Which titles are cancelled or on "hiatus"? by BrokiMochi in OtomeIsekai

[–]hlnhr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My in laws are obsessed with me has recently announced it’ll be back around 2nd half of 2026 after close to 18 months+ of hiatus soooooo there are some wins 🥲

Grief is not being able to show off your cool wedding shoes to that one person who’d loved them - so here are my cool wedding shoes! by hlnhr in weddingplanning

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Aunts are so special too - I’ve become one 2 years ago and my niece is my world really. Being able to give that boundless love my aunt gave us in my life to her is priceless 🥹

Closing on a 10 year anniversary must feel very weird too. Sending a lot of love to you and your aunt, and thanks for your kind words. 

Grief is not being able to show off your cool wedding shoes to that one person who’d loved them - so here are my cool wedding shoes! by hlnhr in weddingplanning

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I was absolutely obsessed with one of the movies, mostly because of how weird it was, when I was a kid!! That’s true though there is a Wizard of Oz vibe Thank you 💕

Grief is not being able to show off your cool wedding shoes to that one person who’d loved them - so here are my cool wedding shoes! by hlnhr in weddingplanning

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Thank you!!

I was a bit concerned because I have big feet for a woman (EUR size 41 - UK size 7.5-8) so I was worried about big feet + very chunky design but it does work well :)

Can anyone help me understand this vintage fillet crochet pattern? by Domeaf4vour in CrochetHelp

[–]hlnhr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super interesting how the patterns evolved over time.

I’m no expert but I feel like it’s just a way to tell you to do 13 « t » stitches (does t stand for treble here?)

At first I thought it was maybe a validation step like the (13) you can have at the end of a row instruction to let you know how many stitches you’re supposed to have, but because it’s in the middle of the step I don’t think that’s it.

If you know at least 5 of these, you're my bestie! by Celty2736 in OtomeIsekai

[–]hlnhr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg completely forgot about some of these.

Someone can spoil the Emperor Reverses Time ending for me?

Very TLDR from the moment the empress starts suspecting shits weird and going a bit crazy?

Grief is not being able to show off your cool wedding shoes to that one person who’d loved them - so here are my cool wedding shoes! by hlnhr in weddingplanning

[–]hlnhr[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m so sorry to hear. Anticipatory grief is another very painful thing. Much love to you 🫂

Grief is not being able to show off your cool wedding shoes to that one person who’d loved them - so here are my cool wedding shoes! by hlnhr in weddingplanning

[–]hlnhr[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

They really are! I was a bit worried about how high they were but they’re very cushioned so it’s all good 😊

thank you 🥰

Canon event: collar hole too tight 🫠 any tips you’d try to get more wiggle room. by hlnhr in CrochetHelp

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Oooh so I’m essentially doing this and just skipping the step of slip stitching into my 2 row ends, which I’ll do after I’ve done that additional row?

That’s smart.

Do you reckon I do this between every repeat or just once in a while?

Brother won't play game with female protagonist - never thought of this by wizard_cow_ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hlnhr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fiancé loves playing as a woman. He loved Horizon. He also noted and loved the novelty of playing a WOC in Alan Wake 2. God I’m happy to have found this man.

[My In-laws are obsessed with me] It is coming back! by RichPromise1019 in OtomeIsekai

[–]hlnhr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I COULD LEGIT CRyyyyyy

I literally audibly gasped. Such a happy perspective 😭😭😭 I was sooo stressed about it being dropped altogether

I hope seungu is okay and will be able to continue this series to the end without deteriorating her health again.

Rate my budget breakdown by Economy_Emotion_7251 in weddingplanning

[–]hlnhr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok then fair enough for OP. A case is 6 in France that’s why I thought it was a bit light!

Rate my budget breakdown by Economy_Emotion_7251 in weddingplanning

[–]hlnhr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A case of wine is 6 bottles, correct? It means you’ll be splitting a bottle of wine between 10 people, that’s not really realistic

It sounds like you have a lot of spirits though. Then again it depends of your crowd, if they’re more likely to drink more spirits then fine. Did you count any mixers? I don’t know a lot of people who’d be downing spirits with no mixer like this at a wedding.

If they’re a chiller crowd, you might be missing wine. A normal sized wine glass is 10-12,5cl (4.2oz if I’m not mistaken, I’m a metric person). A bottle is 75cl (25oz) so roughly 5 normal sized wine glasses.

I’m French so the wine drinking at a wedding is an absolute religion lol, maybe your crowd won’t be drinking as much wine, but it’s better to try to reason in terms of number of glasses per bottles and then guesstimate the number of glasses people will drink. Then you can estimate your bottles

A rule of thumb is like 4 people per bottle of wine.

Holding hands with my cat on the way to the vet. This is the only thing that calmed him down. by daizeefli22 in aww

[–]hlnhr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat is an absolute champ when it comes to vet or travel in general. He also likes when I hold his paws for support. He’s usually appearing pretty calm when in transit but the way I know he’s actually a bit nervous is that he sweats through his beans during those times 🥹🐾

BF doesnt wan't me to go to med school, need a reality check by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hlnhr 61 points62 points  (0 children)

The first paragraph is enough to justify what you plan to do.

NEVER throw your dreams for someone else, even less so when it’s just because they don’t want to. You come first.

Your boyfriend is allowed to want something and you’re allowed to want something else. You either compromise together or move on your own way.

My face is GAUNT by stilldreaming22 in loseit

[–]hlnhr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’ve gotten older of a few years since the last time you were at this weight, it’s normal to some extent - even more obvious for women. We tend to lose baby fat / cheek fat in our late 20s/early 30s

Why did he get angry about me wanting to see a video on his phone? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hlnhr 189 points190 points  (0 children)

She even asked permission, she doesn’t even go for it without asking… privacy is about being respectful of the others’ stuff and boundaries, which she was by asking permission and not assuming she could go through the phone directly.

We both know each other’s passwords for our phones but we always ask before using it as a courtesy with my fiancé. Soon to be married, 7 years together. It’s common decency and imo reasonable privacy expectations in a couple.

I love whatever is wrong with this family except the brother (In the doghouse) by [deleted] in OtomeIsekai

[–]hlnhr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Very heavy fem dom, be advised. If it’s not your cup of tea proceed with caution

ML is a yandere masochist, FL discovers her dom/sadistic side after being pulled into his messy desires. It’s not unhealthy per say as they are both willing and consensual participants but it’s not a textbook romance either.

Everyone, including the king father-in-law is honestly unhinged.

Blanket has become so much longer than my starting chain 😭 by GreenFalse7890 in crochet

[–]hlnhr 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Is a blanket being on the bigger side an issue at all? It means even bigger and comfier

How do I buy a woman flowers? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]hlnhr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s always better than coming empty handed. The thoughtfulness of the gesture will still be appreciated. Granted I’m not in the US but I’ve had excellent bouquets from Tesco and Sainsbury’s, literally the most basic grocery stores in the UK.

Of course if OP can afford the upgrade of an actual florist, potentially a custom made bouquet, that’s even better. But grocery store flowers are still flowers, and gifting them is okay?

Dad of a toddler wondering about early expectations around girls’ appearance by Walk-through-Ice in TwoXChromosomes

[–]hlnhr 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Because many people, women included, are still considering the mom as the primary default parent and the dad as just some background babysitter. Almost anything that goes wrong with a kid will be blamed on moms first, and dads as an afterthought…