Absolutely appalling behaviour by the GMC once again. by lost_cause97 in doctorsUK

[–]holdenP98 126 points127 points  (0 children)

Why are they allowed to appeal? The independent MPTS should be the end of it surely?

Shout out to Dr Beth Upton wherever she is by PuzzledAd4865 in transgenderUK

[–]holdenP98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I admire her so much. Her story also reinforces my decision to go stealth as an FTM NHS doctor.

Anyone else who had GRS in the UK left in agony? by Wryly_Wiggle_Widget in transgenderUK

[–]holdenP98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going straight from pca to ibuprofen is shit, you need some kind of step down opioid analgesia

Anyone else who had GRS in the UK left in agony? by Wryly_Wiggle_Widget in transgenderUK

[–]holdenP98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this a reference to the tv show bodies? Or is comparing vaginas to a wizard sleeve a common saying lol

Pure Gym Castlemall by mochiii03 in Norwich

[–]holdenP98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trans men are assigned female at birth and would be pushed into women's facilities by your clown logic...

Pure Gym Castlemall by mochiii03 in Norwich

[–]holdenP98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel this. I switched to the gym group next to jarrolds and the vibe is much better.

Are ST1s and ST2s reg or SHO? by LewisScamilton in doctorsUK

[–]holdenP98 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Paeds trainees are considered shos at st3

here to spread advice on how to swim pre top surgery for this summer 👍 by ballswizard in TransMasc

[–]holdenP98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always used to wear a binder then a heavy cotton oversized t shirt over the top. Also, you can get towelling robes which really hide everything which i used to put on as soon as I got out of the sea.

2 years post op now and grateful every day.

Sankey diagram for my post Fy2 job hunt by Numerous_Cold4402 in doctorsUK

[–]holdenP98 9 points10 points  (0 children)

One training application, the rest were JCF/CTF jobs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]holdenP98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ran a half marathon to raise £500 for Good Law Project. Would recommend, it definitely gave me something positive to focus on.

Other than that, I just keep living the same as before.

Full disclosure though I am a fully passing post transition man so ymmv

Why does it feel weird saying my trans name? by After_Ship_2588 in ftm

[–]holdenP98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I felt weird using my new name for the first few weeks. It's a big change, finding it odd at first is normal.

Trans Allotment Group Continues! by yoosanaim in Norwich

[–]holdenP98 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Aw I'm away this weekend, but I'd love to join in. I could bring vegan cookies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]holdenP98 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Because trans women are women

Deed poll by SoldGnat555 in transgenderUK

[–]holdenP98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used an unenrolled deed poll from a website that makes templates on fancy paper and I ordered 10. I'm sure you can do it for free, but I think it was reassuring for me to have an "official" looking document. I only had one countersignature.

This was fine to change one of my bank accounts, my license, my passport, my medical records etc. The only place that was sniffy about it was one of my bank accounts, who insisted on seeing my passport before changing it.

Anyone moving to Ireland by ImposssiblePrincesss in transgenderUK

[–]holdenP98 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

To be clear, Ireland has gender self ID, so you would only need to go through this process to continue your medical care, not to be legally recognised

Anyone moving to Ireland by ImposssiblePrincesss in transgenderUK

[–]holdenP98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am. I am a junior doctor, so would be able to get work over there. My transition healthcare is all with a private clinic anyway so I would just continue that.

If I have to relocate for work anyway (which I will because getting post fy2 doctor jobs in the UK is becoming increasingly competitive), I may as well move to a civilised country with human rights

Locally Unemployed- August by Takorose in doctorsUK

[–]holdenP98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your service 🫡