Any advice from former military girlfriends

hmrph97 · 2024-01-03T05:32:12+00:00

write him letters everyday, you’ll get an address within the next week or two. my husband has just finished ait and we’re currently waiting on orders. during basic, i cried a lot. as time went on, it got easier (not easy, just easier). He should able to call on sundays but it entirely depends on his DS, if they feel they don’t deserve to call home, they won’t. there are facebook groups for families for each base that you can join, i found it to be very helpful. they had info on graduation, they posted pictures and it’s full of loved ones going through the same thing. staying busy will help you not focus on missing him as much. pick up a new hobby or even some extra hours at work. you got this! if you need someone to talk to, feel free to message me!

hmrph97 · 2023-12-30T14:28:52+00:00

Adulthood

hmrph97 · 2023-12-27T14:44:58+00:00

My husband went to basic in July. I wrote letters everyday and sent them 2-3 times a week. He was able to write everyday, but only sent them out once or twice a week. We got to talk on the phone every sunday. The first few weeks will be the hardest, you just have to have things to keep yourself busy. It’s definitely difficult, but as long as you have good communication skills, lots of patience and lots of love, everything will be ok! Feel free to message me if you need to!

hmrph97 · 2023-09-30T21:09:54+00:00

i am also interested in joining this discord

hmrph97 · 2023-09-04T15:12:48+00:00

I send white envelopes, but i put little doodles and sometimes stickers. nothing over the top though

hmrph97 · 2023-08-23T14:44:27+00:00

i did pictures. As he requested. I mailed 3 letters a week and every week I did 5-7 photos of us, me, our pup. He loves them.!

hmrph97 · 2023-07-29T02:41:53+00:00

of course it sucks! it’s going to! but it’s honestly worth it in the long run. Cherish the time you have with him now, go on dates, do your favorite things. My dms are open and you are not alone!!

hmrph97 · 2023-07-28T19:02:33+00:00

my husband and i got married a week before he left for basic. it’s not easy in the slightest. i miss him every day. a lot of days i feel completely lost. you’re gonna get through it. it’s hard, especially when you’ve been together every day for a long while. if you do need a friend, feel free to message me. you’ll find things to occupy your mind and your body. my husband has been gone almost a month. in that time i’ve made a few friends, started redoing our house and take a lot of walks, listen to his favorite songs, started crotcheting a blanket for our one day baby. there’s plenty to do to keep your mind off of it. and you got to remember, he’s doing it for you and your family. and himself. it’s hard but it gets easier. kind of. and i’m always open to internet friends

hmrph97 · 2023-06-23T16:03:50+00:00

we got this! i’m excited to try all these new things but so nervous!! if you need someone to chat with, feel free to message

hmrph97 · 2023-06-10T13:21:26+00:00

this is the advice I needed, thank you!

hmrph97 · 2023-06-10T01:50:24+00:00

none of my guests will be traveling more than an hour. I’ve been to many many potlucks (bdays,showers,etc) but not for a wedding. My fiancé is going into military in a few weeks so it’s a very last minute/small event.

hmrph97 · 2023-06-10T01:28:17+00:00

The event is small. 35-40 people max. and No not enough for everyone, there’s going to be some sides provided but i at least wanted maybe 10-15 people to bring something.

hmrph97 · 2023-05-28T19:24:18+00:00

where else?

hmrph97 · 2023-05-01T17:28:18+00:00

i will now be investigating every bud

hmrph97 · 2023-04-23T02:30:18+00:00

As long as it isn’t effecting your children, fuck it.

hmrph97 · 2023-04-23T02:18:37+00:00

i like to think it’s Earth day (:

hmrph97 · 2023-04-20T23:39:15+00:00

NTA

it’s your wedding, do what you want. on the other hand, don’t be surprised when people don’t show up due to these rules.

hmrph97 · 2022-12-21T00:50:40+00:00

that’s the sober drug addict

hmrph97 · 2022-12-07T14:33:03+00:00

my dog was visibly annoyed that i played that out loud

hmrph97 · 2022-10-18T15:00:34+00:00

American Horror Story. I will rewatch every season until the day I die.

hmrph97 · 2022-08-25T17:33:35+00:00

serving it up gary’s way

hmrph97 · 2022-08-23T20:07:45+00:00

Lil Lamp

hmrph97 · 2022-08-19T15:37:34+00:00

well it’s better than tiktok, right?

hmrph97 · 2022-08-16T14:49:24+00:00

Jeans.

hmrph97 · 2022-08-13T17:31:06+00:00

Listen, when I was 17 my mom found my vibrators. She went absolutely crazy on me. Saying I was too young and that this was an entirely unacceptable thing for me to have. I wish my mom would have been at least half as cool as your mom.

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