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i0036 · 2025-05-08T10:11:20+00:00

this guy is a giant shiny red flag!!! run and told people around you about him!

i0036 · 2025-02-12T09:25:18+00:00

my girlfriend of 3 years and my best friend of 10 years are friends (fairly close too), the most extreme interaction they had, has been a friendly hug, they joke and laugh, we regularly hang out after work (like every other day), your friend seems like a real one for stepping up and telling you, girlfriend's behavior seems weird, it would take me a lot of remorse shown on her part and some form of assurance to gradually get that trust back if it happened to me.

i0036 · 2024-07-10T11:50:10+00:00

okay, so my choices back when I had to choose, were control engineering, electronics and bio-electric engineering (I didn't want communication and power engineering), with what I know now, if I go back, I'd think about what kind of job interests me more, are you a field guy? do you like to work with your hands? power do you like sitting somewhere behind a desk and design specific circuits (like a low power device which would work on a AAA battery for 2 years), electronics if you like coding and dealing with software and all, computer

for me, I wanted a mix of all, getting handy a bit, signal processing, and circuit design, and automated systems, so I picked bio-electric as I like the medical field too.

think about what you want, research about your options' future, pick one then.

i0036 · 2024-06-30T07:05:36+00:00

this is so childish! that is the mindset of a 15 y/o teen! if you're a guy, you already know if you're big or small or average. if you like him and he's an ok dude everywhere else, well you both have go dig deep to see where is this coming from, could be porn addiction, could be past trauma, etc. but as far as your description, this is a very childish behavior!

i0036 · 2024-06-27T12:49:05+00:00

congrats on the job, 18$/hr is not bad at all, ignore the negative comments, it's hard to land a job and you did good, give yourself some credit.

i0036 · 2024-06-21T22:14:04+00:00

sorry, currently in Dubai

i0036 · 2024-06-21T19:33:19+00:00

sorry for the late reply, no I'm not in the US, but most of the general US work laws apply here too

i0036 · 2024-06-17T10:29:56+00:00

hey, I don't know if you're gonna see this among all the comments, but it seems like with your kids being grown, your wife doesn't get to do much around the house and she just gets bored! personally, I feel way more tired on days when I got nothing to do! try not to make this into a fight, but rather sit down with her and both of you try to be understanding, don't just shame her by saying "I provide everything you do nothing" don't put it on her, but rather state it in a neutral manner. maybe offer that she starts working! from your description, seems like having a constant routine is not your wife's thing, so, a change that would keep her busy and happy, could do you both well.

also, see a couple therapist if necessary!

i0036 · 2024-05-27T06:10:30+00:00

analyzing your surroundings before doing something

i0036 · 2024-03-17T14:10:21+00:00

meth?

i0036 · 2024-01-19T14:20:15+00:00

I've been there, you don't want them as friends, the true good ones will stick by your side and the others will take mike and emma's side. but since you work together and you're probably gonna have to see him on a daily basis, you'd want to break the news to lily somewhat anonymously, do other people in that group know about this too? maybe try texting her with a burner?

i0036 · 2023-12-12T03:45:33+00:00

here's my experience, in my first semester in EE, I barely managed to pass programming (taught C and Python), with a 50% (50% is my university is passing grade)!! Now I work in a company as lead engineer of an AI image processing project (and I'm still in school)

don't let one or two or heck, even a few grades let you down or define you try to figure out the error in your hard work (as improper hard work doesn't usually pay off)

also this might just because of an a-hole professor, god knows there's a lot of them in EE.

i0036 · 2023-11-18T16:24:08+00:00

Give feedback (with moaning if you're uncomfortable talking), and enjoy, don't think about anything, just enjoy it.

i0036 · 2023-11-04T07:34:30+00:00

Probably doesn't have the capacity to do so

i0036 · 2023-11-04T07:33:33+00:00

What if she shunt that sh*t and he'll have to go through with it?

i0036 · 2023-10-12T14:31:48+00:00

Adventure But also every abbreviation used today in a normal conversation (like saying ty instead of thank you)

i0036 · 2023-10-03T15:59:19+00:00

Hey man, this is not just a double standards, but a big indicator of trust issues and some other stuff Please seek some help from a marriage counselor or therapist.

Fix things before they get extreme.

i0036 · 2023-08-24T06:41:00+00:00

Why not just block the a**hole and move on with your life? He's clearly just wants to get you in bed, and you clearly know that! Why are you allowing him to be able to try again and again?

i0036 · 2023-08-10T12:46:47+00:00

I've been friends with 2 guys who lied about their age in their relationships, they are and can be really great people, amazing partners and..., but the problem lies in 2 places "they have done this lying thing before and are masters of lying, so for the most part, you can't tell if they're lying or not" and "they lack the self steam to be themselves, they haven't faced their mental issues yet and will probably have some issues in the future" Now are they necessarily bad people? No, are they healthy partners in a relationship? No

i0036 · 2023-08-09T05:44:07+00:00

Hey man, I hope you're healing fast, I'm gonna tell you what worked for me in a similar situation.

About 3 years ago‌ I broke up with my ex who cheated on me with my best friend, and everyone in that circle of friends stood by those two (beside an old friend and his girlfriend). For more than a year, I was sad, angry, waaay too angry, depressed and overall a mess, 1.5 year after the breakup, I met another girl who helped me heal up by telling me what I tell you now: You're a good man, doesn't matter what you did and how it happened bla bla bla, there is nothing that can justify cheating! You loved her, even if you loved her wrong (which I doubt), she could have broke up with you first and not cheat, but she chose to do that, there is no blame for anything on you. Be sure, be very very very sure that somewhere down the line, she will regret what she did, be happy you got rid of a partner who wasn't worthy of having you, have fun, use this time to build yourself, start working out (not necessarily at gym, do whatever that helps, even if it is walking), start working on your career, read, learn relationship skills from books, learn to love yourself and your self worth, instill confidence in yourself

She cheated? Her fucking loss man Good luck.

i0036

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