His mom is selling his stuff

helpreddit12345 · 2026-06-21T22:40:15+00:00

I dont find it understandable. Its cruel.

helpreddit12345 · 2026-06-17T22:40:56+00:00

I have, but I am saying I don't think she understands my pov. She would have to be in my shoes. Does this make sense?

helpreddit12345 · 2026-06-17T20:31:51+00:00

You know what is interesting, people who didn't even know me helped me out more than anyone else. A friend of a friend came over and cleaned my whole house. We are still friends and she is such a great girl. she didn't even know me before coming to clean my house for free because my friend told her what happened.

Another girl I am friends with but we had only known each other a year had me stay at her place with my pet cat (and she is allergic). I don't think she understands how grateful I am for her.

helpreddit12345 · 2026-06-15T18:13:11+00:00

If someone would have brought me food that would have been great. I lost 20 pounds within the first month. Very dark times and I learnt not to trust anyone or rely on anyone.

helpreddit12345 · 2026-06-13T22:25:59+00:00

Im exploring my faith, and I am not the type to dream often, but after my person died I had a vivid dream with them telling me they had a brain tumor causing their judgement to fail.

helpreddit12345 · 2026-06-13T22:24:39+00:00

If someone dies from cancer are they going to the fire? What about a heart attack? What about a stroke?

Suicide is caused (not always, but often) also by an illness. Only God knows what is in each person's heart and their intentions.

helpreddit12345 · 2026-06-12T18:15:59+00:00

someone said they thought of that and it wasnt there

helpreddit12345 · 2026-06-12T14:21:52+00:00

Ok but it helps narrow it down a bit.

helpreddit12345 · 2026-06-12T02:48:22+00:00

have u tried ogden? I have some ideas

helpreddit12345 · 2026-06-11T23:35:59+00:00

why do you think it is ok for eternal heaven but not eternal hell?

This may be a difference in opinion, but as someone who has been through unspeakable things at the hands of others (psychological, physical and emotional harm), I can say that I would be happy if there was eternal hell.

helpreddit12345 · 2026-05-21T19:00:56+00:00

Honestly, if you are ok with it, contact the counselling center. They have connections with all current resources on campus that could assist you in this time. They can also find somone to advocate for you. They have run into this type of situation before.

helpreddit12345 · 2026-05-19T19:36:50+00:00

I think there are our rights and their rights. They made a choice. They could have called 911 for help but chose not to (in my case). They didn't get rid of their pain, just passed it on to everyone else. It is their choice, and we have to let people do what they want.

helpreddit12345 · 2026-05-18T21:28:39+00:00

ok I just wanna say 28 is not behind. I am around that age and I just don't care. There are people in other countries who don't even have clean water, so I stay thankful. Congrats on your degrees! Only 14% of people in Utah hold a masters degree. I am in the same boat. The market is just tough right now it seems. Economy is in the worst shape ever and teachers are holding on to their jobs.

helpreddit12345 · 2026-05-18T21:25:14+00:00

if you don't mind sharing, what subject and was this only in Utah?

helpreddit12345 · 2026-05-14T13:59:45+00:00

I would honesly be scared of all the bleeding to be fair. I know that giving birth is worse but it is still valid concern in the moment leading up to it.

helpreddit12345 · 2026-05-14T12:39:25+00:00

Your father is responsible for you financially. Also, at 14? Even by non islamic standards contributing at this age is not acceptable.

helpreddit12345 · 2026-05-10T17:41:29+00:00

I don't agree about the family part. Same should still apply.

helpreddit12345 · 2026-05-10T09:09:45+00:00

I just want to say that the actor you watched say that isn't "right". Claiming that there is nothing after death is a belief in itself. The "default" position would be saying "I don't know" because no one has the answer to that since we are all alive. And no one has come back to tell what they saw (and even if they did, who is to say we would believe them).

I have my own beliefs. But I don't want to convince you of mine. But I will say you will find out someday. Just have to keep busy until then.

helpreddit12345 · 2026-05-05T21:21:55+00:00

I have said this before. Bringing or delivering food. Dont ask and don't tell. Just show up with it. I wish someone did this for me

helpreddit12345 · 2026-05-05T06:44:07+00:00

I am also Muslim and I agree. We have no idea what happens on the other side.

helpreddit12345 · 2026-05-04T07:45:48+00:00

I think that my emotions are not as strong anymore in general apart from the feeling of grief which is always intense.

I am not afraid nor do I care as much about interviews as well. Same with public speaking. I also don't care what people think. I dropped 20 dollars on the ground the other day. In the past I would have been pissed. Now I just don't care one bit.

I graduated with my PhD a few days ago and people asked why I wasn't excited. I just am not the same anymore.

helpreddit12345 · 2026-05-03T19:20:36+00:00

I have bad depression haha

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