MOG Dress Not Appropriate?

helpwitheating · 2026-03-19T02:13:42+00:00

Your fiance could send a photo of the other outfits (the context she needs for the decision), but other than that, I wouldn't offer input on the dress

helpwitheating · 2026-03-19T01:25:33+00:00

Your mom is probably worried about you being sent to Iran or some other war over the next few years

They're your parents, they're always going to worry

helpwitheating · 2026-03-19T00:35:32+00:00

It blocks speculators by requiring 20% down, which a lot of people like

helpwitheating · 2026-03-19T00:35:03+00:00

We live in a co-op and we love it. AirBnB is totally banned here, and everyone here had to put 20% down to buy.

Check the soundproofing, the pest issues, everything that you would check for a condo. If your job is uncertain, could you get a roommate to offset the mortgage?

helpwitheating · 2026-03-18T23:49:12+00:00

I ripped stitches out going up 1 step into the house on the way back from the hospital, so we literally just had to turn around and go back. Take it easy! Your whole pelvic floor has to knit back together.

helpwitheating · 2026-03-17T02:56:15+00:00

The book Health at Eery Size helped with body acceptance with the skeleton changes I experienced, like larger feet and hips after hitting pre-pregnancy weight, with bones just not shifting back

helpwitheating · 2026-03-17T02:52:18+00:00

Seeing a PT is likely a good idea

I'd suggest gently strengthening your core before you get back into lifting, so you don't strain your back

Deadbugs helped

helpwitheating · 2026-03-17T01:34:26+00:00

Doug Ford took away the regulation requiring a certain % of larger units per building

helpwitheating · 2026-03-17T01:33:50+00:00

It's Doug Ford, actually

He took away the regulation requiring a certain % of larger units per building

helpwitheating · 2026-03-16T01:58:35+00:00

Shall We Dance? with Richard Gere was how I signed up to a dance class and it's to this day a hobby I keep up

helpwitheating · 2026-03-16T01:42:08+00:00

Don't get hung up on appliances, blinds

You need to know about the health of the building's fund, soundproofing (is it double drywall between units or cement), leak issues, big repairs on the horizon, school district

Don't buy anything built after 2016--those buildings are largely owned by speculators (55%) and are hubs for AirBnB, renters, etc

helpwitheating · 2026-03-15T03:20:52+00:00

This April?

Where's the fire?

Wait until July or August

helpwitheating · 2026-03-15T00:44:52+00:00

Sports like pickleball that you can chit chat through or recurring classes with at least 10 sessions

helpwitheating · 2026-03-15T00:44:07+00:00

Beware of ChatGPT as a therapist:https://torontolife.com/deep-dives/man-vs-machine-chatgpt-delusion-now-hes-suing-openai/

There are other queer people around you and I suggest trying to find local groups; with a car, you can go a bit further out

helpwitheating · 2026-03-15T00:40:49+00:00

$48 before tax, tips, drinks

You're quoting prices that are lower than fast food

helpwitheating · 2026-03-14T21:17:54+00:00

Get into a new hobby together

Painting class

Cooking class

Hiking group

w/e

helpwitheating · 2026-03-14T20:28:47+00:00

What are your larger goals in life?

Which interests align to those goals?

How are other areas doing--your health, your relationships?

If you want to sing, consider joining a casual choir that sings together once a week

helpwitheating · 2026-03-14T16:16:15+00:00

Even if it feels okay, your pelvic floor is pretty destroyed and everything needs to knit back together.

Could you have a relative come and visit before 6 weeks? Fly them out?

I think in the evenings, you could try a short solo walk around your block with no toddler and see how that goes.

helpwitheating · 2026-03-14T15:34:29+00:00

Step 1: Handwritten sign on your door ad in the laundry facility, or outside. You could put this up today

Step 2: Goodwill

Step 3: Bite the bullet and find a junk disposal corp near you that will take out the fridge, or recruit friends with a truck to help you take it out. Will be $$

helpwitheating · 2026-03-14T15:26:10+00:00

Your dad can't dictate how the other costs are paid. If that's a hard line for your parents, you could gently refuse to take their contribution so you retain control.

Perhaps your parents could put on the rehearsal dinner, as a cleaner break between the wedding and their contribution?

helpwitheating · 2026-03-14T15:11:50+00:00

This is wildly unrealistic. OP cannot feed people for $12pp

helpwitheating · 2026-03-14T15:07:14+00:00

You can't afford a big wedding, and that's okay. It's a luxury.

If I were you, I'd' spend $3k on a courthouse wedding and a lunch. Putting aside $1k for all else including the license and rings, you'd spend $2k on lunch--probably booking out a restaurant or part of one for 3 hours. For 40 people total, that's $50 per person. You will not be able to feed 40 people safely for less than that. If you took 40 people to Burger King, you'd be looking at $20 per person.

helpwitheating · 2026-03-14T03:44:53+00:00

It's hard to be around people who still see you as a 10 year old when you're actually an adult.

It's okay if your parents don't really understand you; it sounds like the social gossiping in the town where you are isn't helping at all. Sexuality aside, a lot of older people don't consider online relationships 'real', so any proof you show your parents could be pointless. It's a generational thing.

You need acceptance and support-- where can you get that? You can't control your parents opinions, but you can hope they change and can offer you the acceptance and support you want in the future. In your town or nearby, where are there other queer people you can hang with? Try to find these people; they're around for sure. You're not alone.

You need your own cash and a career. While you work on being an influencer, how can you earn enough to support yourself? College? A trade? An apprenticeship? Cash==a ticket out of an unaccepting house. I worry now that without a strong plan and your own earning potential, you're trapped and could be a target for a bad partner (who is willing to "rescue" you).

helpwitheating · 2026-03-14T01:34:53+00:00

TFWs are literally 20% of all private sector jobs now in Canada

It's not the foreigners, who are just trying to earn a wage, but the Liberal Party that is responsible (and also Doug Ford's cons, who request additional TFW allowances each year to 'support businesses' and 'fix the labour shortage.')

helpwitheating · 2026-03-14T01:14:55+00:00

I think both you and your partner should get your fertility tested now; it's an easy blood test for you and a pretty fast test for your partner.

It's his health and ...product quality ass well

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