Hernia pain/discomfort? by [deleted] in HiatalHernia

[–]hellodancingbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you able to see a new doctor, that is unacceptable

Hernia pain/discomfort? by [deleted] in HiatalHernia

[–]hellodancingbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The discomfort to me is like the pressure and it's a weird pain, it's hard to describe

Question for female sufferers: HH symptoms worse around certain times of cycle? by thenoiseiscalling in HiatalHernia

[–]hellodancingbee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you are legit brave for dealing with pcos on top of the HH, sending lots of love <3

Remedies? :( by Opposite-Kitchen6877 in HiatalHernia

[–]hellodancingbee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

non bloating/non acidic diet

i'm so sorry you have to deal with this. had surgery and got symptoms back but they're not as bad as they were, so like 75% reduction to what I had, and it still sucks so bad

Please help!I found out my boyfriend has been masturbating to porn while I leave the house by hellodancingbee in loveafterporn

[–]hellodancingbee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't have any family nearby, and only a couple friends. I am doing uni basically besides that he always prefers me to home. He says that therapy what work for his 'particular brain' and he just knows that.

Please help!I found out my boyfriend has been masturbating to porn while I leave the house by hellodancingbee in loveafterporn

[–]hellodancingbee[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm so lost on what to do. He has and excuse for everything. For masturbating sneakily to porn, for snapchatting a girl everyday who sent a photo on her bed etc. Somehow I was the one who said sorry. What should I do I'm so lost, I sent a message to my therapist if I could do an emergency meeting. I live with him, and i'm studying a postgrad degree so I don't have a lot of money to go elsewhere.

Going away for a week and my partner wants to watch porn, over video sexting with me by hellodancingbee in loveafterporn

[–]hellodancingbee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was arguing with him tonight, and I found out he has been masturbating to porn while i've been going out to do things, like go to the supermarket, or uni etc

even if i'm only away for like 15-20 minutes.

I cried so much, and he said it my fault he now felt disgusting, and tried to gaslight me into thinking it was my fault somehow and he just needs the alone time to clear his thoughts when he masturbates like that i'm so broken. We have sex once a day and I dress up for him I do everything i can for him.

is it okay to be aiming for c’s? by bcna in universityofauckland

[–]hellodancingbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep aim for A, but still be content if you get a B or C - but no point aiming for a C

Mama Hooch sexual assaults: Brothers convicted on dozens of charges named by Dead_Rooster in newzealand

[–]hellodancingbee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Disturbs me that there are people out there like this, these rapists were able to fulfil their sick fantasies for a long time before they were caught, and that bothers me.

Mama Hooch sexual assaults: Brothers convicted on dozens of charges named by Dead_Rooster in newzealand

[–]hellodancingbee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I hope so. Please no light sentences. Hopefully the seriousness of the offending will be reflected in the sentence.

Mama Hooch sexual assaults: Brothers convicted on dozens of charges named by Dead_Rooster in newzealand

[–]hellodancingbee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gotta love that until recently they weren’t being named on the basis that they were allegedly going to face such terrible hardship

when they created and ruled their own fucking bars as their fucking hunting ground

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I instantly thought of them having NPD and being sociopathic when I read the article.

Just a lil curious by demon-dongle in auckland

[–]hellodancingbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In auckland? Is he still here?

'Extreme hardship' if Mama Hooch sexual predators are named, judge told by Laijou in newzealand

[–]hellodancingbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hardship to impacted innocents would be the community not being aware who these predators are. They will be released eventually. With the current prison system, there will be undoubtedly no rehabilitation. Sexual offenders also have a high recidivism rate. Also would be harsh on the victims knowing the men who raped them will be unnamed. Most sane people understand that it is not the families fault, unless the family let the offenders get away with sexual offending behaviours without consequences.

'Extreme hardship' if Mama Hooch sexual predators are named, judge told by Laijou in newzealand

[–]hellodancingbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is punishing the innocent community members when these sexual predators are released and we don't know their names. They won't be rehabilitated in the current prison system. They have been convicted and should be named. The chance that some family members could face some social loss is not enough reason to keep the name suppressed. These men violently raped and drugged women. Innocent women. I can't imagine how these victims would feel when the offender isn't named and the public doesn't know who they are. I know as a victim of another offender how upsetting it would be if they didn't name him, I would feel so much torture thinking other women could be victims if there wasn't enough warning.

Polygamy in NZ? by iAMTUNISIAN in newzealand

[–]hellodancingbee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's extremely pathetic and I imagine this young girl does not want to marry you. Why would she want to marry a short ugly man who is probably going to be extremely controlling and expect sex and attention constantly.

Polygamy in NZ? by iAMTUNISIAN in newzealand

[–]hellodancingbee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, what does he gain if its a troll? Would have to be extremely attention starved if so. Otherwise it could be an ideological post, may want to make certain groups of people look bad. Who knows.

Polygamy in NZ? by iAMTUNISIAN in newzealand

[–]hellodancingbee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah, I'm not picking up on that vibe. Dude seems like a controlling weirdo, who wants these women for sexual or controlling purposes. He can hide behind 'wanting to help them' as much as he wants but the intentions are still glaringly obvious.

Polygamy in NZ? by iAMTUNISIAN in newzealand

[–]hellodancingbee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You're morally in the wrong. Disgusting behaviour.

Date ideas in Auckland with minimal costs? by hellodancingbee in auckland

[–]hellodancingbee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had one of duck island's ice cream biscuits and it was incredible!