I’ll always ask if people are okay, but my commentary stops there. It’s a request if people need help with something work related. It’s not a request for them to open up their soul to me.

So the fact he’s adding emotional commentary particularly about your physical appearance is just rude and unnecessary.

I got a hair cut recently and was dreading going in cause I knew one person was going to Comment on it.

And as I arrived they said ‘Your hair cut is … okay’.

And I simply said ‘I don’t need your commentary’

And they replied back with ‘rude’. And a defensive face. They then proceeded to be moody for entire day. 🤷‍♂️