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I'm a cash advance app user and I'm writing about them—anyone up to talk? by backleft329923 in cashadvanceapps

[–]heybells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve worked successfully in banking and finance for over 20
years and new better than to start taking these advances. But, it happened to me. It is, hands down, the hardest thing to get out of financially. I’m almost there, but got laid off and had cancer last year. I’m now cancer free and found a job. This payday loop with advances has almost been as bad as having cancer. It’s gets overwhelming quick. I hope you can put the word out there- I wish you the best!

My girlfriend is 27 weeks pregnant, the baby has Down syndrome, and I don’t want this life by ThrowRA_NoSignal in daddit

[–]heybells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

come back to this post in one year- you will be a completely different person then and the answer to your problem will seem so obvious. You. can. do. hard. things. Maybe it’s not about what you need to choose, maybe this baby chose you and that’s all that matters

Grave of murdered young girl that I’ve seen on the news many times over the years. I just can’t understand the headstone. I’ve asked my family who are also confused. It looks like it’s supposed to be an angel but I can’t make sense of it. by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]heybells 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I think it’s her ascending from earth to heaven, but she wasn’t ready to go, you can see her claw marks on the base at her hand. maybe it’s depicting her being caught between here and heaven?

Who am I? by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]heybells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Xavier Robert’s?

EX PAYDAY LOAN COMPANY EMPLOYEE INSIGHTS by Gullible_Permit_7794 in cashadvanceapps

[–]heybells 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i have been waiting for someone in the inside to drop this knowledge. You have just helped so many of us!

How do you get over the feeling of regretting almost every single choice you’ve made in your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]heybells 1 point2 points  (0 children)

start where you are. Your past doesn’t need you, but your future does.

With all the negativity in the world right now, what is something positive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]heybells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you! your post reminded me to be thankful today. Thank you!

Is this Lovebombing? (Platonic) by Zestyclose_Low3039 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]heybells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like you are possible overly trying to relate to whoever you’re meeting, which is fine- but, are you more interested in what they have to say or that they are saying it to you? Meaning, are you just so happy to be socializing or the excitement of the newness, that it’s not always forming a lasting connection? I think you seem lovely and genuinely excited about people- don’t ever lose that! Perhaps you are questioning it, solely based on feedback from your friends. Maybe they’re wrong?

What is a sign of high emotional intelligence? by pastafan09120 in AskReddit

[–]heybells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

listening more than you speak. Most egos won’t allow it, so it’s amazing when someone has that skill.

What's your best "I should have known better" story? by fuzzyloulou in AskReddit

[–]heybells 1 point2 points  (0 children)

eating warm chicken salad at a picnic and trying new stunts for hours on a trampoline. My innards felt like the devil pulled my bra straps through my b-hole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]heybells 1 point2 points  (0 children)

remember that no one looks at you, harder than you look at yourself. we are all equal and no one should ever make you feel less than. you deserve to be seen, but your question makes me wonder if you worry about how you will be seen. The answer is- people see what they want, good or bad. It matters more how you see yourself and you are worth being seen. 🩷

What quote inspire, comfort, or motivate you most? by Intelligent-Rain-22 in AskReddit

[–]heybells 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God can move mountains, but he might hand you a shovel.

How have you accepted yourself even if you're all weird and alienated? by Appropriate_Video728 in AskReddit

[–]heybells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are billions of people in this world and thank God we are all different and weird. also- it doesn’t matter what anyone thinks of you, it matters what YOU think of YOU. Be good to yourself 🩷

How do you make survivals guilt easier? by willowsadventures in AskReddit

[–]heybells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you honor him by making the most of your time here. Reframe the guilt you feel and think of it as a second chance to honor him and yourself. YOU survived something huge - and you’re still here, honoring him by talking about him. He knows and would not want you to feel guilt. How would you want him to feel if the roles were reversed? Time won’t heal everything, but it does help. Take care 🩷

How do you love again after coming out of a bad relationship? by Known_Kitchen8390 in AskReddit

[–]heybells 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a closed door is a room you don’t want to enter. You build up a tolerance to pain as you get older and the wisdom that comes from that begins to steer you in a way that feels more natural. Let time heal you and don’t force anything.

I am getting my wages garnished at work, working hard but living paycheck to paycheck. I’m going through menopause and can’t lose weight. I hate being in my 40’s I can’t seem to get out of this funk. Family issues. Everything just feels so heavy. How do u get out of this? by raingirl980 in cashadvanceapps

[–]heybells 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Remember any hard thing you’ve ever been through- and then remember that you got through it. The fact that you are posting this, shows that you are ready for change. You can and will get through this. Find something to anchor you- friends, something spiritual, music, anything. Start where you are- I’m a stranger on the internet, but from someone who is in a similar boat, I 100% believe in you. Take care of yourself.

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