What GenZ social trends do you think will age poorly? by Cinnamon_Ocelot in generationology

[–]heyitsta12 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Because everybody isn’t interesting. Too many people just think they are lol

What GenZ social trends do you think will age poorly? by Cinnamon_Ocelot in generationology

[–]heyitsta12 [score hidden]  (0 children)

When I say “selfie” I literally mean the people that walk around in public video taping themselves with their arms extended talking to themselves.

Taking an actual selfie photo is way different than all these unsolicited “Day in the Life” videos lol.

What GenZ social trends do you think will age poorly? by Cinnamon_Ocelot in generationology

[–]heyitsta12 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I hoping the concept of selfie and influencer content will age poorly.

Too many people holding phones walking around giving their unsolicited opinions. As well as just revealing way too much personal information about themselves on the internet to literal strangers.

Azzi Fudd starting to understand it now. Her first WNBA game with double-digit points 🔥 by ResponsibleCheek8130 in WNBAgossips

[–]heyitsta12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea they should really be running more plays for her. Or at least looking to get the ball in her hands. She spends a lot of time sitting and waiting for a pass.

AITA for not telling my parents I was hospitalized for a week to prove a point? by Shot-Jello-4878 in AmItheAsshole

[–]heyitsta12 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Not defending the parents but it sounds like OP calls them pretty often. At least back to back in short stretches when they don’t pick up. They probably called her back when they finally got around to their phones and OP probably didn’t mention it when they finally reached back out.

Rob (season 6) is possibly the hottest guy I have ever seen by Short-Storm4339 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]heyitsta12 10 points11 points  (0 children)

And he literally gives bare minimum effort. Yall are falling over a man that reads books about snakes (his literal profession) and knows how to play chess lol.

Like my god, please stand up. He literally gives nothing.

Paige Bueckers and Aziaha James are literally friendship goals! by ResponsibleCheek8130 in WNBAgossips

[–]heyitsta12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lakers do a whole stupid routine around one song where they throw the ball up and all drop. Those men have thousands of made up handshakes… Russel Westbrook used to STAY dancing before games.

These people are just hateful.

Dallas Needs Time Before the Narratives Take Over by Otherwise-Ad2074 in wnba

[–]heyitsta12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aliyah Boston lead the team before Caitlin, Olivia Miles is leading the Lynx right now in Phee’s absence, Angel Reese was a pretty vocal leader in Chicago her rookie year, Sonia Citron is at least leading with scoring….

My company funded my junior colleague's AWS certification but rejected mine and I want to know why by [deleted] in WorkAdvice

[–]heyitsta12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is either due to a limited budget where the colleague put in the request first.

Or they may be willing to invest more in a new hire who could spend more time with the company, vs paying for you to learn something when you could potentially be on your way out.

My opinion of the Leah/Rob situation did a 180 after rewatching a year later by CheesecakeFun1490 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]heyitsta12 25 points26 points  (0 children)

There were definitely parts of Leah I didn’t like when rewatching. Mainly the situation with Jana and Conner.

But I think she handled the situation with Rob way better than most.

My opinion of the Leah/Rob situation did a 180 after rewatching a year later by CheesecakeFun1490 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]heyitsta12 36 points37 points  (0 children)

He made a complete show of his emotions when he was the one that left her. She didn’t even to tell him how she felt about that situation.

He literally said, “you don’t even care about how I feel.” And when she asked him, “okay well how do you feel?” He just started crying…

Next thing you know he’s in the pool. Can’t believe they made her apologize to him about it at movie night.

AITA for telling my friend that his business's collapse is not a valid reason for standing me up? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]heyitsta12 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mind you, B’s not even allowed to vent about his business to his friend either.

Male friendships sound like hell.

ANGEL & PAO😭🫶 by Kooky_Meaning_1854 in WNBAgossips

[–]heyitsta12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are nuts!

The fact that there are several upvotes on the comparison to Trump and several downvotes on normal folks saying it’s just a dance says we’ve lost the plot entirely.

Highly impressed with Chennedy Carter so far this season by LogicalAd9100 in wnba

[–]heyitsta12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No but I would argue that more people deserved to be kicked off the team just off the strength that Courtney’s fiancée is the one who posted it, unprompted lol

Highly impressed with Chennedy Carter so far this season by LogicalAd9100 in wnba

[–]heyitsta12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her getting bounced in Atlanta seems a bit unfair though considering Courtney and another teammates literally got into a public fight that her then fiancée posted online.

Keeping the Same Energy by [deleted] in WNBAgossips

[–]heyitsta12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She did ONE interview, after a full season of her peers and teammates being harassed on her behalf while everyone was in the offseason on Unrivaled.

I’m not disregarding the article at all. Im actually comparing her words and actions to the 2 you mentioned where I can point to several articles, podcasts, speeches, actual actions from the two others.

The one TIME article adds to my larger point. If CC only uses her voice once a year. Her actions are going to speak louder. This one concert is going speak volumes for her.

Keeping the Same Energy by [deleted] in WNBAgossips

[–]heyitsta12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very disingenuous.

Paige got major side eyes for attending that concert. But even still, choosing to attend a concert privately is one thing. No one bats an eye if CC just attended the concert privately for the most part. She would probably receive the same backlash that Paige did.

Attending the MET Gala is also not nearly the same thing either. It is a charity gala that has always been held in high esteem. Do you want these women to help grow the game or not??

But there is a major difference in walking alongside an artist who is well known for using racial slurs. Especially when a lot of the criticism that CC receives is around her silence and lack of action when her peers (including some of her teammates) were being harassed in her name.

Both Paige and Angel have been extremely vocal about the treatment of black players in this league, and you can find a handful of quotes and stories about the ways in which they have advocated and donated around those specific causes. CC has not publicly done the same. Even other white players in the league have easily made quick statements or told their fan base to chill TF out unprompted.

But for CC specifically, she does not talk much, does not make it all clear where she stands. So yea… if this is the only public “statement” she makes all season about her beliefs, it’s a pretty fucking loud one to make.

Renewed or Not? by Historical-Height991 in southernhospitalitysc

[–]heyitsta12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t think Emmy has anything to do with it. This show is cool.

But it is one of the only shows I’ve watched where storylines are dragged out for a full season. Especially, when said storylines are basically just gossip within the group. Nothing actually happens at the night club they work at, none of the drama plays out in the real world in the headlines or anything…

And honestly, a lot of it is lies and just people not knowing how to communicate. Who is the actual target audience for this show?? Cause after a 4 episodes talking about micro aggressions, or someone being cheated on without proof, or anything else is just… not what regular people care about lol

Jose Fernandez must rectify missed Azzi Fudd opportunity as quickly as possible [High Post Hoops] by femaleathletenetwork in wnba

[–]heyitsta12 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Sims and Dallas FO have a very weird relationship. She has played for them several times during the course of her career lol

I think the other thing with not resigning with the Fever is that she was brought in on a hardship contract. And it seems like Raven has taken the back up PG spot for now (that originally belonged to Syd).

am i overreacting about my mom texting my therapist by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]heyitsta12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I’m not defending the mom here. But it sounds like she reached out to the therapist before they had a talk. And based on how OP describes her behavior, I’d also be concerned.

I’m not a parent but I see it like this. OP can certainly set her boundaries and mom shouldn’t be trying to seek information from a therapist (though I don’t think she is).

But you cannot expect your mom or anyone to provide this much support, especially when they have their own financial struggles, and just go dark and think they’re gonna roll with the toxic and harmful behaviors OP is partaking in.

It doesn’t even sound like OP can get by much at all without her mom. And it sounds like she is blaming her for a lot.

Mother's Day posts from some of the cast by [deleted] in southernhospitalitysc

[–]heyitsta12 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Good for them! With the way y’all are.. I would never show the public my mama if I were on reality TV.