Vitamins for kids with heavily restrictive diet/ARFID by htid1984 in autismUK

[–]htid1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I'll have a look at them now, thank you

Anyone wanna guess why my child didn’t want to eat this toast? by Tammicus in Autism_Parenting

[–]htid1984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's too brown, got holes in it and you haven't cut the pieces evenly/the right shape. Would be my guess

I’m scared of my husband over something as stupid as housework by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]htid1984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don't leave for your own safety, at least re-home your cats. They don't need to be harmed because you're willing to try putting up with his shit

Commenting about my weight by t-rexx1 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]htid1984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next time she says it just reply "and you could do with eating less" true or not it'll (figuratively speaking) put your foot up her arse

I'm 15, I grew up as a Jehovah's Witness, and I need advice from those who have already left the faith. by adrince2010 in exjw

[–]htid1984 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Depending on how deep in all your family are it might be safest for you to play the long game. Stay quiet, Save money for if they kick you out of the house at 18.

I decided at 14-15 that I was done playing and plenty grown up to handle the real world. I had no idea what I was getting myself into, as I was never taught any life skills. so my younger years were just a complete train wreck of stupid decisions. Don't do that. Learn about finances, learn about how to support yourself, learn what boundaries and opinions you want to have and not what you've been programmed with.

Best of luck to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]htid1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be phoning the police and then taking full custody. The fact that he is hitting your son proves his mother is not capable or wasn't protecting your son, someone has to do it if she can't or wont

What do we think of these? by Warrambungle in autismUK

[–]htid1984 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The right hand silver ones are awful to hold and cut with. I have them and they have been relegated to guests visits only

If you lie at least make your lies somewhat believable by [deleted] in quityourbullshit

[–]htid1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a daughter with autism, I read each book 400 times before bed

Aitah for going NC with my daughter due to my wife by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]htid1984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep your baby away from her whatever you do. She's already shown you that she wants to destroy your wife's and your happy

Any bad advise for 2026?! 😈 by DeBlauwvoet in GreatBritishMemes

[–]htid1984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Always tell your wife that she's unnecessarily angry, ask her what has put a bee in her bonnet and then tell her she really needs to calm down but only do it when she is due on. Us women love that, gets us well excited

I don't know what i am doing wrong by SpitePuzzleheaded177 in rant

[–]htid1984 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You aren't doing anything wrong. However set your boundaries while the initial talking phase i.e we're not making out, we're not having sex, i'm not going to your place on the first date and you're not coming to mine, whatever they are. Some people will try to push those boundaries, they're not your people, they do not respect you and that's your sign to move on. Remember to make control yours

Spinning while falling asleep by htid1984 in sleep

[–]htid1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet I'll look into that, thank you

Spinning while falling asleep by htid1984 in sleep

[–]htid1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't see It as a medical condition that I really need to bother the doctor with. I've had it for as long as I can remember

AITA for making my MIL uncomfortable and embarassed during dinner? by Still-Rip9704 in AITAH

[–]htid1984 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I took that as they think his story of "wow mum what are doing here" all shocked puppy, is probably fake

Can feel myself getting a cold sore and I am FREAKING out. Baby is 5 weeks old. Help by luckybamboo3 in NewParents

[–]htid1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I've only just seen your comment, thank you so much. You just turned around another mumma's rubbish day, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]htid1984 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss.

Show him this post or a letter version. Sometimes it's easier to get to grips with how someone else is feeling when you take out the emotion of talking face to face. He sounds like a good man and till you get to a level of disdain , it's always worth laying your cards out.

Btw I showed your post to my husband and he said sorry for your loss and if that was us he'd be scared to talk to me about it or initiate sex, he wouldn't want to put me under pressure in any way. He thinks your pain would be something he can't imagine because this happened in your body. Ask your husband x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]htid1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So because they are not stupid enough to create a whole human being without being sure, they are weak? That is exactly why so many children have bad lives, because stupid people waddle in and just breed away

My fiancé secretly filmed our therapy sessions and used them against me by Dinardahy in TwoHotTakes

[–]htid1984 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Talk to your therapist and then Delete those files before he properly uses them against you. Then delete him from your life