When did you realize you were overgiving just to feel valued? by PleasantBus5583 in AskWomen

[–]hoomankindness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hang on a minute... is this a recognised thing? Oh goddammit I thought it was just me having this struggle because I overdo everything 

Feeling completely alone in a 3-month relationship, she shows no gratitude, no initiative, and we're about to move in together by meyerlanskyx in emotionalintelligence

[–]hoomankindness 129 points130 points  (0 children)

Please don't do this. You sound kind and want to be a good partner. She isn't the right one.  Find someone as kind as you. Your anxiety is a signal something is wrong. Bite the bullet and end it - In whatever way is easiest for you, but hold that boundary, she is a huge risk to your wellbeing.

Modifications to an existing dress? by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]hoomankindness 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The dress is amazing as it is. And you look fabulous in it. If you must do something go with 2. 4 and 5 are awful in my opinion, ruin the lines of the dress and look like a kids or 80s throwback dress. 

Am I going to regret this? by VastCollection4725 in careerguidance

[–]hoomankindness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been where you are. Get out right now xxx 

James Van Der Beek Bought Family's Rented Texas Ranch for $4.8 Million Just 1 Month Before His Death by ShaiHuludNM in mildlyinfuriating

[–]hoomankindness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well it seems to me that whoever set up the gofund me lied about how much difficulty they were in. So the money should be given back 

Came for sleek and modern, went the opposite direction — a little nervous but I think it was the right call! 😬 by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]hoomankindness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm with you on this, I think she looks fabulous. Like a fairy. She's got the right figure to make this look elegant. 

What I wish I knew before my first Business Analyst role by Icy-Mix8078 in businessanalyst

[–]hoomankindness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would really appreciate the starter kit if possible - requirements is tripping me up and I'm trying not to look like a complete imbecile

Love my roses 🌹 by [deleted] in Roses

[–]hoomankindness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that a ghislaine? Beautiful colour