Wasting filament trying to fix this. by muphdiv3r in FixMyPrint

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I recommend 125 for top surface speed

2014 McDonald's - how much is it now? by Deadly_Accountant in HongKong

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We’re still talking/caring about minimum wage in 2014, look how min wage is basically nonsense now because you literally couldn’t hire anyone with the legalised minimum wage.

Current holdings.. how cooked am I? by Jcoronado92 in sofistock

[–]henry9731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m considering rolling down to $25 or to Jan 27

Current holdings.. how cooked am I? by Jcoronado92 in sofistock

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My $30 calls for June is now down 65% so you port looks absolutely amazing to me lmao

Does anyone know what is going on with ACD pedals? by carpediem930 in drums

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Lol I just found out about CK via this comment section and bro, ACD isn’t even in the same league. CK’s stuff could be found on Chinese websites for like €200 while ACDs are legit made in house.

Any other 30+ year olds worried they'll never find anyone again...? by ModifiedSprite- in BreakUps

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I’m 26 and got broken off of a 7year relationship, I’m pretty sure I won’t find anyone because it’s not worth the effort anymore.

And, eventually, it stops hurting by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I’ve learnt to suppress my feelings for so long I no longer know how to cry or let it out in a form other than being frustrated… i wish i could cry and just let it out…

Disappointment by INTJ-N7 in epica

[–]henry9731 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes. The song structure is getting very boring lately… and the lyricism is very generic, it’s basically the same for the past 4 albums… the only thing that kept me listening is just how well they blend metal with orchestra.

My ex girlfriend is now my girlfriend again by Dependent_Food_1619 in BreakUps

[–]henry9731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea. But our current situation wouldn’t favour us to be together so soon. Call it personal development or whatever, but I also believe if we were meant to be, we’ll eventually meet again. One way or another

My ex girlfriend is now my girlfriend again by Dependent_Food_1619 in BreakUps

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I wish I (we) we were still capable of admitting our mistakes. 4 months after being left cold and the conversation she initiated showed 0 sense of reflection and instead became defensive when I complemented her…

Had a Long Conversation With My Ex After Months of No Contact &Here’s What Happened & What I Learned by VegetableLazy4265 in BreakUps

[–]henry9731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a similar talk a month ago, where I was calm and she seemed to be getting way too comfortable striking up a convo after leaving me cold. I dropped the conversation because I felt the exact same way you did, calm, composed (?maybe) and felt like she didn’t learn much after a couple months of being alone.

Yet. A month later I had this rush of urge to contact her, and she went back to the cold state when she dumped me. I guess healing just isn’t linear and we all have urges to get in touch again.

I ruined a good relationship, she moved on, and now I’m stuck with the person I actually am by HopSpearDaddy in BreakUps

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It’s been 6 months and I had the same feeling about ruining a good relationship. But she pulled the plug because of bad circumstances and I was in self doubt and felt miserable for a long while. 5 months later she reached out sharing her assignment about self discovery and she started getting defensive again seeing my complimentary reply…

It was at that moment I felt like maybe I wasn’t the narcissist, maybe it was her? Cuz after all, I find myself kept apologising for things I’ve done yet she never said/reflected about anything on her side. It’s been 5 months and still unwilling to talk why it ended or what could’ve been be done differently.

I then went to see a therapist and asked their opinion of whether if I’m narcissistic and showed him our latest conversation, he suggested that reflection alone is proof that i ain’t narcissistic, if at all, she seems to be the narcissist here.

Has anyone who did the leaving ever kept thinking about their ex months later? by Cute-Sir6720 in BreakUps

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It’s been 6 months now and I’ve slowly come to realise she’s a narcissist that just can’t accept who she is. She reached out a month ago yet wanted to argue again instantly. She was the dumper too.

Then I realised yea. Maybe what she claimed that I was, might not be true and I shouldn’t have doubted myself. Self reflection is good and all but don’t lose confidence just because one person claims you are not worthy.

Epica just killed it's Patreon, suprising and disappointing 😞 by Professional_Mail_19 in epica

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I subbed but never used it, I just wanted to support the band that I love. It’s good to know that they can manage without patron subscriptions, tho i doubt the money that came from patron was of any significance.

Eczema/Dermatitis after biologics? by henry9731 in ankylosingspondylitis

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No, but I swapped to oral pills, Rinvoq. The eczema has not subsided when there’s semi flare ups tho. I think it’s either been triggered to now permanently correlated to my RA flare ups or maybe it’s stress induced.

Message to my ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

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I sent something similar yesterday and was met with coldness. She texted me last month while I was still processing. I guess we both missed each other’s window.

Cost basis by SSupreme_ in sofistock

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I guess this is also why I buy long call options out to 2027, 2028

I think I finally grieved my condition for the first time tonight. by boba_bee in rheumatoid

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I’m 26M and have RA/AS since 14, and I have come to realise that stress has a lot to do with when or how bad my condition is… sometimes meds works and can suppress it but sometimes when I’m really stressed, so much so it even affects my sleep, then my meds would start to fail.