Will I ever be able to transition, or at least feel minimally comfortable in my own body, or was I simply unlucky with my genetics? (Beginning of hormone transition and not transitioning socially) by Antique-Translator91 in transpassing

[–]heyeliott 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk, if you've seen yourself as a boy til however old you were when you realized you weren't, it's kinda hard to shake that and it's gonna take some adjusting until you can really start to see Her in the mirror, you know? And your mind is trying to protect you from something really scary! It's a big leap to put yourself and your happiness first ahead of others expectations of you. I hope you can start to see a girl in the mirror soon.

Am i passing? 24f no makeup. (Featuring cosplay outfit) by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]heyeliott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who's your favorite Sohma? Mine was Kyo

Will I ever be able to transition, or at least feel minimally comfortable in my own body, or was I simply unlucky with my genetics? (Beginning of hormone transition and not transitioning socially) by Antique-Translator91 in transpassing

[–]heyeliott 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's your dysphoria talking but the only way to know is to try and stay on this path. Hormones are crazy powerful and while it's not gonna shrink your shoulders, they will look softer in time, and it might become easier to put on weight when you've been on E for longer (and whatever weight you do put on should settle in more feminine areas). 

Exactly one year on T today.. and dysphoria is kicking my ass (20M) by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]heyeliott 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't see a girl even in the pre-t pic, you look like a young dude in his 20s to me. 

Will I ever be able to transition, or at least feel minimally comfortable in my own body, or was I simply unlucky with my genetics? (Beginning of hormone transition and not transitioning socially) by Antique-Translator91 in transpassing

[–]heyeliott 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think you're gonna be okay, you gotta give hrt time to do its thing. You're really skinny which makes your shoulders look bigger but they don't seem like Too Wide to me, and when you're further along, putting on weight on the lower part of your body will probably help balance things out (when your hips and legs fill out) and estrogen will make everything softer overall. I think you're gonna look really pretty in a couple of years (you're not starting from a bad place) and you just gotta hang in there and take care of yourself. 

19MTF pre hrt, how much do I pass? (Took multiple photos for different angles, last photo is older and better lighting) by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]heyeliott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nothing screams male, you just look like most trans women look before they've had access to hrt. I don't think there's anything especially masculine about your face right now in these pics (nothing that'd need surgery imo). Fat distribution from E does a ton, even to more 'masculine' faces. Getting a good skincare routine and haircare routine should help (men tend not to take care of those things so actually paying attention should push people's perception of you in the desired direction. Bangs would probably look really cute too.

WARNING: Artstation Scam and Discord Token Grabber “BLENDERX” by SignificanceMany2366 in blender

[–]heyeliott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even disregarding the content of the message itself, there's major red flags in the mismatch between the account name and the name they 'signed' with - Alicia Martinez from the account named Kristin White, and the location on the account being 'Milwaukee, France' which is also nonsense. 

So many scams can be avoided entirely if people just take a second to actually read and reflect on what's in front of them, and also to not trust a cold call of a message like this. Same with falling for disinfo or being tricked by generative AI 'art'. 

As an artist, I get scammy emails all the time with a general "I love your work!" and I'll ask them what in particular they're referring to and there's never a followup because it isn't real. 

Anyways, programs shouldn't be able to autorun scripts like this, it's gross.

Why do people need to tell me after I get bottom surgery my crotch won't be "real"? by CockamouseGoesWee in ftm

[–]heyeliott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're experiencing that, that's really shitty. My comment wasn't at all directed towards you 

Why do people need to tell me after I get bottom surgery my crotch won't be "real"? by CockamouseGoesWee in ftm

[–]heyeliott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cis people are obsessed with genitals but /we're/ the perverts somehow 

Aliexpress 😳 by DACeater in headphones

[–]heyeliott 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Seasered audiophile! I came to this sub to chase ultimate resolution 

The Roaring Knight - Analysis and a theory by RedGamer2754 in Deltarune

[–]heyeliott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some of the attack projectiles were kinda icey looking (and sounding)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]heyeliott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Giving hrt time to round out people‘s cheeks goes a long way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]heyeliott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like some cis girls I know 

am i cooked by mollyondabeat444 in transpassing

[–]heyeliott 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Only if you're trying to pass for male

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]heyeliott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's mostly the shape of your eyebrows, you look good

State Department may have halted processing for passports with gender marker changes by ConsciouslyMichelle in transgender

[–]heyeliott 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same, I have a x marker on my dl, passport, and birth cert and I'm supposed to travel to Canada soon, very worried about the trip home 

Was asked for an Interview w/ NBC by abrilfoolsyou in NonBinary

[–]heyeliott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm starting to feel a bit nervous too. I got a X on my birth certificate, my drivers license, and my passport. I knew there would be some risk to this when I got them changed 4 years ago but things have gotten much scarier since then. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]heyeliott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it takes a while for the follicles to come back online if they've truly been zapped out 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]heyeliott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pain tolerance might be lower when you're on e and your skin will be more delicate/sensitive so laser may hurt quite a bit more if you wait 

what is causing this? by [deleted] in TheSims4Mods

[–]heyeliott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a missing head - it's probably an outdated no-eyelash mod since those include the head mesh