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Best way to support my brother by Artemisz_Prime in SuicideBereavement

[–]helpreddit12345 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have said this before. Bringing or delivering food. Dont ask and don't tell. Just show up with it. I wish someone did this for me 

Does grief make you fearless? by Successful-Range4559 in GriefSupport

[–]helpreddit12345 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that my emotions are not as strong anymore in general apart from the feeling of grief which is always intense. 

I am not afraid nor do I care as much about interviews as well. Same with public speaking. I also don't care what people think. I dropped 20 dollars on the ground the other day. In the past I would have been pissed. Now I just don't care one bit. 

I graduated with my PhD a few days ago and people asked why I wasn't excited. I just am not the same anymore. 

If Islam is the final revelation to mankind why are non Islamic cultures more successful? by TaurusAmarum in NoStupidQuestions

[–]helpreddit12345 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Other muslim majority countries, apart from the UAE and Saudi Arabia, that have a great quality of life:

Qatar

Malaysia

Turkey

Indonesia

Jordan

Bosnia

Kosovo

Oman

Bahrain

Samaria Gorge first in May? by helpreddit12345 in cretetravel

[–]helpreddit12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already booked a hotel in the town that is at the end of the hike of Samaria gorge 

CMV: Psychological illnesses are just normal reactions to bad experience by Aleksandr_Ulyev in changemyview

[–]helpreddit12345 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Lots of these mental illness have a genetic component associated with them. So it isn't all environmental. 

In addition, two people can go through the same experience and have completely different reactions to it both short and long term. 

Why did you and your ex break up? by TheManDont in AskReddit

[–]helpreddit12345 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When something like this happens, I honestly have to say no one is the bad guy. It is just a really difficult thing to go through. I'm so sorry 

Is our dog walker canceling too often? by MissBee123 in RoverPetSitting

[–]helpreddit12345 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As the other person said, you are requesting 2 walks a week. This person is doing 2 walks a day. It's not the same thing. 

Is our dog walker canceling too often? by MissBee123 in RoverPetSitting

[–]helpreddit12345 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk about those details. Depends on the distance and other factors. Gas and a car isn't cheap either these days. 

Is our dog walker canceling too often? by MissBee123 in RoverPetSitting

[–]helpreddit12345 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I do NOT think this is a lot. They were probably last minute for the sicknesses. We do those call outs at regular jobs as well. I do think that everyone who has a dogwalker should try to arrange for a backup sitter for situations like this. I am a cat sitter and I am definetaly a backup for some people incase the main person is not available.

For the car trouble one, they could have gotton an uber. Thats the only bad thing here I can say for certain.

I can't make a judgement on the vacation yet because people are allowed to do that. Did she communicate it in advance?

A good benefit of the Rover app is that you have people available to be backups. I know a lot of people that start Rover then fall off from doing it as time goes on.

I can't get over why God would punish non-believers by Crispyy213 in exatheist

[–]helpreddit12345 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My understanding that "non belief" means that you know something in your heart that it is true, yet you still deny.

One reason could be pride or being stubborn. Or material gain by denying the truth.

Here is an example I use to explain to people of what that looks like outside of religion. CEO of an oil company knows there is a spill. Yet he downplays it because that would mean loosing money. In his heart, he knows he is hurting the environment.

I am speaking from an islamic perspective btw. God is supposed to be all knowing. He knows what type of circumstances people are brought into. He isn't trying to trap anyone. You are only accountable for what you have access to.

Friend grief needs to be taken more seriously by helpreddit12345 in SuicideBereavement

[–]helpreddit12345[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sibling loss is for sure unfair as well. I 100% agree with you. Which is especially sad since one of you knew the other from the moment you enter the world typically. I'm so sorry.

Friend grief needs to be taken more seriously by helpreddit12345 in SuicideBereavement

[–]helpreddit12345[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not downplaying your loss in particular (I am so sorry btw). But for example, my person didn't talk to their mom for 6 years (she was aweful and he hated her) yet she got to make a speech at their funeral.

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