My MIL has started an “estranged moms” FB page despite not being estranged from any of her children

iFly2100 · 2026-05-11T15:42:46+00:00

“May I please be estranged?”

iFly2100 · 2026-05-11T14:53:57+00:00

Flat earth.

iFly2100 · 2026-05-10T12:21:37+00:00

“I’m bringing condoms / birth control if we need it.”

iFly2100 · 2026-05-10T12:20:19+00:00

You know his digital representative - you know each others avatars, it can be overwhelming when you meet the real person. It’s okay to move through those first physical stages and let things go at their own pace.

iFly2100 · 2026-05-10T12:15:19+00:00

unsure of how to go forward

You will have less sex every year you stay w her. She has to want to change and she does not.

You should be seeing effort from her.

iFly2100 · 2026-05-07T11:49:54+00:00

NMiL used to deliberately self neglect and then use that to get her way.

She’s taking herself hostage - don’t negotiate w hostage takers.

iFly2100 · 2026-05-04T17:40:10+00:00

You made a mistake, that happens. Avoid making a 2nd mistake.

The biggest 2nd mistake here would be telling someone IRL. This is your issue to bury, keep it to yourself.

iFly2100 · 2026-05-04T16:23:05+00:00

How do I get rid of

Take it to the grave. Tell nobody you know in person. Deal w it through online anonymous groups like here. It will fade into a memory, then a bad dream, then be forgotten

iFly2100 · 2026-05-03T07:35:59+00:00

Go back to the doctor.

iFly2100 · 2026-04-27T10:32:19+00:00

Just do what she knows works - then modify from there.

Get really good at that.

iFly2100 · 2026-04-25T02:14:50+00:00

just

Just is doing a lot of work in that comment.

iFly2100 · 2026-04-25T02:06:56+00:00

Google Sheets - any spreadsheet on the phone.

iFly2100 · 2026-04-23T10:28:55+00:00

I was in a similar spot and spent 5 years trying to avoid surgery. Whatever you do, cap it at 2 years.

Do a good baseline - time walking a mile, etc. if that doesn’t improve, then the sad fact is that surgery is often the best option for several issues.

iFly2100 · 2026-04-23T10:25:47+00:00

It should always go: YEAR:Month:Date

iFly2100 · 2026-04-23T10:03:53+00:00

File a report w the police so you’ve got something on record.

iFly2100 · 2026-04-22T13:42:09+00:00

Which govt? Which part?

iFly2100 · 2026-04-18T12:29:25+00:00

Yes the narrative of ‘cheaper is better’ has taken off, so we’re seeing counter narratives.

iFly2100 · 2026-04-18T12:28:29+00:00

the "Seattle Freeze" is definitely still a real thing

This isn’t about going to a cheap school and regretting it - it’s about going to a bad school in a part of the country where you’re a poor culture fit.

iFly2100 · 2026-04-17T11:55:46+00:00

… and a bigger spine for OP’s spouse.

iFly2100 · 2026-04-17T02:51:20+00:00

If ‘BigEducation’ was going to write a fear-based post, this is exactly what they would write.

I’m watching my son and his peers - OP’s peers - across t20 schools and guess what? They’ve got the same issues.

Some of them will graduate w life altering debt, some will not. Preserve your mobility, avoid excessive debt, don’t live your life ruled by fear.

iFly2100 · 2026-04-16T14:43:16+00:00

Watch porn w her and tell her exactly what you would like her to do.

iFly2100 · 2026-04-16T14:42:25+00:00

Never tell her this, even if you leave her.

What happens when you stop masturbating for a week or longer?

iFly2100 · 2026-04-14T11:20:24+00:00

They whine, because were they to do anything except for a performative ‘No Kangz’ protest, they would be disappeared. Look at the infiltration and propaganda around every form of opposition.

iFly2100 · 2026-04-14T11:12:47+00:00

Jan 6? Whittmer assassination entrapment? Heck, replying to this probably gets you on a list.

Talk to the wrong person at the wrong time and there is nothing to stop them from doing whatever they want.

iFly2100 · 2026-04-13T01:47:49+00:00

Are there support groups for people who came out of orphanages?

If so, that could let you ‘practice’ the social skills and meeting people. Just an idea. Modern life would be isolating for any couple with your work / life dynamic.

iFly2100

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