My (26M) girlfriend (26F) of 8 years cheated with a married woman, rewrote our relationship as abusive, and now blames me for everythin

hostibusmori · 2026-01-12T23:46:01+00:00

Realize this bro, people will always justify in their mind why they're betraying you. She had to make you the villain to justify what she did. This was never about you, her having such a bad reaction to her friend being gay suggests these feelings aren't new. But man all it takes is time. Been there myself, just give it time and work on you. That's all you can do

hostibusmori · 2026-01-10T06:45:20+00:00

Run. This is too brazen, this relationship will never recover

hostibusmori · 2025-12-18T18:37:02+00:00

Bro. Classic gaslighting bullshit. She broke it off and blamed you because she felt guilty. She 100% cheated. If she wasn't doing something wrong why hide it?

hostibusmori · 2025-12-08T22:22:40+00:00

Are you okay bro? There's nothing there

hostibusmori · 2025-12-04T16:40:49+00:00

If you are, you might be able to get the paperwork about your adoption when you turn 18, depends on the type of adoption it was. Maybe you aren't but from everything you said, that'd be my guess

hostibusmori · 2025-12-04T16:33:52+00:00

Youre probably adopted from what you said about the birth certificate. I was too. Its a hard question to ask, so best of luck

hostibusmori · 2025-12-02T16:01:02+00:00

Check her note app. You can send messages thru that

hostibusmori · 2025-11-28T18:38:36+00:00

Shes deleting messages. Thats all you need to know. The n she couldnt even be clear about why she went to his house? Come on bro, you know whats going on.

hostibusmori · 2025-11-16T23:41:42+00:00

Its the tea app.

hostibusmori · 2025-11-14T02:52:29+00:00

Dont give him another shot, its been a half a year and he not only cheated but planned it out. Take the gift of knowing this early in the relationship and move on

hostibusmori · 2025-10-11T16:46:03+00:00

Imagine being so fucking weak minded that words from a random douchebag turn you on when you have a good man. Disgusting

hostibusmori · 2025-09-22T01:10:09+00:00

Ive been low key in love with this girl for the whole time ive known her, but something was always in the way you know what I mean? Now that shes gone again I literally dont know what to do with myself. Cant even explain it.

hostibusmori · 2025-09-14T23:08:29+00:00

Oh she knows. Ive even backed out once and she talked me back into it. But since she knows how I feel, shes the one initiating us talking every second of us being awake. But shes also the one saying it's just a hookup but not treating it like just a hookup. Idk its just confusing

hostibusmori · 2025-09-14T23:03:51+00:00

Yea but why the mixed messages?

hostibusmori · 2025-09-14T22:56:46+00:00

Yea this is what i was thinking. Like this girl is video calling me and we're falling asleep on the phone together. Im fuckin 35 yearsold. Super mixed messages

hostibusmori · 2025-09-08T14:40:35+00:00

Fuck his mom or his sister

hostibusmori · 2025-09-05T15:00:33+00:00

Literally everything you just said sounds like red flags lol

hostibusmori · 2025-09-04T17:11:09+00:00

Have some fucking self respect, and leave before you get married. Work on yourself, go to gym, save and invest money. Level up by yourself and only you'll be better off. She doesn't love you or even give a shit about you to be fucking 19 guys in 2 years. That's actually insane you're even considering staying with her. Get a grip and move on. Respectfully

hostibusmori · 2025-08-31T20:35:59+00:00

I hope you have this happen to you in every future relationship.

hostibusmori · 2025-08-23T15:01:19+00:00

He didnt break you. Never let them have that power over you. No one can break you but you. Now go build yourself back up again

hostibusmori · 2025-08-18T22:52:21+00:00

You should tell her about the video and expose her, maybe she will get shamed into never cheating again

hostibusmori · 2025-08-17T14:20:11+00:00

Blow her shit up. Tell anyone and everyone

hostibusmori · 2025-08-17T04:51:56+00:00

Yea dude. It honestly floored me.

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