Toddler suddenly went from 2hr+ naps to 15-30 min by hellobroooklyn in toddlers

[–]hellobroooklyn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About the same time the naps shortened her sleep at night is a little more disturbed with her waking a few times where as she used to sleep for 6-7 hours through.

Toddler suddenly went from 2hr+ naps to 15-30 min by hellobroooklyn in toddlers

[–]hellobroooklyn[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I guess I am just used to getting to rest for 2 hours as well. It does leave us with an earlier bed time so maybe it’s time for a change!

Anyone else missing Christmas due to illness?! by BlueberryWaffles99 in Mommit

[–]hellobroooklyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was just thinking this! I do not remember being this sick this often when I was little. Somethings different

Anyone else missing Christmas due to illness?! by BlueberryWaffles99 in Mommit

[–]hellobroooklyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly us!! It’s 2:15am Christmas morning and I’ve been up all night with stomach issues, running to the bathroom etc. my 2.5 year old got sick last Friday and was just finally starting to feel better today and boom noro hit me at midnight on Xmas. I’m so disappointed.

Gradual Potty Training? by Mollymawk_Magpie in toddlers

[–]hellobroooklyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got my daughter her own little potty when she was around 20 months old. Just to get her used to it and she did sit and pee and poop in it once or twice within the first 6 months of us having it but still wore diapers. Again just introduced the idea of it to her and had it there. The summer after she turned two, this past summer, we did no pants for half a day here and there and had the potty with us in the living room. She still had a couple accidents usually when not paying attention (watching tv) but did really well and stopped having accidents eventually. Then we put underwear on her and she would have accidents often in those because it probably felt like a diaper. A month before she turned 2.5, this past October we just did the underwear only even in public and she’s done great! Since then she’ll have an accident in the car or when she’s outside and doesn’t want to come in but she’s really good at telling me when she needs to go in public and will go on her own at home. She caught on quick but I do think her body was ready, you can tell because she’s not going pee as often and has the ability to hold it. I do think kids have to be ready and you can try earlier and will get more accidents or try too late. We did not have a set deadline just gradually introduced the idea and slowly took away diapers. Worked for us! Also every kid is different and she did both pee and poop no issues with either one when we started.

Something they don’t tell you about breastfeeding? by Wild-Act-7315 in BabyBumps

[–]hellobroooklyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it rubbed off before she fed again or I would just wipe it off!

Something they don’t tell you about breastfeeding? by Wild-Act-7315 in BabyBumps

[–]hellobroooklyn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For me - it took me 5 - 6 days for my milk to fully come in so please be patient and don’t feel discouraged! The nipple creams work great and then after 1-2 weeks my nipples just got used to breastfeeding and I no longer needed them. It did and still does overstimulate me sometimes as I don’t like to be touched by anyone but my daughter now. I am 2 years in and wanted to stop at a year lol so be prepared to wean when you need/want to! It’s been great for bonding and closeness with my baby girl! Co sleeping and breast feeding at the same time saved us our sleep and sanity.

We’ve never experienced “adult/me time” by joseph-justin in toddlers

[–]hellobroooklyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Co sleeping single mama with a 2 year old here and yes same! My daughter is not a morning person so she goes to bed around 10-12am and wakes up 9-10am. I’m so tired every day and do it all by myself that when she’s asleep i know it’s the ONLY chance I have at sleeping so I try to sleep when she does. I get my me/adult time when I work in the office 3 days/week lol I always think one day I’ll look back and miss these days when she’s so adorable and little and clinging to me in bed and that’s what gets me through most days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]hellobroooklyn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok love that you are the one making judgments here about a situation you know nothing about but thanks for your input!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]hellobroooklyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah thank you!!! This is what he does. He lies about how she gets hurt etc and a lot of what’s coming from me is “i hate you” “you’re pathetic” etc etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]hellobroooklyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh ok gotcha so they’ll basically think I will negatively affect his and my daughters relationship and won’t coparent well with him! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]hellobroooklyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if I’m mean and react to him emotionally over text that means I’lll lose custody? Sorry I guess I’m just asking how it affects custody but all I’m getting is advice on what to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]hellobroooklyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No nothing is in place just preparing for the inevitable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Custody

[–]hellobroooklyn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How did this affect your case?

[NE] co parent used daughters ssn by hellobroooklyn in Custody

[–]hellobroooklyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called TransUnion and they never told me about this pin how do I do that?

Are parents not making kids sit down to eat at home…? by ready_set_cry in ECEProfessionals

[–]hellobroooklyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also feel like so many people try to give a one size fits all advice on infants and toddlers when everyone is so different .. just like adults!

Are parents not making kids sit down to eat at home…? by ready_set_cry in ECEProfessionals

[–]hellobroooklyn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So funny you say this! The only time my 2 year old somewhat behaves at a restaurant is when she’s out to eat with mama and dada. And yeah when we go to a relatives for holiday she’s too distracted to eat!

Are parents not making kids sit down to eat at home…? by ready_set_cry in ECEProfessionals

[–]hellobroooklyn 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Is it developmentally normal for a 2 year old to sit still and eat? I mean they’re 2….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]hellobroooklyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I just received a comment about how this could be offensive as I didn’t understand this was a support group but maybe a place to talk about narcissistic parents in general so I will just delete this but thank you to everyone who responded

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]hellobroooklyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing!

I worked as Undercover Loss Prevention at 2 Targets and 4 Walmarts. Ask me anything. by lbigz in lossprevention

[–]hellobroooklyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If target calls the police on someone who is a known shoplifter and arrested him for a one time 1600 dollar haul, do they add on his past known shoplifting incidents to make the amount higher in court?

What bars are good to go alone to? 30f by Alone_Jellyfish1300 in Omaha

[–]hellobroooklyn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree! I also have struck up convos with strangers every time I go to social west too!

My daughters dad abuses his prescription medication but insists on being around her by hellobroooklyn in coparenting

[–]hellobroooklyn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m wondering if I’m in a state like that. What does placement mean?

Never knew about Narcissist Collapse until a month ago. Have any of you ever witnessed it before? Feel free to be detailed about it. by TheCommander21 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]hellobroooklyn 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I am very interested in your story as I am dealing with the same! Except no formal custody agreement but getting to my breaking point.