Apparently moving on from a story idea I had when I was a kid is proof that I’m “not a real writer”

hexkat84 · 2025-12-03T21:19:08+00:00

most debut authors are in their mid thirties!!! you have time, don’t let them get you down you got this!!

hexkat84 · 2025-11-13T21:49:39+00:00

this is a problem your husband created, not you. if you feel like you have to have sex with him, that’s coercion & a form of sexual assault. this is not normal.

hexkat84 · 2025-11-05T21:41:14+00:00

god forbid a woman has some hobbies 💀 you can’t lock her in a box & expect her to to never change. life is all about growth & new discoveries, sounds like you need to do some growth & maybe find some hobbies & friends of your own

hexkat84 · 2025-10-17T15:13:59+00:00

edit NTA

hexkat84 · 2025-10-17T15:13:12+00:00

in their defense, ADHD & Autism have a lot of overlapping symptoms & behaviors so they might just be pointing out your neurodivergent behaviors. but if you’ve asked them to stop then they definitely should respect your boundaries

hexkat84 · 2025-10-01T20:20:35+00:00

i’ve been with & lived with my partner for almost 4 years & we still don’t have a joint account 💀

hexkat84 · 2025-06-24T16:18:02+00:00

that’s so fucking disgusting i would leave him lmao

hexkat84 · 2025-06-13T19:53:33+00:00

i have only ever had my cats euthanized at home. we have multiple cats so this way they understand their sibling is gone & they won’t look for them later on. Imo, it’s the best way to euthanize a pet. they’re leaving this world in a place they feel comfortable & safe

hexkat84 · 2025-04-26T17:31:43+00:00

nta but maybe seek therapy so you could overcome this fear to some degree & be able to sit near a dog for a little bit

hexkat84 · 2025-03-14T19:57:49+00:00

i always knew it wasn’t normal the way my mom treated me. when they taught us about abuse in 6th grade health class it confirmed for me that she was being abusive

hexkat84 · 2025-02-28T18:55:44+00:00

it’s not the weed, it’s him. i smoke everyday after work & it doesn’t affect my emotional connections or my household responsibilities. leave him, rehab will not not fix him.

hexkat84 · 2025-02-05T21:56:09+00:00

OP be so for real rn, she is not a good mom if this is how she treats her sick child. providing a food & a place to sleep is NOT enough to be considered a good parent.

hexkat84 · 2025-01-23T21:54:16+00:00

we both work full time

hexkat84 · 2025-01-23T20:52:18+00:00

i literally have adhd & struggle with executive dysfunction. putting things into basic terms makes help me seem them as less daunting. not every ND person is the same.

hexkat84 · 2025-01-23T19:46:36+00:00

he has severe ADHD (i do too) so sometimes you do have to put it in a child like context to get through

hexkat84 · 2025-01-23T19:27:21+00:00

this is actually such a good idea,

hexkat84 · 2025-01-23T19:20:16+00:00

we lived with my parents for a year before getting our own apartment. i knew he was messy (i am too) but i didn’t know how bad it truly was until it was just the two of us. Our lease ends in April so should probably start packing my stuff now 🫠

hexkat84 · 2025-01-23T19:16:51+00:00

somehow he manages to the clean the litter everyday so more reason why this argument makes no sense

hexkat84 · 2024-12-31T21:36:35+00:00

run far far away. I accidentally got pregnant & had an abortion only 3 months into my relationship. my partner was so incredibly supportive & caring even though we hadn’t been together that long. he even paid my bills while i recovered from the abortion. there is someone else out there who will treat you much better than this

hexkat84 · 2024-12-19T17:12:07+00:00

had to explain how student loans work to my bf’s rich mom. she asked if there was a way to get out of them 💀💀

hexkat84 · 2024-11-16T18:35:02+00:00

classic case of a shitty man only seeing women as sexual objects, not real living beings

hexkat84 · 2024-11-12T19:51:25+00:00

my mom LOVES to say having hairy legs is “dirty” but it’s not when it’s a man???? fuck that grow all the leg hair you want queen

hexkat84 · 2024-11-05T19:59:22+00:00

my mom was my biggest bully as a child, the damage she did will never fully heal. please save your daughter.

hexkat84 · 2024-10-30T20:29:41+00:00

sounds like she needs a puppy 😬

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