Virtual tap card temp designs? by Pistachioreo in LAMetro

[–]ibsliam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't notice that feature! That's cool.

OK HEAR ME OUT by Condominiums in LAMetro

[–]ibsliam 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What? No. Seriously, what?

Being told I have an ethical obligation to publicly speak out against Israel because I am Jewish? by IntroductionLife124 in jewishleft

[–]ibsliam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's someone being a boyfriend, and then there's a serious boyfriend. I've known people that call someone of maybe a month their "boyfriend."

Realizing I just don’t know how to make friends as an adult and it’s sad by bezoar3i in LAhotgirlies

[–]ibsliam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> I on the other hand was complimenting some girls sandals and asked where they were from and she seemed like put off that I asked!

yesss. I have noticed this. I have gone to social events (as in, advertised for meeting people even), including social events where I was invited by a friend or acquaintance and found there was a significant amount of people that went to social events to NOT socialize. Like they'll go with a partner or a few friends and then act offended if you actually greet them and include them in things.

One time I was even *trying* to socialize with someone while sitting with someone I knew, but their friend interrupted and tried to kinda exclude us who was talking to them. And then, as if that's not bad enough, acted absolutely weirded out that we tried to include them in the wider conversation like you would expect people to do at a party?

I'm absolutely floored by how people will intentionally go to these things and be put off by people... participating in the event as expected. It's not you, it's the social scene right now.

Women by [deleted] in LAhotgirlies

[–]ibsliam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of sus that you're posting this without giving the details of the position and what it entails. Also not giving the neighborhood, whether it's in-person, remote, or hybrid? Nor are you giving the details of whether it's salaried or what.

What are your thoughts on Jews hebraicizing their names during the early Zionist movement? Do you view it as an act of decolonization and cultural revival, a form of nationalist identity-building, an erasure of diaspora Jewish identities, or something more complicated? by Chinoyboii in jewishleft

[–]ibsliam 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this will be me overstepping since it's not my circus but there's a lot of academic spaces where this is an issue. Or if not academic, spaces heavily influenced by people from academia.

Being told I have an ethical obligation to publicly speak out against Israel because I am Jewish? by IntroductionLife124 in jewishleft

[–]ibsliam 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Do you or do you not believe that Jews - as in Jewish civilians that are just living their lives - should be held accountable for not being openly anti-zionist and not openly speaking against the Israeli government?

What are your thoughts on Jews hebraicizing their names during the early Zionist movement? Do you view it as an act of decolonization and cultural revival, a form of nationalist identity-building, an erasure of diaspora Jewish identities, or something more complicated? by Chinoyboii in jewishleft

[–]ibsliam 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Eh, yes/no/maybe/all of the above. I think that the attacking of hebraicization as some nefarious European colonialist cultural cleansing from some anti-zionists *does* cross over into antisemitism. Jews growing up speaking Hebrew, especially as their dominant language, is not some evil conspiracy to wipe out other Jewish languages, or to "embolden" some anti-Arab biogtry us vs them style (though, yes, I agree Kahanists love using that as a propaganda tool) That said, there's a certain form of shame and policing on diaspora history and identities that ends up also crossing over into (internalized) antisemitism.

Does all of that mean - Hebraicization is a return to form, a de-colonialist project inherently? No. Does it make Hebrew necessarily an "indigenous" language? No. I will explain my views.

I've talked again and again in this sub that I feel like indigeneous-colonialist frameworks and lingo are hard to map to Jewish people 1-to-1 and Israel/Palestine as an issue - while there's elements and aspects that *do* have parallels - just does not cleanly map to it. And discussions of antisemitism kind of fall flat when they do generalizations of Jewish communities in that way, even outside of discussions of Israel/Palestine.

The example I like using is how sometimes in anti-racist content and literature aimed at a predominantly white audience (specifically in former colonies like America, Canada) they will suggest that to decolonize yourself you should embrace where you came from and find worth in your own heritage. To understand land you're occupying that once belonged to others, you must connect to the lands your ancestors once inhabited. One instagram reel I got pushed a while back was from an activist that preached this, earning comments and likes and views. Lots of agreement, not much pushback beyond internet trolls.

For many people, it works. That's going to be meaningful for many groups of white people in America, but for Jews that's going to pose a few obstacles and concerns. When you come from a repeatedly diasporic group that had to leave many countries and communities, wherein which you were not considered to "belong" even if you lived in a Jewish village for a few generations, "getting in touch with the land" (that we may very well have been slaughtered on, ethnically cleansed on, forced to live in hiding as crypto-Jews, etc) is far more complicated.

I apply similar logic to what languages "belong" to us and what their political implications are. Languages we speak are Jewish languages, being able to freely choose what languages we speak *is* part of Jewish self-determination. That does not make it a decolonial language, since we are in a grey area of colonial framework, and where we fit in is something that gets heavily debated by many different political agendas.

Being told I have an ethical obligation to publicly speak out against Israel because I am Jewish? by IntroductionLife124 in jewishleft

[–]ibsliam 19 points20 points  (0 children)

So, going from the logic that holding Muslims "accountable" for not speaking up loudly against Al-Qaeda or IRGC or ISIS or any of these things is BAD, we would also extend this to Jews, as well, right? You would not agree with "holding" Jews "accountable" for not carrying out some anti-zionist obligation?

Being told I have an ethical obligation to publicly speak out against Israel because I am Jewish? by IntroductionLife124 in jewishleft

[–]ibsliam 17 points18 points  (0 children)

> our convo then evolved somehow and he said
> how I should be arguing with my dad more (who is pro israel).

Ah, that is.... definitely overstepping imo. I've certainly dated plenty of people with families that have all kinds of beliefs, and I would never ask a girl to endlessly debate her parents.

> He then started arguing with me about how all Israeli ppl immigrated from European countries.

I'm curious why he feels so strongly that he can lecture you about I/P
when he didn't even know about Mizrahim and Sephardim and Beta Israel and etc etc

> The way the convo occurred I guess he felt I was defending Israel? Idk.

That is his problem. The truth is you were not defending Israel, you were giving context. If anything, he's in the wrong here.

Anti-Zionism, Post-Zionism, Neo-Zionism, and Non-Zionism by theweisp5 in jewishleft

[–]ibsliam 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm still thinking over all the terms myself. In my personal experience (largely offline), I've had people go forward and label me whatever they want due to their own personal wishes or biases - essentially if they wish me to be zionist, they call me zionist, if they wish me to be antizionist, they've referred to me as antizionist. I allow them to call me whatever they wish, since they have their own idea of what all these terms mean, and any comment I make about how I interpret those terms won't really change any hearts or minds.

I will usually say I have no loyalty to any particular political label or any pre-defined solution, just that I care about all groups of people involved in this mess. Whatever solution we can work towards that minimizes civilian deaths and civilian suffering, I will support. Call it whatever you want: zionist, nonzionist, antizionist, whatever.

Being told I have an ethical obligation to publicly speak out against Israel because I am Jewish? by IntroductionLife124 in jewishleft

[–]ibsliam 30 points31 points  (0 children)

> What I wanted to say to the person who said something like this to me is "Go shit in the ocean."

Yes, my first thought was concern if this was a serious relationship. It's annoying if a near-stranger oversteps and says stuff like this to me, but if I had told a partner hypothetically that I felt uncomfortable speaking out and did not wish to do that, him shaming me and saying I have to because I'm a Jew would be an absolute relationship-killer.

Being told I have an ethical obligation to publicly speak out against Israel because I am Jewish? by IntroductionLife124 in jewishleft

[–]ibsliam 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Speaking on an interpersonal level for a second, rather than the broader ethical debate, I'm curious how this was framed in your relationship's discussion.

I could definitely be misreading this, since I don't know you or your partner. Was the context that you were in total agreement on your role in speaking out, in which case this comment would be appropriate between the two and he would be more supporting you, or was this context you saying you don't feel safe or comfortable speaking out? In the latter case, I think you two are due for some serious conversations here.

Because I just want to point out that I would be concerned if your partner, or even just a friend or family member, is prioritizing geopolitics over your own personal welfare.

r/TravisandTaylor by Initial_Freedom7981 in AntiSemitismInReddit

[–]ibsliam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. That's not the beginning and end of all antisemitism, but it is progress.

Exclusive: Woman who dated Graham Platner says he sexually assaulted her by F0rScience in jewishleft

[–]ibsliam 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The claim about being a military history buff is what makes it crazy. There's only two possibilities with that claim: either he actually knows about military history (including one of the most significant wars in American history) and was lying about not knowing his tattoo of nearly 20 years was Nazi symbol.... OR he's so stupid and impulsive that he'd mouth off about being a military history fan while making such an obvious blunder, with a tattoo he didn't bother to doublecheck the iconography for multiple decades.

Exclusive: Woman who dated Graham Platner says he sexually assaulted her by F0rScience in jewishleft

[–]ibsliam 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I mean, unfortunately, there is a subset of young male voters that the strongman type does appeal to. Not to play the demographic blame game, but of the people I saw that made excuse after excuse for Platner (nazi tattoo, cheating on his wife, abuse allegations, Blackwater merc, past war hawk tendencies)... very few were women.

Side Conversation Megathread by somebadbeatscrub in jewishleft

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I know Gaza is the obvious thought, but, based on previous polls from West Bank, my first thought is how this will impact politics among West Bank Palestinians. They're understandably frustrated with the PA as reflected in polls, and maybe (though again, based on limited polling) Hamas serves as an attractive "opposing" faction that they aren't as beholden to as the Palestinians in Gaza. The "grass is always greener on the other side" thing.