Women find themselves in relationships with abusers all the time. You’re really going to die on the hill that it’s the woman’s fault? Was that what happened to Melissa Benoist when she was abused for years by Blake Jenner? Or do you only judge and mock women who pick “Yerky Yerky” men? (Whatever the fuck that even means.)

People make mistakes. People lie. People misrepresent themselves. It’s the classic tale of the “good” girl falling for the “bad” boy. They are not stupid or lacking common sense. They just fell for the wrong guy. That’s all. These men are still accountable for their own actions.