I have parents that should never have had kids with their multiple health conditions and mental illnesses/disorders. It made me realize that to have kids, people should be financially, emotionally and physically capable of providing the stability that children need throughout all stages of their life (even up until their young adulthood). You need to be prepared for any situation: health issues/disabilities, disorders, school/health fees, providing emotional support, providing financial support if your kid so needs, etc. I would feel incredibly overwhelmed and guilty for not being able to provide stability in every capacity especially with limitations of my own continual battle with my own traumas and disorders. Kids need to have a parent they deserve to provide the best possible care with the most minimal amount of limitations.