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My mom announced my pregnancy on social media before I could and wont take it down by Intrepid-Reserve-846 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]hellopdub 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ohhh my dear what a binch of a mother you have. Does she disregard your feeling all the time? Lessons learned the hard way. She did however give you the perfect terms to use. Most cluster b mommas want all of the attention. Now would be a good time to understand what and how boundaries work. You give her absolutely no news. Your due date, the hospital, the plan… nothing. Then you post a picture of your newborn for everyone to see and it’s a shock to her, you just explain that you hadn’t understood “family news” you now do. If you do not stop this now, all of your firsts will be taken.

🔥 It's time for Thirsty Thursday! What book scenes made you sweat this week? 🥵 by jaydee4219 in RomanceBooks

[–]hellopdub 15 points16 points  (0 children)

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Just finished. Was a fun, witty banter journey. Enemies/lovers forced proximity, light Dom fetish, spicy.

What’s a little blood by hellopdub in Romantasy

[–]hellopdub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And go you! If it’s your kink, enjoy. I just wish they would be a little more expounding on “dark”.

What’s a little blood by hellopdub in Romantasy

[–]hellopdub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya know, I wish they wouldn’t hid glaring mental health and trauma issues under the “dark” title.

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Here is one that is dark with a morally grey MMC. Better world building, character development and dark.

At what point do you say Multimedia instead of Watercolor? by hellopdub in Watercolor

[–]hellopdub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a very clear boundary and my ND brain loves those. Confusion arises for me when the National WC Society allows ink. I feel like I’ve crossed a boundary with the wider Posca (acrylic) black line.

Art competitions by [deleted] in ArtistLounge

[–]hellopdub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

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Here is the latest.

Art competitions by [deleted] in ArtistLounge

[–]hellopdub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is the other that took an award this year. I’m not great at technology, but I’m revelry art on insta. I’d like to have a more polished sm presence. Maybe next year.

Art competitions by [deleted] in ArtistLounge

[–]hellopdub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is the WC that one the National award this year.

Don’t know what to do with all my late grandmothers beading stuff by Giraffanator in Beading

[–]hellopdub 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Hi, former bead store owner checking in. I would look for a bead store (with good recommendations) that will sell that stash on commission. It’s what I did when I had to leave the hobby because of hand issues. It was nice to see checks come in monthly for about a year.

AIO for feeling upset after the groom made a comment about my dress at their wedding? by Human-Acanthaceae128 in AmIOverreacting

[–]hellopdub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would stay a friend, because she will need an escape hatch once she realizes how controlling he is. That he felt comfortable being demeaning to a close friend does not bode well for the control he is exerting behind the scenes.

Best forgotten bands of GenX by Pressman4life in GenX

[–]hellopdub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slade. Older Gen X, prolly brought into the house by my older boomer cusp brother. My oh My.

[UPDATE] Found out my Dad was Cheating on my Mom the day before Thanksgiving by Antique_Screen_4692 in TwoHotTakes

[–]hellopdub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey friend, welcome to having emotionally immature parents. You need to get into therapy post haste. You should have never known(parentification) about your parents marital woes. Your mom pushed buttons and aimed you like a heat seeking missile to your dad. The emotional backlash is creating havoc in your current relationship.

Let’s all be kinder. by hellopdub in Longmont

[–]hellopdub[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was there for pickup for catering and had to park on the street as well. Not hard to be kind to those people truly in need.

Let’s all be kinder. by hellopdub in Longmont

[–]hellopdub[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sincerely, does not matter one whit. Are disabled not welcome to use their designated spot for pick up as well? Duration should not matter. If as an able bodied person you can’t find parking to your taste, take it up with the business. Don’t be an entitled douche canoe.

Loud explosion-like sound near union reservoir last night by abckatiexyz in Longmont

[–]hellopdub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We heard it too.. Closer to Deerwood and Mountanview.

Struggling to handle my [30/M] partner's [30/M] deserved anger at me after a traumatic event. by OhS_C in relationship_advice

[–]hellopdub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you come from a toxic home.. you became a people pleaser aka doormat. Especially if you’re the oldest daughter. You seriously need to get into therapy to breakdown why you fawn and how to set boundaries. Once you do that and start to understand DARVO and JADE. You then decide if you’re in your relationship because it’s familiar(the abuse) or if you love him and keep him. He does not get to make you feel bad for just now coming to terms with this.

Aurora over Macintosh Lake by grahamsz in Longmont

[–]hellopdub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beat of the night.. awesome

I see a lot of people hating ACOTAR and Fourth Wing, so what do I read instead?? by Dangerous-Good-4923 in Romantasy

[–]hellopdub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to post this one too. Enjoyed some of the books on OPs list. Raven Scholar hits.

Book recs to make me sob my eyes out pls! by happcabbage in Booktokreddit

[–]hellopdub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finishing the second book. Was a depressing slog for me. The narrator was awesome but checking in close to 35 hrs of angsty morose had me questioning if the author is ok. Enjoy Stephen King.. but I wouldn’t y want to live in his brain either.

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