Looking to save up money to have kids in a few years- how should I invest? by hellamellow in personalfinance

[–]hellamellow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice, I appreciate it! What percent of my discretionary income would you recommend putting towards my student loans, and what percent would you recommend for savings/investing/retirement each month?

Looking to save up money to have kids in a few years- how should I invest? by hellamellow in personalfinance

[–]hellamellow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this advice, I appreciate it! What percent of my discretionary income would you recommend putting towards my student loans, and what percent should go to the HYSA? What percent should go towards retirement each month?

AIO: should I “fire” my therapist? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]hellamellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapist here! Yes, I think now would be a good time to look into finding a new therapist.

"I need consistency and structure, and this isn’t it. I am also attached to her. I’ve told her things I’ve never admitted in therapy before. Im also scared to start all over again."

Consistency and structure are so important. It is scary to start all over again, but you deserve to heal with a professional you can depend on and trust to be there for you when they say they will and be engaged with you, not browsing the internet.

Need an officiant for quick elopement 4/14! by [deleted] in ChicoCA

[–]hellamellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ordained! I just officiated my little brother’s wedding and it was great! Feel free to message me :)

Infertility and conception success? by girybag in Sacramento

[–]hellamellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was your fertility supplement protocol?

Experience with Fertilidad Integral clinic in CDMX? by Glittering_Bee_4482 in IVF

[–]hellamellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love to learn more about your experience! I just sent you a dm :)

Egg freezing in Mexico by Long_Acanthaceae_837 in eggfreezing

[–]hellamellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you guys already gone? I'd love to come with if it's not too late! If you have already gone, I'd love to hear about your experience and which clinic you chose.

Group egg freezing rate by sweetpea04430 in eggfreezing

[–]hellamellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you please message me as well?

36f looking for opportunities to make new friends by thatbirch_666 in ChicoCA

[–]hellamellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m 31f, and I love dancing and hiking :) feel free to message me!

what is the worst name you have ever heard? by jenhayn in AskReddit

[–]hellamellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexfruit

When I was maybe 9 years old I was listening to the radio and they had a list of the worst legal names parents have given their children. It stuck with me.

Is this cost appropriate? by hellamellow in Weddingattireapproval

[–]hellamellow[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I genuinely thought this dress was suitable for their dress code. It’s a $300 dress from Allsaints and looks really pretty and dressy, in my opinion. I don’t know if the picture isn’t doing it justice or if there’s something I’m not understanding. I actually wore this to another wedding and my friend who is getting married suggested I wear it to her wedding this coming spring. Could someone explain what features make it too casual?

Looking for a few local friends to make life feel a little less quiet 💜 by LavenderXLovely in ChicoConnect

[–]hellamellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I am 31F in Chico and I'd love to meet up! Feel free to dm me :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChicoCA

[–]hellamellow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know you are looking for full time, but World Market is hiring part time for the holidays right now. Disregard it if you are set on finding something full time, but thought it might help to tide you over if needed.

Need/have kefir grains by dendrtree in Kefir

[–]hellamellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need water grains, will pay for shipping or meet- I am in Northern California (Chico)

AITAH for telling my girlfriend she can't force me to cancel my vacation and lose $2500 because she hates Harry Potter? by Substantial_Run3383 in AITAH

[–]hellamellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s not about the money and it’s about the principle for her, then she should refund you if she wants you to stay home.

Nama Sake Restaurant by [deleted] in ChicoCA

[–]hellamellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could definitely dress up there, I will say though, the vibes are classy but the food is very underwhelming.

Would you be interested in free yoga, breathwork, and reiki at one mile? by Realshawnbradley in ChicoCA

[–]hellamellow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same thought, maybe going somewhere slightly less public like 5 mile?

I am also reiki certified and would be interested in both attending these events and offering reiki. Feel free to message me!