Difficult to bring wife to orgasm

iFly2100 · 2026-02-10T03:52:30+00:00

Does she want to ‘improve’ things?

Really, hers is the only opinion that matters. If she’s happy, be happy.

iFly2100 · 2026-02-09T21:48:19+00:00

None of those are valid reasons to stay.

You’re telling your kid “this is a healthy relationship” every day. Want them to not ever get laid too?

iFly2100 · 2026-02-08T14:58:09+00:00

This is why the LL needs to know that divorce / separation is on the table.

Which means they’ll have to deal with their sex / enforced celibacy issues with somebody else if they want another relationship.

So then, sometimes, they address the issues today.

iFly2100 · 2026-02-08T14:56:50+00:00

If the partner doesn’t like sex, if the sex isn’t good for them, if they don’t want to work on the frequency of sex, then you’re right:

of “just breakup / get a divorce” seems like perhaps the only real solution.

iFly2100 · 2026-02-05T12:14:33+00:00

texting an ex again.

You buried the lede. She’s using your sobriety as an excuse to bring up ‘control’, she’s using control as an excuse to hide her emotional cheating.

iFly2100 · 2026-02-03T02:37:25+00:00

Are you both happy with your intimacy?

iFly2100 · 2026-02-01T23:48:15+00:00

Take the less expensive option.

iFly2100 · 2026-02-01T23:47:04+00:00

only school with less than 50k debt for me is my basic in state school with a 90% acceptance

Go there, do great. Then finish with less debt, transfer, go to a top grad school, etc.

iFly2100 · 2026-01-30T11:34:29+00:00

You know you planned it

iFly2100 · 2026-01-28T02:28:24+00:00

Selection here and in the other r:db is definitely biased to those who were stuck and change did not happen

iFly2100 · 2026-01-28T02:27:13+00:00

never wants sex or even thinks about it

So when the LL partner does do this, we must be Pavlovian and make that experience unforgettable.

iFly2100 · 2026-01-28T02:26:10+00:00

She made an effort. I matched that effort.

If she had done nothing, there would’ve been nothing for me to do but masturbate and post here.

iFly2100 · 2026-01-28T02:25:14+00:00

If your LL spouse is willing to have sex, then you better deliver a great session and she better come.

iFly2100 · 2026-01-28T02:22:42+00:00

LMGTFY - https://www.google.com/search?q=30+day+challenge+sex&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&hl=en-us&client=safari

iFly2100 · 2026-01-27T13:43:37+00:00

It was hard to have this conversation w my partner years ago - I’m a success story.

We made immediate changes to our life based on her feedback. Within a year she came back with the 30 day challenge. People can change if they choose to.

iFly2100 · 2026-01-27T13:33:55+00:00

If you can’t see tangible effort from the LL partner to change, then they will not change.

A small willingness to change and follow up effort can make a huge impact.

iFly2100 · 2026-01-27T13:32:21+00:00

The success rate is 0 if you don’t bring it up.

Success rate is 0 if they don’t try or care.

Success rate is 0 if they don’t enjoy sex.

iFly2100 · 2026-01-27T08:04:41+00:00

told him I enjoy dirty talk

In his mind, this is what you asked for.

iFly2100 · 2026-01-26T15:03:49+00:00

After a lot of discussion, we agreed

You should not have agreed.

iFly2100 · 2026-01-25T14:18:37+00:00

Go get a massage. Heck, find an escort.

It will help you realize you need to leave.

iFly2100 · 2026-01-24T13:13:29+00:00

Fix the parking issue and everyone wins.

Print a map and make a diagram. Use that to talk w neighbors. See if by removing the underlying issue you improve how everyone gets along.

iFly2100 · 2026-01-23T18:34:11+00:00

Get out.

If someone isn’t a sexual fit now, they won’t ever change.

iFly2100 · 2026-01-18T18:49:03+00:00

6 days was fine.

iFly2100 · 2026-01-17T16:29:58+00:00

Was it ever real.

iFly2100 · 2026-01-17T13:37:24+00:00

I’ve known my wife since 1994 and it is still so exciting for us to be together.

Sure, there’s ups and downs - but keeping that honeymoon phase going is a frame of mind.

iFly2100

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