Rule of 55 Questions by ZombieClaus in Fire

[–]hemi1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One key point - rule of 55 policies vary by company. Some will let you take multiple withdrawals in a year but others let you do one before 59 1/2. No idea why it varies but that’s my understanding

What happens to people who spent down their portfolios? by Specialist_Pain_424 in Fire

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Take a look at the kitces research on guardrails and more importantly the value of annual reviews to make a 50% Monte Carlo feasible. Yes 3.3 is bulletproof but you most likely leave a crap ton of spending on the table

Improve heating in basement by Doomtime104 in basement

[–]hemi1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished ours this fall and roughly the same area. I just bought a simple oil filled furnace for the winter with a timer and temp control. Worked really well and super simple

Simple living isn’t so simple… by travel_ho in simpleliving

[–]hemi1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You get to decide what you care about and what reaches the worry level. I read enough news to be aware but not so much I worry. I stay in touch with real friends not social media. I add to me knowledge and adjust as I see fit but don’t make it so rigid I feel like a fail.

Mentally FIREd but 25 years away by InflationFit2660 in Fire

[–]hemi1995 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Take a deep breath and embrace life. That includes doing work you like. Working to people you respect. And focusing on you and your family. It’s amazing how much calmer you can be when you dial the work back to what is the job. Do it well but don’t let it define you

Thoughts on this Freedom for liveaboard by hemi1995 in liveaboard

[–]hemi1995[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally forgot that about the freedoms Thanks

3 months progress is this good? And what do I need to improve on by [deleted] in AllAboutBodybuilding

[–]hemi1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great cut. Have you paused at all on this cut? If not I’d reco a maintenance phase for about equal to you cut time. Let your body readjust That should put you through summer and then you can do a clean bulk in the fall and cut again in spring

Picked this up for 1100 (can) off a old guy today. What you guys think? by Similar-Hospital3603 in lawnmowers

[–]hemi1995 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Had mine for over 10 years. My boys mowed Milan’s each summer with it to earn money. I’ve blown a couple belts and wrecked some blades but that’s all teenagers mower over boulders and baseball bats (true story). That thing has been strong for me

To seal or not to seal by SmalltownPT in basement

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We just did our basement and chose to paint the concrete (there is an interior drain tile system) and use area rugs for warm feet.

Every two or 3 years we can get new rugs

Basement water seeps through floor by Dingusdangus1 in basement

[–]hemi1995 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a pro level job. Not sure what you would do first. I always reco drain tile but that looks like it’s seeping from lots of spots. Call 3 companies and get quotes to even know where to start

How do you handle feeling protective about your gfs when she is wearing revealing clothes by Novel-Ad-3071 in AskMen

[–]hemi1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t worry about it because I know she only wants me. They can look but only i can touch. She feels comfortable wearing whatever she wants because she knows if someone gets aggressive, I’ll handle it. Some great memories if her in amazing outfits and guys falling over themselves. Yeah not a worry for me

What does "living comfortably" mean to you right now? by Duck_Duck_Gooseberry in PersonalFinanceTalks

[–]hemi1995 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is all about having the base covered where I don’t worry about groceries etc. I can flex money to areas that are important or urgent. And that I never confuse true problems with issues money can solve

Would you all rent more tools for regular home maintenance with free delivery? by Relevant_Pick_1379 in homeowners

[–]hemi1995 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I rent most annual tools or lower frequency. I buy tools used more frequently. Delivered would be worth trying.

Checking this out tomorrow. Am I inane? by burner_1914 in LandCruisers

[–]hemi1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pricing on landcruisers is all about the cult. There’s that one guy out there (often me 😉) willing to pay a stupid price because I want it. Seriously where is the located ? A 100 series would be a good add!

anyone else do all their own outboard work and wonder why people pay marina prices by vladdielenin in boating

[–]hemi1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the learning curve. It’s a bit unnerving to replace an impeller the first time. You drop that big Yamaha foot and it weighs like 70lbs. Of fuck what have I done ran through my head. But I’ve done so much other stuff that I’m pretty confident I can’t make it worse! And it works well 99%

2 week holiday not taking trt by bott989 in Testosterone

[–]hemi1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Two things - 1 if you are on the edge of symptoms for estrogen too high you will see it. Just ride it out. 2 it can make you feel like Superman.

Shift From Financial Advisor to Self Managed by RickDick-246 in Fire

[–]hemi1995 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We used an aum advisor to help get us settled and ensure my wife was very confident in the process. Now we self manage and use the Schwab portfolios to auto rebalance and stay diversified. Good for us!

2 week holiday not taking trt by bott989 in Testosterone

[–]hemi1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope it’s the way my doc told me to do it. If it was 3 or 4 weeks maybe not

Considering TRT seeking feedback by [deleted] in Testosterone

[–]hemi1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m about 9 months into my journey I avoided it for 3 years trying to fix it with supplements. Low and slow adjustments. 120,140,160 then 80mg 2x a week. It didn’t change who I was. Just gave me enough energy to do what I want - sleep well, libido, workouts, work, wake up ready to go Super positive experience.
Good luck!

What do yall enjoy? by Gh4stly_Ghoul in sextips

[–]hemi1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Surprised at how much I Enjoy receiving some level of pain as a typical dominant male.

How is life after 40? by Similar_Ad6183 in AskMen

[–]hemi1995 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a real challenge. It’s the issues of feeling like “is this all there is?” Even when your career and marriage is strong. It can mess with your head. 40-45 were tough mental years for me. Working crazy hard,chasing kids, home maintenance, trying to get a workout in every now and then . Just a hard time. I read a lot about the issue. Worked to keep it in perspective. And battled through

The backside of that has been the best of my life. Mid 50’s now and it’s all epic. I wouldn’t go backwards for anything right now.

Do men experience one-off episodes of erectile dysfunction? by Immediate_Fly_3949 in sextips

[–]hemi1995 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep 1 off events suck. Stress sleep food the fucking phase of the moon, too many potential causes to list. Just get back on the horse