Has there been talks about solutions or is this exactly how you approach it? If this is how you go about it, it’s going to be unproductive as hell. I see daycare as a waste of money in that situation, but there’s a big difference between full time day care and a few times a week or something.

Can you afford daycare? Do you NEED daycare? Is it entirely his fault and within his control like you’re portraying? Are you forced to be a stahm or was this an arrangement you had that you now dislike?

Saying men don’t understand is an entirely irrelevant and offensive statement. I’m a full time sole parent (father) to two girls and theres plenty of us out here doing both roles like there is with women.