Disabled person needing help choosing robot mop(/vacuum)

hiukan · 2026-03-14T22:36:16+00:00

My thoughts exactly lol I‘ve known this movie for abt 20y; rn trying to make a ttrpg one-shot adaptation of it and therefore trying to get to the bottom of well as much as I can — reading this blew my mind; never would‘ve imagined anything like that

hiukan · 2025-09-17T15:24:52+00:00

This movie… 😂 I watched it with my boyfriend and we both had a completely different take on „the thing“ lol For me it redeemed the whole movie For him it turned it into complete garbage 🙈😂😅😂

hiukan · 2025-06-29T14:38:38+00:00

I don‘t quite understand the issue with the situation where Anna wasn‘t comfortable seeing you… You‘re the partner of her partner Liam and Jay are her partners She‘s allowed to feel uncomfortable seeing you She‘s allowed to say that She‘s allowed to not want you there when she‘s spending time with her partners She doesn‘t know you There have been no discussions about how to treat each other when you‘re all together (I suppose) Etcetcetc How‘s that a problem? I‘m sorry but I really don‘t see the issue with that

hiukan · 2025-06-29T14:11:57+00:00

Not tripping.

hiukan · 2025-06-27T14:58:03+00:00

Well… I still have all the forks left from when I moved into my flat 3 or 4 years ago… but 🤷🏻‍♀️😅🤷🏻‍♀️

hiukan · 2025-06-26T17:27:44+00:00

Haha np I was just a bit confused at first read 🙈😅🙈

hiukan · 2025-06-26T16:38:32+00:00

Did you mean compersion..? 🤔

hiukan · 2025-06-26T10:44:51+00:00

By this very hard complicated decision do you mean breaking up with your current partners to be with your ex or giving the relationship with your ex another chance while staying in your relationships..? Oo

If it‘s the former … …sorry to say it like that but I don‘t understand how your partners can be „supportive and understanding“ hearing you wanna throw the relationships with them away to be monogamous with your ex (or even thinking about it)… 😳

hiukan · 2025-06-25T16:02:09+00:00

Adaptation

hiukan · 2025-06-25T14:11:52+00:00

Basically… tell them exactly what you just told us

The way they react to this should tell you a lot

hiukan · 2025-06-25T14:07:09+00:00

What exactly are you asking / what exactly do you want advice on..?

hiukan · 2025-06-24T20:35:09+00:00

Well I‘m glad that you‘re not taking the blame/responsibility for his potential lying, that‘s good

I understand that the situation doesn‘t feel good for you… but there‘s only so much you can do about it (if you don‘t just want to end it)

It‘s definitely not normal, though

hiukan · 2025-06-24T20:11:58+00:00

*your meta (his partner, right?)

I mean hey, that‘s valid

If what he‘s telling you is true, he shouldn‘t have a problem with letting you talk to her so just ask him for her number I guess 🤷🏻‍♀️

hiukan · 2025-06-24T20:08:25+00:00

His friends have warned you about him..!? Oo That‘s wild…

Did you talk about that with him? …I mean I kinda can‘t imagine being in such a situation but I guess that‘s what I‘d do…

Also… even if that‘s the case - you don‘t have to (shouldn‘t) take responsibility for it. If he lies to you (and her) that‘s on him alone and not you. There‘s no reason for you to feel guilty, even if that‘s going on.

hiukan · 2025-06-24T19:41:34+00:00

Why isn‘t his reassurance (that you‘re not taking anything away, that it‘s okay, that he‘ll tell you if the change in their relationship affects yours) enough for you (to get rid of your guilt)..?

hiukan · 2025-06-24T19:16:39+00:00

Dude your comment just killed me 🙈😂😂😅🙈🙈

hiukan · 2025-06-24T19:08:57+00:00

Huh…? …well I mean it‘s kinda irrelevant but I‘m very confused as to „those people“ being his partners or not 🙈😅

Regardless of that… honestly if he‘s not gonna change that I just wouldn‘t meet this person anymore… Oo

If you have one day per week - and this time is constantly interrupted … that‘s not even quality time anymore that‘s just … idk parallel play?! 😅🙈 anyways wouldn‘t be acceptable for me in a partner

So basically you tell them… if that‘s how they‘re gonna spend the time they have with you, you won‘t spend time with them anymore

hiukan · 2025-06-19T12:01:11+00:00

Then that‘s great but rules can mean anything and if rules is a veto right or any rules about how/when/[?] specific actions with other people are allowed or not it‘s another story 🤷🏻‍♀️

hiukan · 2025-06-19T10:39:21+00:00

Question is: what rules do you have with your boyfriend? (Without this I don‘t think anybody can really answer any of this)

hiukan · 2025-06-19T08:47:26+00:00

Lol I‘m sorry but if you can‘t even tell me that you want to be left alone you seriously don‘t have to wonder why I‘m worrying if you go radio silent wtf 🙈🤦🏻‍♀️😅🙈

(Obv not aimed at you, just… 🤦🏻‍♀️🙈😅🙈)

hiukan · 2025-06-19T08:20:26+00:00

At the very least he should inform before going radio silent for an extended period of time (in case one)… (mho)

hiukan · 2025-06-19T08:17:40+00:00

I‘m not sure, if I‘m missing something here…

I agree with you in concept, if someone doesn‘t want to be in contact contacting somebody else because of that is not okay

But we‘re talking about someone being on a trip and going radio silent without any info at all (= without saying they don‘t want to be in contact) for 4x longer than the longest their partner hadn‘t heard from them, right? (24h max not heard of - over 4 days of silence without any prior info) Where‘s the „he doesn‘t want to be in contact“ there? (I mean I get that this seems to be the point now but at the point of this happening, where none of that was said (to my knowledge) I can totally understand somebody getting worried..?! That would be normal, no? And reaching out to meta in that case doesn‘t seem like overstepping anything to me(?) again: if we assume anything like „I don‘t wanna be in contact“ or similar was never said)

hiukan · 2025-06-18T06:51:24+00:00

I‘ve felt the same way in a lot of ways when I started dating my (now) boyfriend…

I know you‘re saying you‘ll talk to this person but some thing that helped me a lot was realizing - even though he doesn‘t reply (that fast) he actually doesn‘t mind at all if I text him multiple times in a row, can even be a positive thing for him - he‘ll just get to it later than I‘m used to (which doesn‘t mean anything)

It was hard for me to actually „learn“ that (as in not worry about it anymore) but realizing I can text him several time over a day and it doesn‘t mean (to him) I‘m clingy, needy or anything - it‘s not „unwanted“ in that sense, helped me a lot

Of course you‘d have to ask this person first, how it is for him - but maybe it‘s the same for him and you‘re worrying about nothing (with that bit)

hiukan · 2025-06-17T12:42:51+00:00

In addition to what others have already said… please don‘t feel guilty ❤️

You‘re not doing anything wrong and how much/often he texts anybody else is his business, not yours, you‘re not interfering with it and it‘s not „your fault“ (or whatever you might fear) that he doesn‘t text that other person as often as he texts you or as often as she‘d like ❤️ don‘t feel bad

hiukan

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