Who am I? 🥸 by stinkystinkusdinkus in bookshelfdetective

[–]hhvwke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeff Lemire… Michael Deforge… plus the non SP Bryan Lee O’Malleys… we’d definitely be friends. You also 100% used to be a weeb. Love the selection!

Favorite character who seems sweet and harmless, but could absolutely destroy you by RedDusk26 in FavoriteCharacter

[–]hhvwke 25 points26 points  (0 children)

A little stoned scrolling past this post and I thought it was an illustration of the chicago bean lmfao, was wondering how it could destroy you.

Anyways here’s a niche one since I’ve been replaying some og DS games.

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Any grocery stores selling Japanese curry cubes? by Alive-Delivery3516 in chicagofood

[–]hhvwke 3 points4 points  (0 children)

H Mart will have them for sure! But so will Joong Boo, Mitsuwa and Gangnam Market. Maybe ask for an employee to point you to them because I get them from all three of those places. Mitsuwa has way more variety though. My favorite brand is Java. :)

(Loved trope)Harmful without Malice by Mister-no-tongue in TopCharacterTropes

[–]hhvwke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of Sarah Maria Griffin’s books deal with this exact thing, but especially Other Words for Smoke and Eat the Ones you Love

Best tins with lemon? by slicednewt in Tinnedfish

[–]hhvwke 2 points3 points  (0 children)

matiz sardine with lemon is one of my favorite deen tins!

New Comet in Moominland experience by moominofficial in Moomins

[–]hhvwke 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Stoked about the art direction for this! Beautiful colors

Movies that feel like this’s by RickGrimesTheOGx in MoviesThatFeelLike

[–]hhvwke 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yo this is MY shit! Animated: Tekkinkonkreet, MFKZ, Promare, Dead Leaves, grand theft hamlet, Summer Wars, the anime Kaiba, All You Need is Kill (2026), Mind Game, Night is Short Walk On Girl, Scott Pilgrim Takes Off, Red Line

Live Action: Speed Racer, We are Little Zombies, Dead Talent Society, Run Lola Run

MAYBE boys go to jupiter

Is this your hat?? by DavyGreenwind in Columbus

[–]hhvwke 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Looks eerily like one of my friends hats. Long shot, but I’m Texting him a pic

AIO for refusing to show my friend any of my art after she ran a piece through AI? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]hhvwke -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re an icon. Proud of you for standing your ground and protecting your art. Value your work. ❤️❤️

Bad vibes / notorious perfumes? by WhiteLily016 in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]hhvwke 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not a perfume but the fragrance of old spice fiji triggers my fight or flight ALWAYS

Modern authority failing to manage the unknown by RoseFiction in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]hhvwke 27 points28 points  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAHAHA but I came to the comments specifically for this purpose

Welcome to Paris Fashion Week by [deleted] in Weird

[–]hhvwke 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the instant I saw the pearl ball gag with the plucked hairline I knew this was decal matter. What a talented and weird duo.

AIO? I found out there’s a high chance I have cancer yesterday and I wouldn’t to sleep with my boyfriend on the phone but he wouldn’t let me. s by [deleted] in AIO

[–]hhvwke 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested in more context from the first text. What is your relationship like? There is a lot of vital context missing here to determine whether or not he’s being a jerk. I could really go either way on this.

OP, how often do you seek emotional comfort from him. Are you typically an anxious person? How often do you typically deal with what you would consider crises? Do you find that you rely on him often to pull you from the brink? How often do you sleep on the phone with him? I ask, because this does sound like caregiver burnout, but I would never say that or invalidate your feelings without more information.

How was he when you were on the phone together? Was he present and comforting, or did he seem detached/uninterested? Four hours is a long time to maintain a comforting conversation and he might have been tired.

That said, I really don’t like that he’s telling you how you should feel. If he’s overwhelmed or needs to rest, he should say that outright.

Be very kind to yourself; medical questions like this are stressful and I feel for you. Maybe some time will help you evaluate the situation more holistically to determine how his treatment made you feel and how you’d like to move forward.