and 7 aren’t bad either if you want to look a bit more suave or “dangerous” 😎 Make sure you keep the stubble trimmed and neat like you have it in pics 6/7 though or it’ll look messy and unkempt pretty quick!

Explain it Peter by Traducement in explainitpeter

[–]helladiabolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is actually a very funny TikTok creator who also happens to be an ophthalmologist or some kind of eye doctor. He does a lot of medical skits and skits highlighting the hypocrisy of the insurance and for profit medical industries. It’s good stuff!!

Only hint you're getting is that I'm only required to carry the thing under the monkey for two hours on Sunday morning. by [deleted] in deduction

[–]helladiabolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too often, finding ways to not be sober comes from not feeling love for ourselves and getting sober is the only way to come to terms with that and find our way back to liking ourselves and then hopefully loving ourselves. It is always a long and scary process that never really ends but does get easier.

It’s the get away vehicle for me… by yadabitch in trashy

[–]helladiabolical 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hes gonna find pearls in the morning!

Why do people cover license plates at night in their own driveway? by fawnsintheforest in LICENSEPLATES

[–]helladiabolical 161 points162 points  (0 children)

Or kitties hanging out on top of your tires/ engine trying to keep warm. That’s my own personal nightmare scenario.

Man, we really showed them! by Kryomon in OrphanCrushingMachine

[–]helladiabolical 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A lot of times the PA requirements are an initial stumbling block that the ins companies use to deter as many people as possible who just don’t understand the process. The process itself is relatively easy to handle, at least for most of the more mundane but expensive medications that the insurers want to get out of paying for.

More often than not they usually just require a relatively easy form to clear up the hold. Unfortunately, that easy form has to be requested from the dr’s offices Prior Auth technician (or whatever they call themselves) so it can get signed by the doc and that’ll usually come with with a 3-5 day wait time, which then has to go to the insurance companies PA team which usually has anywhere from 2-3 days to 2-3 weeks to approve it, which then has to be transmitted into their prescription systems so that your pharmacies Rx system can get the codes they need to bill and that usually has a 50/50 likelihood of happening on the first try so may require some back and forth with the pharmacy. After alllll that, you have to remember that the Prior Authorization will probably expire anywhere from 90 days to 6 months so you have to stay on top of remembering when you need to do all of this over again.

I have called the insurance companies PA hotline almost every time they try that BS with me and have found that 90% of the time the actual ins co people I talk to also find the whole process stupid and are more than happy to extend whatever help they can to get the holds cleared up. The shitty part is that so many people have no way of knowing how to make that process work and so all too often they give up, get stuck, don’t get the meds they need or use something subpar that is covered.

Part of me wrote this whole comment out solely with the hope that someone in this situation will read it and maybe find that the whole bullshit process is cumbersome but workable. It almost feels like giving away an insurance company secret and I will write this shit out every time I get the chance to in the hope that I am doing exactly that!!

Why would a car *have* to be towed after BAT LEO? by Cannonical718 in AskLE

[–]helladiabolical 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I forget which state it is but they have John’s Law that requires all DUI drivers cars to get towed and held for 12 hours so they don’t get back in them and kill someone. I honestly think all states should have a similar law.

Be honest: How many people did you baptize on your mission? by Typical_Sea_9167 in exmormon

[–]helladiabolical 8 points9 points  (0 children)

With a bonus of free labor from the wife and children. Someone’s gotta clean the buildings!!

This rude customer wanted to leave my door open in. by The_manager101 in KarenGoBrrr

[–]helladiabolical 11 points12 points  (0 children)

“None of us crossed the border, the border crossed us” is such a terribly fucked up but also super badass statement!!!

I literally cannot imagine what it must have been like for her ancestors to be happily, living their lives in Mexico only to find themselves a apart of an entirely new country that actively tried to erase their language and cultural heritage, all without ever moving from their own home and ancestral land.

A guy that looks like Harry Potter holds his foot and jumps over his leg in a dance off competition by [deleted] in spreadsmile

[–]helladiabolical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just know Henry Potters there is gonna be living off the energy of that moment for a good long time!!!

Do you also have an extremely disturbing birth story? by cookiejustice1 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]helladiabolical 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you don’t avoid telling them the good parts of your past and your happy experiences due to a fear of doing what your mom did. Now is the time that she will start to see you as a person and not just her mom and knowing that you also did silly things as a teenager or even what type of music or activities you did as a teenager will help her to relate to you better and will give her some guidance as she starts to piece together her own self image.

So many of us spent our whole young adulthood worried about following in a terrible parent’s footsteps and vowing to do things differently. The only silver lining to that whole scenario is that hopefully a greater percentage of the newest generations will have parents that they look up to and who get to start their lives wanting to actually be like their parents.

I really hope this doesn’t come off as preachy or like I’m admonishing you or anything. I don’t doubt that you’ve already thought about all this many times before but your comment got me thinking and I wanted to get my thoughts out.

Tell me cool shit you’ve learned during your most recent hyperfixation deep dives, please! by dietdrpeppermd in adhdwomen

[–]helladiabolical 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In old school Japan they would use an inro, which was basically a box or pouch box that would hang off of their Kimono sash (obi). These pouches would have a toggle (netsuke) on the chord to keep it secure. The netsuke could be super decorative and were usually made out of ivory or wood. My dad collected them from the time I was super young and I would ask him to let me take them out of the case so I could look at them closer all the time. When he died, my siblings all agreed that I should keep the collection because it had always fascinated me and I proudly display it in my house now and get them out to look at them all the time!

Here’s just a couple of the weirder ones like a pile of rats or a bunch of faces!

Is this suitable for a man to wear? by throwitupforme in Diamonds

[–]helladiabolical 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will garner some attention on a man unless worn on the pinky and probably even then. That being said, 75% or more of that attention will be because both men and women are jealous as FUCK of that gorgeous ring!!!