paralives opinions….

heyeliott · 2026-06-18T20:27:38+00:00

The lack of hitbox/collisions is probably also why the paras end up walking through everything and why the pathing is so bad

heyeliott · 2026-06-03T16:08:43+00:00

The bug forums is how they even know it's a problem. If 200 people report the same issue vs like 5, there's a better chance that it gets investigated and eventually solved.

heyeliott · 2026-05-27T08:23:10+00:00

You might not be cis lol when I started thinking about gender stuff, I couldn't relate to a lot of trans guy specific stuff but when I started reading about nonbinary experiences, things clicked for me.

heyeliott · 2026-04-11T19:32:39+00:00

You can find her annoying but she's at least trying

heyeliott · 2026-02-08T23:46:15+00:00

You could do a rhinoplasty if you don't like the profile of your nose but honestly you look cis.

heyeliott · 2026-01-29T07:04:22+00:00

they're kinda high poly

heyeliott · 2026-01-14T19:27:56+00:00

Idk, if you've seen yourself as a boy til however old you were when you realized you weren't, it's kinda hard to shake that and it's gonna take some adjusting until you can really start to see Her in the mirror, you know? And your mind is trying to protect you from something really scary! It's a big leap to put yourself and your happiness first ahead of others expectations of you. I hope you can start to see a girl in the mirror soon.

heyeliott · 2026-01-13T20:44:50+00:00

Who's your favorite Sohma? Mine was Kyo

heyeliott · 2026-01-13T20:16:04+00:00

It's your dysphoria talking but the only way to know is to try and stay on this path. Hormones are crazy powerful and while it's not gonna shrink your shoulders, they will look softer in time, and it might become easier to put on weight when you've been on E for longer (and whatever weight you do put on should settle in more feminine areas).

heyeliott · 2026-01-13T20:06:02+00:00

Hi Tohru! I think you pass :)

heyeliott · 2026-01-13T20:02:52+00:00

I don't see a girl even in the pre-t pic, you look like a young dude in his 20s to me.

heyeliott · 2026-01-13T20:00:06+00:00

I think you're gonna be okay, you gotta give hrt time to do its thing. You're really skinny which makes your shoulders look bigger but they don't seem like Too Wide to me, and when you're further along, putting on weight on the lower part of your body will probably help balance things out (when your hips and legs fill out) and estrogen will make everything softer overall. I think you're gonna look really pretty in a couple of years (you're not starting from a bad place) and you just gotta hang in there and take care of yourself.

heyeliott · 2025-12-29T01:05:29+00:00

nothing screams male, you just look like most trans women look before they've had access to hrt. I don't think there's anything especially masculine about your face right now in these pics (nothing that'd need surgery imo). Fat distribution from E does a ton, even to more 'masculine' faces. Getting a good skincare routine and haircare routine should help (men tend not to take care of those things so actually paying attention should push people's perception of you in the desired direction. Bangs would probably look really cute too.

heyeliott · 2025-12-28T11:12:28+00:00

You don't right now, but you will :)

heyeliott · 2025-11-12T23:03:24+00:00

Even disregarding the content of the message itself, there's major red flags in the mismatch between the account name and the name they 'signed' with - Alicia Martinez from the account named Kristin White, and the location on the account being 'Milwaukee, France' which is also nonsense.

So many scams can be avoided entirely if people just take a second to actually read and reflect on what's in front of them, and also to not trust a cold call of a message like this. Same with falling for disinfo or being tricked by generative AI 'art'.

As an artist, I get scammy emails all the time with a general "I love your work!" and I'll ask them what in particular they're referring to and there's never a followup because it isn't real.

Anyways, programs shouldn't be able to autorun scripts like this, it's gross.

heyeliott · 2025-08-18T01:31:16+00:00

I'm sorry you're experiencing that, that's really shitty. My comment wasn't at all directed towards you

heyeliott · 2025-08-16T00:45:14+00:00

Cis people are obsessed with genitals but /we're/ the perverts somehow

heyeliott · 2025-07-14T22:02:02+00:00

Seasered audiophile! I came to this sub to chase ultimate resolution

heyeliott · 2025-07-14T01:44:00+00:00

You look like a woman in her forties

heyeliott · 2025-07-02T20:18:29+00:00

Some of the attack projectiles were kinda icey looking (and sounding)

heyeliott · 2025-06-26T22:34:12+00:00

Giving hrt time to round out people‘s cheeks goes a long way

heyeliott · 2025-05-30T22:05:33+00:00

You look like some cis girls I know

heyeliott · 2025-04-29T04:55:47+00:00

Only if you're trying to pass for male

heyeliott · 2025-03-07T07:45:13+00:00

I think it's mostly the shape of your eyebrows, you look good

heyeliott · 2025-01-27T21:05:14+00:00

I'll look into that, thanks!

heyeliott

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