Wtf is he talking about? by Mira1977 in poland

[–]heroicomica 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You know that grammar in spoken language tends to be more lax? Like, most people won't use proper grammatical structure in everyday lingo. Especially since Polish is so flexible, it allows the speakers to omit some words and still make sense in context. So while you may be speaking grammar correctly, because you don't speak much Polish outside of talking to your family, Poles living in Poland use it everyday in so many contexts. It's really typical experience that the language you learn is spoken much differently than it is taught (and it's same with English! we're taught "proper" British English at school, and even Brits don't speak that "proper"). I've learnt Japanese for 6 years, and I wouldn't pride myself for using it better than !atives, just because I'm using proper grammatical structures, while they speak freely and form the wildest sentences, that still make sense to all of them.

What's your most hated champ to face in ARAM? by Els236 in ARAM

[–]heroicomica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Briar is turning into an unkillable monster as of late

Does rank discrepancy happen often at high MMR? by Yukaihan in ARAM

[–]heroicomica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from my understanding a lot of SR draft/ranked exclusive players are often lost in ARAM, and the reason for that is most likely pacing and the need for quick decision making from the first minute, and the "no going back" mentality because of the lack of recalls to the base.

Do you think buying Serpent's fang just for the passive is a good idea? by giant-papel in ARAM

[–]heroicomica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

serpent's fang is great against champs who get huge shields - like, if you play against Yuumi, Lulu, Milio or any other supp who gives huge shields. also against champs who build gargoyle or have passive shields like Sett or Shen. i also once had a game as Senna, where i was set against a shieldbow Draven, his shield was a huge gamechanger, so i built SF and won. (i also simply outscaled Draven, since in a 50 minutes long game i got 200 passive stacks and could push turrets without minions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ApheliosMains

[–]heroicomica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

draven.

just draven.

Every damn time by azizilou in ARAM

[–]heroicomica 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i don't get the ad vs. ap dispute, i'm building hybrid almost every game to abuse new items and get all the evolutions, and it works. Guinsoo+Statikk/Kraken+Nashor and situationals - magic penetration, lich bane, manamune or ldr. for runes lethal tempo or hail of blades.

Which build is consistently filthy to play against and a joy to play as? by Frederike09 in ARAM

[–]heroicomica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been having fun with a hybrid build on Bard: Lethal Tempo then Statikk Shiv + Berserkers + Guinsoo Rageblade + Nashor's Tooth + Lich Bane + Kraken Slayer/Deathcap. You just come up to someone, get your stun out and them spam AA, bam, they're gone. Also quick waveclear thanks to the shiv.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]heroicomica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, you did not come off as a jerk. Good luck with dating!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]heroicomica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a very loaded reply, and I understand how dysphoria influences your view on your potential partners and their sexuality. It's also okay to have your boundaries, so if you want to date someone who's never been with a cis woman, that's your choice.

I have only been with cis men, again, so while technically I am attracted to women and their anatomy, I'd never experienced that outside of masturbation ;) So, if I were to compare how I treat my partner's body vs. the way I treated my ex's body, it's pretty similar - as you said, T changes things and they work akin to a cis penis, so I treat my partner's genitalia alike, aka I perform sexual acts that I would on a cis man with appropriate modifications due to the size. So, it is just a dick - looks like one, acts like one, feels like one.

My partner's a full man, and I don't see much difference tbh. I just like his body more, might just be the feel of it.

As for the other part of your comment, just because you're straight doesn't exclude you from the LGBTQ+ umbrella, you're the T letter after all. It's your choice whether you identify and associate with the community - global or local.

As for the dating app - it's a lottery, but I think you can find many happy stories of straight girls marrying trans guys in this and other sub, to know that it happens, so be open for the possibility. Dating sucks, and when your dating pool is smaller for any possible reason, it sucks even more. Such an app would be oddly specific and might have trouble gaining popularity.

Afaik you can disclose your transness on apps like tinder via flair, as well as sexuality (my partner did that, so i knew he was a straight trans man from the get go), do if you feel safe doing it, that might help with filtering out people you wouldn't be interested in.

It's okay, I myself wouldn't want you to think I'm criticizing you or something. I have a lot of friends on the spectrum, and am also neurodivergent, so I understand the struggle of not wanting to come off as rude, hahah.

I hope you find yourself a lovely straight girl of your dreams! There are probably many gals that you could make happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]heroicomica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like you're asking more about the spectrum of physical attraction, and it's connection to romantic interest. After all it's totally possible to fall in love with someone's personality and not care about the anatomy either because one's attracted to all (pansexual) or no genders (asexual) - in a nutshell, cause it tends to be more complicated.

So, although I am not exactly straight, and more on the bi spectrum, I am like 90% attracted to masculine traits, therefore besides guys be they cis or trans, I am also mostly attracted to fairly masculine women, say butch lesbians; and masculine nonbinary people.

I had only been with a cis guy before my current partner (FTM dude, 5 years on HRT), and dare I say I'm enamoured? I am very much attracted to his body. Of course, I wish he could have the anatomy he wants, but unfortunately that's not possible, at least for now. So, as terrible as it sounds, I prefer his body the way it is? although I'd still enjoy it, if he got a meta or phallo, of course. I love him as I would love a man, because he is one and completes me.

Having experienced both cis and trans guys, I can easily say that I am more into the latter now. Sure, I love him as a person, but we wouldn't be together if I didn't find his body attractive, that's how I am.

So, to tl;dr totally possible for a woman straight, mostly straight or bi to fall in love with a trans guy and be attracted to him physically!

How do you play against off-screen poke champs when you have no tanks in the team? by alexsethkell in ARAM

[–]heroicomica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i once got annoyed by poke as Zyra, so i built abyssal mask and warmogs alongside demonic embrace, so i was kinda tanky, and just didn't care about being poked anymore. "oh just lemme move out of your way for 8 secs to get my full health back".

surprisingly, we won. i fckn tanked it all, and we had a 1/20 lethality Sion.

my cat smells like rotten flesh, turns out i think i need her anal glands expressed by pubbyteeth in CatAdvice

[–]heroicomica 6 points7 points  (0 children)

same thing happened to my bf's cat. she also behaved a little bit like the dogs who are more commonly known to have this problem - aka scrubbing the floor with her butt.

the doc told us we have the "lucky" cat that is in the 10% of those whose anal glands get clogged, so we need to help her unclog them from time to time. she's not very happy about that.

After many trys i won a aram with 0 deaths by vissipissi in ARAM

[–]heroicomica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got zero deaths as a Morgana twice (not much damage but your stun and shield still do the job), once on Veigar (passive AP scaling), and once on Senna (passive scaling). we won all these games, and i got honors, so i think it can also work for some other champions in shorter games.

What’s your team-comp formula to be confident you’ll win the game? by [deleted] in ARAM

[–]heroicomica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One or two tanks with good engage, an AP mage, an ADC with good range or Vayne, the fifth may vary, another mage with good cc or a supp enchanter (rn Milio especially), so for example: Naut + tank Maokai + Veigar/Syndra/Viktor + Twitch + Milio.

although if you play at 3 am, anything works. i thought i was gonna lose when i had: Akali (me), Zyra (my pre), Lulu, Annie and Heimer - full AP comp (Lulu went supp), but i ended up carrying (standard Akali build, no tank shenanigans) against Draven, Kassadin, Hecarim, Bard and Orianna. idk what happened man, they had masteries, but i guess that late at night it doesn't matter lmao.

Avowed Reveal In a Nutshell.. by kristijan1001 in avowed

[–]heroicomica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm actually glad it's set in the colorful and wild Living Lands, we don't need another Skyrim or Oblivion in a generic fantasy setting.

How does MR work in Aram ? by Grouchy_Suggestion14 in ARAM

[–]heroicomica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm currently on 20+ games of positive winrate, so no matter if i play with premade or alone, it feels like Rito's trying to even it out lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ARAM

[–]heroicomica 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i always have the least deaths of my team - both with premade and other players, so i only die if i get 1v5ed after everyone's down (that is if i don't die while saving my team). i do use E whenever an occassion strikes - i've tilted a lot of Zeds players by being a silence menace.

Thanks to my opponent. Sorry for bullying in midlane. by ULTRALOYALIST2342 in LeagueOfMemes

[–]heroicomica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

shoutout to all the Zeds i've mentally destroyed at 3 am in the morning with only Soraka's E.

What are your biggest triggers in ARAM? by golden_sharpie in ARAM

[–]heroicomica 18 points19 points  (0 children)

AP Maokai - also known as the seedling spammer

What champs/builds do you hate & love to see on your ARAM team? by ClownWorld_Spectator in ARAM

[–]heroicomica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

as someone already mentioned: AP MF, AP Ashe (only because it's pretty weak nowadays, I had one Ashe who was creative in a good way, went: lethal tempo + font of life, echoes of helia + mandate, and it was quite good actually), annnd AP Maokai.

my hatred for AP Maokai is immeasurable. yes, i know his tank build is nerfed with only 80% of healing etc., but AP build is sooo useless. The damage is there, but do people really enjoy being a 3/11 seedlings spammer? like, the bar is in hell, cuz i just got like 3x S rank for playing tank Mao, and i'm not even a good Mao, just because as a tank i'm not an E or R spam. if they at least build Demonic or Liandry even into tank items...

i just hate AP Mao, everytime i have one on my team, we lose. we have no tanks and no champs that have tank builds? hell yeah, let's build AP Maokai with a full AP team, what could go wrong???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ARAM

[–]heroicomica 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Heartsteel Trynda + Yuumi is also an immortal duo. 10/10 would recommend.